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Recently, Zhang Jizhong's wife Du Xinglin posted a long article on Weibo, angering online violence.
From the day he chose to marry Zhang Jizhong, 31 years old, the battle has never stopped, why did netizens bite them?
Is "grandfather love" so unacceptable to the public? Or did Du Xinglin's experience make people wear colored glasses?
From a female doctor studying abroad to a female aesthetics lecturer to a director's wife, Du Xinglin's life is too wonderful.
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In 1982, In Lianyungang, Jiangsu Province, Du Xinglin was born in a family of intellectuals, and her parents took good care of her and taught her well.
Du Xinglin is often said to be "someone else's child", when he is studying, he is a "school bully", smart and clever, and he has not let his parents worry about it.
She was particularly interested in languages, with particularly good grades in English, and in high school she had the ideal of doing language work.
During college, she began to work part-time in English teaching, taught new concept English for high school students, and also worked as a teacher in foreign teacher training institutions.
Du Xinglin speaks politely, has a gentle and lovely personality, and is deeply liked by the students.
But her ambition is not here, with poetry and far away, she wants to take advantage of her youth to go out and see. When the school had the opportunity to study abroad, she got a place to go to France with excellent results.
In France, Du Xinglin has no problem at all because of his excellent language skills. She had a very comfortable study abroad career, and during her studies in France, she chose to pursue law.
In 2009, 27-year-old Du Xinglin received his doctorate.
This is why many friends of Mr. and Mrs. Zhang Jizhong call Du Xinglin "Dr. Du".
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Du Xinglin has never been a weak little woman, she is strong and soft, and her ability is more outstanding than her appearance.
Girls with high education usually fall in love relatively late, and the ideal type in 27-year-old Du Xinglin's heart is a mature and attractive man.
Her career and love began almost at the same time.
After leaving France, she went to Taiwan to start a business with a boss named Huang Taiyuan. They founded a company that did corporate branding and training. Huang Taiyuan served as chairman, and Du Xinglin served as an adviser.
The best thing that the Elite of Haipai is able to package themselves, add their own tall titles, and package them into workplace elites to advise enterprises.
Du Xinglin is no exception, she added herself the titles of "Hepburn in the planning circle" and "Chinese celebrity who integrates into French culture".
It can be said that the set of "independent strong women and aristocratic academies" that Wang Shi's wife Tian Pujun is playing now is the remaining stem that Du Xinglin plays.
It is not enough for the career to flourish, the husband must also be arranged. Her marriage partner, unsurprisingly, locked in the boss Huang Taiyuan.
A married Taiwanese man 20 years older than her.
In April 2013, Huang Zong divorced du meiren and the original match, like a bird out of the cage, and did not forget to confess from the bottom of his heart: Welcome me and the spring of the princess.
Many feelings are more fragile than imagined, and the two are in love with each other when starting a business. But after really making money, there is no time to maintain the marriage, and they start to go their separate ways.
In the years after marriage, Du Xinglin was obsessed with her career, she was not satisfied with the cultivation of enterprises, and extended her tentacles to the aspect of "women's growth".
She has successively opened aesthetic education institutions, female image management, spiritual leader and other projects.
A very interesting phenomenon is that in recent years, Taiwan's "experts" have especially liked to come to the mainland to talk about "success studies" and "women's inspirational studies." Du Xinglin can also be regarded as a bonus for the lecture.
In 2015, Du Xinglin relied on the success of the actress to learn lectures, and has already earned a lot of money, and has a little fame in the industry.
However, the balance of love is increasingly unbalanced, and her husband Huang Taiyuan probably did not think that he had married a woman with a strong sense of enterprise and no intention of running a family. The marriage ended abruptly in the second half of 2015.
She ended the marriage at the cost of giving up her career, but at the same time she met Zhang Jizhong, a man who could give her broad shoulders.
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Friends who like to surf the Internet in 2016 should still have the impression that Zhang Jizhong's second wife, Fan Xinman, who is also a talented woman.
She tweeted and called Du Xinglin a "little three".
This wave of operations is indeed quite "dog blood".
According to Fan Xinman, during the marriage between her and Zhang Jizhong, Zhang transferred the property and mansion to Du Xinglin's name behind her back, and also slept in Fan Xinman's bed.
Zhang Jizhong is also not a vegetarian, tearing his face who will not, he publicly hit back that Fan Xinman cheated on his own dry son.
This incident made a lot of jokes in that year, Fan Zhang and the two tore their faces, and even beat up and went to the hospital.
Eventually the old man confessed, paid a large amount of alimony and finally divorced.
The old does not go to the new, and it is at this time that Du Xinglin smiled like a flower and ushered in the spring of the turn.
On March 5, 2017, in the spring of the new year, she and Zhang Jizhong registered as husband and wife.
Their union is known as "grandfather love" by the world.
What a person becomes has to do with the people around her.
In the first marriage, Du Xinglin just entered the workplace, and she needed a career and money. After marrying Zhang Jizhong, she was completely reborn, from a "feminist" lecturer to a "model wife".
She put aside her identity as a doctor study abroad, gave up the pursuit of her career, concentrated on assisting her husband, became Zhang Jizhong's agent and assistant, and began to actively "create people".
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In order to have the crystallization of love with Zhang Dao, after two years of marriage, she stepped on the iron shoes to find a divine doctor and find a prescription.
She likes to write small essays on Weibo to share her life, mentioning the time of pregnancy, she wrote:
"I had 3 implants and Antai in two years, each time implanting a man and a woman and two babies, injecting oily progesterone and progesterone every day, and there was no place to put a needle in the ass. Three attempts in two years, all of which ended in failure. ”
"Immediately after the second surgery, I fainted, vomited up and down, and swelled up and down all night and couldn't breathe."
In the end, Zhang Jizhong and his wife decided to go to the United States to seek medical treatment, do IVF, and finally get pregnant with 70 eggs.
Now Du Xinglin has given birth to a son and a daughter, plus Zhang Jizhong's mixed-race son Martin, a family of five neatly organized.
Speaking of Martin, the child's origin is a mystery, so far Zhang Jizhong has not revealed who the child's mother is, and over the years in the face of controversy, the old man has publicly clarified once:
"Du Xinglin and I are a legal couple, and my children are also legally born."
At home, Du Xinglin called her husband "Old Master", and after marrying Zhang Jizhong, she washed her hands and cooked soup, taught her husband and children at home, and occasionally posted shares about aesthetics on social platforms.
She often accompanied her husband and children to watch the scenery, write calligraphy, and play the piano.
Occasionally, he would teach his children to be filial to their parents, and after her husband's work, he would teach his children to wash his father's feet and beat his back.
Zhang Jizhong just celebrated his 70th birthday last August, and he has reduced his work over the years to devote his limited time to his family. He holds the child no less than the young mother, and he takes care of the child as professionally as a month-old sister-in-law.
The only difference is that he is no longer young, and because of this, he has also become the "sand" in the eyes of the world.
After giving birth to two children, Du Xinglin's professionalism returned, she saw the dividends of the small video platform, and followed her husband to participate in the live streaming industry.
The whole world is in the midst of profit.
Where there are financial benefits, there are rivers and lakes, they are a pair of "old husbands and young wives" combination, coupled with frequent excessive exposure, which has attracted the dissatisfaction of netizens.
Various malicious comments:
Such comments are not uncommon
This is what was mentioned at the beginning, on January 15, Du Xinglin sent a long article angrily denouncing the slander of netizens.
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Do people still have the right to love when they are old?
The answer is yes.
I have seen an answer: when one day in our city, the elderly wear fashionable clothes, wear beautiful makeup, and shop elegantly, it means that society has become developed and enlightened.
Since the day Du Xinglin's wife's identity was made public, there has been one question surrounding her:
Why would you marry an old man?
She replied: Because fate is destined, because of love.
If no one really believes it, because most people have preconceived notions that the old man is not worthy of love, and he is full of stink, even his breath smells, what do you like?
Zhang Jizhong is not an ordinary old man. In addition to money, he also has talent.
People who have watched the CCTV version of "Smiling Proud of the Rivers and Lakes", "Shooting Eagle", "Divine Eagle", and "Tianlong Eight Parts" should agree that the drama he directed is the closest to Jin Yong's original work, and spreads Chinese culture.
Perhaps today's young people will not slow down to experience the intentions and feelings of a director. Because who cares about the mountain water in the laughing and proud rivers and lakes meets Zhiyin, who still cares about the world of "chivalrous" who is happy and vengeful?
Undoubtedly, Du Xinglin understands Zhang Dao, and her Weibo name is "Lady Xia".
It is not uncommon for people to live a lifetime, to meet love and meet sex, but to meet and understand.
I know that this love will be short-lived, but it does not hinder the life of the two of them watching, tuning the piano, playing chess, and composing poetry.