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Yu Kankan Entertainment
Edited by Yu Kankan Entertainment
Preface
Why do many excellent actors have a silent partner behind them? Would they have been where they are today without the support of their wives? For the famous actor He Zhengjun, his wife Fan Yu is not only the other half of his life, but also the strong backing for his career to take off.
So, what kind of sacrifice did Fan Yu make for this family? At the important moment of He Zhengjun's life, what kind of support and encouragement did she give him? Let's walk into the love world of He Zhengjun and Fan Yu together, and uncover the behind-the-scenes story of this loving couple.
1. Young He Zhengjun: The choice between ideal and reality
He Zhengjun was born in a military family, and since he was a child, he has been exposed to it since he was a child, and he is determined to become a soldier who protects his family and defends the country.
He loves military-themed film and television works, and often fantasizes that one day he can gallop on the battlefield and make achievements like a hero on the screen.
However, my father, who had experienced the baptism of war, knew the hardships of joining the army.
He worries that his son is too idealistic to withstand the hardships of a military career.
So, when He Zhengjun proposed to his father that he wanted to join the army, he was strongly opposed.
The stubborn He Zhengjun did not give up his dream because of this.
He secretly made up his mind that he must be admitted to the Central Academy of Drama and realize the ideal of protecting his family and defending the country in another way.
In that era of material scarcity, being able to be admitted to Chinese opera is something that many people dream of.
With his extraordinary perseverance and talent, He Zhengjun finally stepped into the school gate of Chinese opera as he wished.
However, this decision also brought the father-son relationship to a freezing point.
His father, who had always been strict, was very dissatisfied with He Zhengjun's insistence on learning art despite his opposition, believing that he had betrayed his expectations.
In the years that followed, the father and son rarely communicated, and He Zhengjun's life at school was not easy.
Second, the love affair with Gong Li, if you miss it, it will be a lifetime
During his studies in Chinese opera, He Zhengjun attracted the favor of many girls with his outstanding appearance and sincere and simple personality, including Gong Li, who later became an international movie star.
According to He Zhengjun's classmates, Gong Li went to He Zhengjun's dormitory many times under the pretext of discussing the issue of acting majors, but in fact it was to get close to He Zhengjun.
Usually in the class, the two are always inseparable, and it can be seen that they have a good impression of each other.
It's a pity that the introverted and shy He Zhengjun didn't notice Gong Li's intentions.
He regarded Gong Li's overtures as a simple classmate friendship, and never took the initiative to show his feelings to Gong Li.
In this way, a marriage that could have blossomed and bore fruit ended without a problem before it began.
Many years later, when Gong Li had become a hot actress, He Zhengjun realized in hindsight that he had missed a beautiful relationship.
Third, with Fan Yu, they got along with each other in the difficult years
In 1990, He Zhengjun, who was in his prime, went to Yunnan to shoot a film and television work.
During the rest of the crew, he met Fan Yu, who came to visit the class.
The kind and gentle Fan Yu quickly attracted He Zhengjun's attention.
He Zhengjun is shy by nature, but in the face of the girl he likes, he decided to take the initiative.
At a dinner held by the crew, He Zhengjun deliberately sat next to Fan Yu, toasted her, and took the opportunity to express his admiration.
Fan Yu also had a good impression of this humorous and sincere and considerate man.
The two quickly established a romantic relationship.
However, due to the particularity of He Zhengjun's work, the two got together less and left more.
During the two-year long-distance relationship, He Zhengjun spent all his savings on visiting Fan Yu and making long-distance phone calls.
In this way, in the sound of the phone, the lovers crossed the barrier of time and space and established a deep relationship.
In 1992, He Zhengjun and Fan Yu got married, but their married life was not rich.
Because He Zhengjun has not yet become famous and has a meager income, the young couple can only live in a small room of 9 square meters.
Fan Yu resolutely gave up her job and devoted herself to the family, taking care of all the housework for her husband without complaining.
He Zhengjun, who is in sight to become famous, is often on the go and has no time to take care of trivial matters at home.
Fan Yu not only has to take care of the family's diet and daily life, but also has to undertake heavy housework such as house decoration.
Fan Yu also took over these heavy tasks that should have been completed by the male owner without complaint, just to let her husband devote himself to his career.
With the support and encouragement of his wife, He Zhengjun's career is gradually on the right track.
He knows that all his achievements are inseparable from his wife's dedication and dedication.
Fourth, Zhao Gang in "Bright Sword", the pinnacle of He Zheng's military career
In 2005, He Zhengjun took over the popular war drama "Bright Sword" and played Zhao Gang, the political commissar of the 129th Division.
This role not only made He Zhengjun a household name, but also gave him the opportunity to fulfill his childhood dream of serving the country in the army.
What's more, the story in "Bright Sword" is very similar to He Zhengjun's father's experience.
He Zhengjun is determined to pay tribute to his father through his excellent acting skills, and also to obtain his father's recognition of the profession of actor.
During the filming, He Zhengjun was strict with himself and took every detail seriously.
He also consulted his father about his military career back then, and tried to make Zhao Gang's image plump and real.
The hard work paid off, and after the broadcast of "Bright Sword", He Zhengjun's superb acting skills won unanimous praise from the audience.
The majestic and amiable political commissar Zhao impressed countless audiences.
He Zhengjun also relied on this drama to establish his status as "National Political Commissar".
What makes He Zhengjun even more pleased is that when his father watched "Bright Sword", he was also proud of his son's performance.
Looking at his son's heroic appearance on the screen, his father was finally relieved and accepted He Zhengjun's identity as an actor.
This may be the biggest gain in He Zhengjun's acting career.
After "Bright Sword", He Zhengjun's acting career reached its peak.
But instead of getting lost in the flowers and applause, he cherished the time he spent with his family more and more.
At home, He Zhengjun is an ordinary husband.
Cooking, sewing and mending clothes are all chores that he enjoys tirelessly.
Although he is not good at words in front of outsiders, the way he cares for his family with his actions makes his wife feel happy and warm.
He Zhengjun also brings his professional attitude to life.
He never attends entertainment and rarely gives interviews.
For him, the most important thing is to play every role well and win the love of the audience with his works.
Fifth, leave the screen for the time being, and bury the regrets in the bottom of my heart
In 2007, He Zhengjun's father died of illness.
Because he was filming in other places, He Zhengjun couldn't see his father for the last time, which became an eternal regret in his heart.
Soon after, He Zhengjun's mother also passed away.
He Zhengjun, who lost his parents, fell into deep self-blame.
He suddenly realized that he had been so focused on his career that he had neglected his family for many years.
He Zhengjun decided to say goodbye to the screen for the time being and concentrate on taking care of his family to make up for his mistakes.
In the years when he disappeared from public view, He Zhengjun devoted all his time to his wife and children.
Accompanying his daughter to study and playing with his wife, he told his family about his belated apology in his own way.
epilogue
Now, He Zhengjun, who is over the age of six, is no longer the high-spirited teenager.
Looking back at the road he has traveled, he is full of emotion.
The road to fame was full of ups and downs, and there were many regrets in family life, but he never regretted that he chose an acting career.
What makes He Zhengjun even more grateful is the support and understanding of his wife Fan Yu over the years.
It is her dedication that has made He Zhengjun what he is today.
As He Zhengjun often said: "My wife is two years older than me, and when I got married, I had nothing." It was she who gave me a safe filming environment, so that I could become an actor as I wished. "
In the love story of He Zhengjun and Fan Yu, we see simplicity and tenacity, and we also feel the warmth of each other.
In their own way, they interpret the true meaning of "holding the hand of the son and growing old with the son".
This may be the most touching happiness in ordinary life.
He Zhengjun's life is a combination of ideals and reality, and a combination of career and family.
No matter how tortuous the road to fame is, as long as you are accompanied by your beloved, no matter how big the ordeal is, you can easily solve it.
As He Zhengjun said: "As long as we go hand in hand, the road ahead is under our feet, and tomorrow will be better."