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Yu Kankan Entertainment
Edited by Yu Kankan Entertainment
Preface
Love, how much does it cost to be happy in exchange? For this special group of actors, the emotional experience always seems to be different.
One step to fame, an unforgettable love, and love again and again, all these seem to be the inevitable fate of the actors.
Mei Ting, an actress with outstanding appearance and acting skills, her emotional path was also full of thorns.
From an ignorant girl to a mature woman, from love to marriage, she has experienced too much love and hatred, and has also witnessed the ups and downs of life.
However, it is these ups and downs that have made her happy today.
Her story may be the epitome of countless actors, let us walk into her inner world and appreciate the true meaning of love.
The girl has just grown up and ascended to the sky in one step
In 1994, a female soldier in the Art Troupe of the Nanjing Military Region accidentally starred in a TV series called "Scarlet Childlike Heart".
She is Mei Ting.
Mei Ting, who is only 19 years old, with her superb acting skills and fresh and refined appearance, plays the heroine "Chu Chu" in the play.
For a while, Mei Ting's name spread in the entertainment industry, and directors with many years of experience came to visit and threw an olive branch to this newcomer.
This drama not only opened the door to Mei Ting's acting career, but also gave her the first taste of fame.
However, Mei Ting, who is about to reach the peak of her acting career, cannot accept the invitation of the directors because she is in the military camp.
The strict management of the army and the free development of the acting career seem to be incompatible.
Mei Ting fell into the first dilemma in her life: should she continue to develop in the army, or pursue her dream of being an actor without hesitation? This question is not only about Mei Ting's future and fate, but also affects her family and friends.
After some ideological struggle, Mei Ting made a decision that was difficult for her family to accept: she submitted an application for retirement to the army and was admitted to the Central Academy of Drama.
Although this decision brought Mei Ting's relationship with her family to a freezing point, it also made her go further and further on the road of acting.
From the military to the campus, from collective life to individual struggle, Mei Ting has experienced the first transformation of her life.
She understands that there are always trade-offs on the way to pursue her dreams, and she chose to bravely face the unknown future.
Love-hate relationship with a famous director
Just as Mei Ting was learning acting skills in Chinese opera, a well-known director named Ye Daying appeared in her life.
Ye Daying, a top student of Beijing Film Academy, has directed many popular TV series.
He fell in love with Mei Ting at a glance and invited her to star in his new drama "Red Lovers".
In this drama, not only Ye Daying's golden signboard, but also Mei Ting's idol Leslie Cheung as the leading actor.
Being able to cooperate with idols and get the favor of famous directors is a dream opportunity for the fledgling Mei Ting.
Mei Ting happily accepted the invitation.
In the crew, Mei Ting once again conquered Ye Daying with her solid acting skills and dedicated work attitude.
The two collided at work and fell in love.
Ye Daying, a man who is more than ten years older than Mei Ting, used his talent and charm to capture Mei Ting's heart.
And Mei Ting, under the guidance of Ye Daying, has improved her acting skills and has become a hot new star in the entertainment industry.
However, this seemingly beautiful relationship has not stood the test of time.
With the completion of "Red Lovers", the two spend less time together and more often.
In addition, Ye Daying's reputation in the circle also made Mei Ting doubt about this relationship.
Maybe it was because of the lack of gathering and the separation of more, or maybe it was the incompatibility of personalities, Mei Ting and Ye Daying finally parted ways.
This relationship made Mei Ting taste the sweetness of love, and also made her feel emotional trauma for the first time.
She began to understand that love not only requires the efforts of two people, but also needs the test of time.
Crazy for love, give it all
Shortly after breaking up with Ye Daying, Mei Ting attended a gathering of friends and met Yan Po, an art editor who had just returned from studying in France.
Yan Po is six years older than Mei Ting, and she is an extremely talented artist.
When they met for the first time, Yan Po was attracted by Mei Ting's temperament, and Mei Ting also found a heartbeat feeling again in Yan Po's talent and demeanor.
The two hit it off at first sight and quickly established a romantic relationship.
Yan Po is a romantic and uninhibited artist, his way of thinking and attitude to life are completely different from the men Mei Ting has dated before.
Under the influence of Yan Po, Mei Ting began to try some new things and broaden her horizons.
The two traveled the world together, discussed art together, and looked forward to the future together.
In this relationship, Mei Ting felt the freedom and romance of love for the first time.
In order to take care of Mei Ting's feelings, Yan Po ignored the opposition of his family and married Mei Ting in a low-key manner after only three months of love.
After marriage, Mei Ting devoted herself to this marriage and did not hesitate to devote everything she had to support her husband's career.
She invested in Yan Po to open a studio and a café, and even when she learned that Yan Po had a dream of directing, she took out all her savings to help him shoot movies.
During the filming of "Aspirin", Mei Ting was not only an investor, but also a heroine, paving the way for Yan Po's directing career.
She believes that as long as two people work hand in hand, they will definitely be able to create a world that belongs to them.
However, the reality could not be as Mei Ting wished after all.
Shortly after the release of "Aspirin", a scandal about Yan Po's ambiguous relationship with the actress on the set reached Mei Ting's ears.
Mei Ting, who has a positive image, didn't want to believe these rumors, until one day, an insider revealed to Mei Ting the fact that Yan Po had spent the night outside.
This news was undoubtedly a bolt from the blue, which made Mei Ting feel extremely sad and angry.
She couldn't believe that she had given all her love in exchange for betrayal and deception.
This marriage, which lasted for six years, collapsed like this.
Recalling everything she has paid for this marriage in the past six years, Mei Ting has mixed feelings in her heart.
She left Yan Po, the man she had poured all her soul into.
This failed marriage made Mei Ting doubt love.
She began to think, how much does love need to pay in exchange for happiness? She also began to reflect on whether she was too idealistic and ignored the cruelty of reality.
再遇真爱,珍惜目前
The failed marriage did not make Mei Ting lose faith in love.
In 2012, Mei Ting participated in the movie "Tuina" and met a photographer named Zeng Jian on the set.
Zeng Jian is 11 years older than Mei Ting, with a mediocre appearance and a little-known name, but he touched Mei Ting's heart with sincerity and carefulness.
During the filming process, Zeng Jian always silently paid attention to Mei Ting's every move, and thoughtfully prepared everything she needed.
Although he is not good at words, he proves his love for Mei Ting with his actions.
The two quickly fell in love and entered the marriage hall hand in hand.
After marriage, Zeng Jian took great care of Mei Ting, not only taking care of housework at home, but also giving Mei Ting the greatest support in all aspects.
He accompanied Mei Ting through the best time of her life and helped Mei Ting get out of the haze of the past.
Under Zeng Jian's love, Mei Ting regained her confidence and strength, and her career reached its peak again.
Recalling her emotional experience, Mei Ting was full of emotion.
She once gave up everything for love; was also in love, covered with bruises.
But it was these ups and downs that taught her how to love and how to be loved.
Today, she has a happy family and a husband who loves her to the core, all of which are the most precious treasures in her life.
She understands that love is not achieved overnight, it requires the joint efforts and maintenance of two people.
She also understands that happiness does not fall from the sky, it needs to be cared for and managed with our hearts.
epilogue
Love is never achieved overnight.
It takes time to sharpen and it takes two people to grow together.
Mei Ting's emotional experience is the best example.
From an ignorant girl to a mature woman, from love at first sight to a long stream, she has experienced the ups and downs of love, and has also witnessed the ups and downs of life.
But it was these experiences that made her grow into a wiser, stronger woman.
After experiencing the ups and downs of life, Mei Ting finally understood that love is not about the matching of age and appearance, but about whether two people really understand each other and are willing to give everything for each other.
Her story has also inspired countless people.
She told us that although the road of love is full of thorns, as long as we have a sincere heart, we will eventually find the person who is worth entrusting for a lifetime.
And those hardships in the past will eventually turn into a precious treasure on the road of life, guiding us to a better future.
Mei Ting's life is a process of constantly pursuing the true meaning of love.
From the ignorance of the first time in love, to the dedication of love madness, to the reflection after experiencing setbacks, she has come step by step and finally found her own happiness.
Her experience may be the epitome of thousands of women.
Love is never smooth sailing, it requires us to use wisdom to manage and tolerance to care.
Only after experiencing wind and rain can you see the rainbow; Only by crossing the thorns can we reap true happiness.