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He Zhengjun: After rejecting Gong Li, he married an ordinary wife, debuted for 37 years and had zero scandals, and his father's identity was not ordinary

author:Frye talks about gossip

1. He Zhengjun at this moment: family and career are proud, and cherishing family affection is incomparable

Today's He Zhengjun has already made a name for himself in the entertainment industry. He and his beloved wife Fan Yu have spent thirty sweet years together. Recalling those good times in the past, their love is like mellow honey, which has become richer and richer after the baptism of time.

In terms of career, He Zhengjun is about to join hands with the famous director Zhang Yimou again to jointly create the annual masterpiece "Solid as a Rock". It is reported that the film is expected to be released on this year's National Day schedule, which will surely cause a new wave of heated discussions.

He Zhengjun: After rejecting Gong Li, he married an ordinary wife, debuted for 37 years and had zero scandals, and his father's identity was not ordinary

However, the opportunity for He Zhengjun and Zhang Yimou to cooperate can be traced back to his youthful and ignorant crush on Gong Li when he was young. At that time, they were still classmates and friends, and Gong Li's sunny smile deeply attracted He Zhengjun, but unfortunately due to his introverted and shy personality, he missed the best opportunity to express his heart to each other.

Today, although they have been separated for many years, they have the same perseverance and perseverance on the road of artistic creation, and they have always devoted themselves to each work.

Looking back on the past, He Zhengjun still vividly remembers the advent of his wife Fan Yu and daughter "Hugo". It was many years ago, when he was filming a movie in Yunnan, he met Fan Yu, and the two gradually developed a deep relationship that could not be separated from each other.

He Zhengjun: After rejecting Gong Li, he married an ordinary wife, debuted for 37 years and had zero scandals, and his father's identity was not ordinary

However, due to work, they had to start a long love journey in a different place. In order to maintain close contact, He Zhengjun would go to the phone booth every day to "cook porridge on the phone", and even spend a lot of salary on long-distance calls.

Until one day, Fan Yu could no longer suppress his inner emotions and bravely asked He Zhengjun to get married. At that time, he didn't understand Fan Yu's true intentions, and it wasn't until he hung up the phone that he suddenly realized that he had been proposed by her! In order to surprise Fan Yu, He Zhengjun carefully selected gifts, flew to Yunnan in person to solemnly propose to her, and then quickly entered the palace of marriage.

Second, He Zhengjun and Gong Li's campus crush

He Zhengjun: After rejecting Gong Li, he married an ordinary wife, debuted for 37 years and had zero scandals, and his father's identity was not ordinary

Talking about the secret love with Gong Li, He Zhengjun is still full of emotion. This story began in the 80s of the last century, when he was only 17 years old, he was tall and handsome, and he became the dream lover of many girls as soon as he stepped into the Chinese opera campus.

At this time, Gong Li is in the prime of her life, and her sunny smile is the perfect goddess in He Zhengjun's heart.

Portrait of Ms. Gong Li seems to be full of unspeakable concern for Mr. He Zhengjun. This lady often finds various reasons to take the initiative to invite He Zhengjun to have in-depth discussions, play musical instruments together, and even sing passionately.

He Zhengjun: After rejecting Gong Li, he married an ordinary wife, debuted for 37 years and had zero scandals, and his father's identity was not ordinary

As a result, an intimate relationship between the two characters quickly formed, and gradually gave birth to an extremely precious tacit understanding.

He Zhengjun recalled such an experience, he was about to return to his dormitory, and when he approached the door, the singing of him and Gong Li sounded in his ears. The room was filled with an intoxicating sweet atmosphere, which made it difficult for him to break the tranquility, so he had to choose to leave silently.

At that time, the crew of "Red Sorghum" was in full swing of preparation, and director Zhang Yimou took a fancy to Gong Li's unique wild beauty at a glance, and invited her to join the crew without hesitation.

He Zhengjun: After rejecting Gong Li, he married an ordinary wife, debuted for 37 years and had zero scandals, and his father's identity was not ordinary

Gong Li was extremely excited about this, but did not tell He Zhengjun the news in time.

He Zhengjun wanted to see her off at the train station in person before Gong Li left, but was dissuaded by the friends around him, and when he hesitated, Gong Li's train had already left the platform.

In this way, He Zhengjun missed the last opportunity to express his heart to Gong Li. With the success of the movie, Gong Li became famous overnight, and the scandal with Zhang Yimou began to spread.

He Zhengjun: After rejecting Gong Li, he married an ordinary wife, debuted for 37 years and had zero scandals, and his father's identity was not ordinary

Since then, the two have each shined on the road of acting, and He Zhengjun has deeply buried the memory of this secret love in his heart.

3. The story of Yunnan meeting his wife Fan Yu

The moment they met for the first time, the two seemed to have a wonderful sense of fate. Fan Yu was enthusiastic and left a deep impression on He Zhengjun. Since then, the trajectories of their lives seem to be intertwined, and the occasions for encounters have become more and more frequent.

He Zhengjun: After rejecting Gong Li, he married an ordinary wife, debuted for 37 years and had zero scandals, and his father's identity was not ordinary

Fan Yu half-jokingly said that this may be the fate of fate.

Soon after, the trip to Yunnan came to an end, and He Zhengjun had to return to Shanghai to continue his busy work. However, the relationship between them has long been like the roots of a tree that grows wildly, and it cannot be easily parted.

In order to be able to keep in touch at all times, they resolutely decided to start a long long-distance relationship.

He Zhengjun: After rejecting Gong Li, he married an ordinary wife, debuted for 37 years and had zero scandals, and his father's identity was not ordinary

At that time, long-distance relationships were difficult. Since communication technology is not yet developed, they can only rely on wired telephones to communicate. He Zhengjun had to trek through mountains and rivers to the phone booth every day, and spent a lot of time talking to Fan Yu in Yunnan.

He cut back on food and clothing, spending most of his salary on long-distance phone calls, lest any estrangement from his lover's relationship would arise.

During this period, this love across space challenged the distance of time and lasted for more than two years. In the end, Fan Yu could no longer suppress the emotions in his heart, and resolutely threw the olive branch of marriage to He Zhengjun, who was an actor.

He Zhengjun: After rejecting Gong Li, he married an ordinary wife, debuted for 37 years and had zero scandals, and his father's identity was not ordinary

In order to let Fan Yu feel this surprise, He Zhengjun carefully selected a unique wedding proposal, and without hesitation ran to Yunnan in person, conveyed to her the sincere and deep marriage proposal vows After receiving Fan Yu's warm response, they completed the marriage registration procedures without delay, and officially entered the holy hall of marriage Since then, He Zhengjun has become the most intimate husband in Fan Yu's heart with his meticulous care. They personally named this crystallization of love "Hugo".

Fourth, before his father's death, he supported starring in "Bright Sword"

For He Zhengjun, it is undoubtedly a rare opportunity to be fortunate to participate in the role of "Political Commissar Zhao" in the TV series "Bright Sword". The moment the director handed him the script, he fell into deep thought, because the crew was located in far away Shanxi, and he was worried that the long separation would affect the care of his family.

He Zhengjun: After rejecting Gong Li, he married an ordinary wife, debuted for 37 years and had zero scandals, and his father's identity was not ordinary

However, at this time, his pregnant wife Fan Yu showed great tolerance and understanding, she firmly told He Zhengjun: "If this role is really suitable for you, then pursue it bravely, don't give up this opportunity easily" He Zhengjun read the script carefully, and his heart was instantly touched - it turned out that "Political Commissar Zhao" was the 129th Division of the army where his father had served, and the play even depicted the scene of the field hospital where his father had fought.

He was so excited that he immediately shared this momentous discovery with his elderly father. However, his father just smiled indifferently and said, "This drama should be very exciting." However, behind the scenes, the father has always silently paid for his son.

He began to collect historical documents and related materials about the 129th Division, and carefully passed them on to He Zhengjun, hoping that his son could learn from them the tenacity of the troops back then.

He Zhengjun: After rejecting Gong Li, he married an ordinary wife, debuted for 37 years and had zero scandals, and his father's identity was not ordinary

With the encouragement of his wife and the support of his father, He Zhengjun strengthened his determination to go to Shanxi to shoot. Since the location of the crew is far away from home, he often records the local beauty through his mobile phone, and then sends it home to his father who is far away in Shanghai to enjoy.

Whenever he saw these familiar pictures, his father always burst into tears, as if he had returned to that era of burning passion, however, when the crew was successfully completed, He Zhengjun hurried back to Shanghai, but his father, who was nearly eighty years old, had passed away at the last moment of his life, his father held his hand tightly and told him affectionately: "Life is short, you must cherish the relatives around you."

With the gradual passage of his father's life, it was like a hammer hitting He Zhengjun's heart. With trembling knees, he faced his father's grave, clasped his beloved wife's hands, and made up his mind that he must always remember his father's teachings and devote all his strength to caring for this warm family.

He Zhengjun: After rejecting Gong Li, he married an ordinary wife, debuted for 37 years and had zero scandals, and his father's identity was not ordinary

Since then, He Zhengjun has resolutely decided to take the initiative to slow down the pace of his career and reduce the arrangement of performing arts activities, in order to squeeze out more precious time to spend with his family, devote himself to the careful tutoring of his daughter's studies, and witness and share the moment when she finally realized her wish and was successfully admitted to the ideal institution of higher learning.

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