I'm his ninth girlfriend, talking about what happens after marriage

I thought that Zhou Mingyu was sick, a psychological disease.

He said, Tang Jing, life is meaningless, life is like a walking dead. He also said that there are obviously many people around me, why do I still feel lonely.

This is completely different from my impression of the sunny and cheerful Zhou Mingyu.

As a psychology graduate student, I was acutely aware that something was wrong with him.

I planned to apply what I had learned and guide him professionally, but I didn't expect to fall into the trap set by this man.

02

I met Zhou Mingyu in June 2017.

At that time, I had just graduated from college and spent the summer vacation in my hometown in Changde, waiting for graduate school to start.

Country life was a bit boring, and I couldn't stay for a few days. So I went to rent an apartment in the city with my friends, found a part-time job, and wanted to accumulate some social experience.

I work as a dealer in commercial performances, dealing cards to customers who play games, similar to Miss Manners. It only takes 4 hours a day, and the reward is good.

Thinking that I could earn back half a month's rent in one day, I was so excited that I didn't sleep all night.

Early the next morning, I put on a lot of heavy makeup, stepped on the hated sky, and went to the event venue.

When I went to the venue, my God, all of them were long-legged beauties, and I went to that station, a little out of place.

But before I could be sad, the activity began. So I held back that little loss, held my head high, and kept up with the team.

Probably because my smile and enthusiasm were infectious, I found that there was a guy who always sneaked up on me. He was wearing a white shirt, looked refreshing, and was a bit handsome.

Unexpectedly, the corners of his mouth smiled and walked toward me.

This man was Zhou Mingyu.

And his first opening sentence is, your eyebrows are so funny, oh, like a crayon little new, I see my mood has become better.

I was instantly petrified.

03

With a big grin, I quickly chatted with Zhou Mingyu.

After chatting, I learned that Zhou Mingyu was the person in charge of this commercial performance.

When I learned that he was only 26 years old, I couldn't help but give him a thumbs up and say, Excellent!

Zhou Mingyu held out his hands and said that the girl was too prestigious.

I was amused by him.

Soon the event was over, my task was completed, and I was ready to take the silver and leave.

Before leaving, I just heard a conversation between Zhou Mingyu and the staff.

Zhou Mingyu said that he had to eat takeaway again at noon, came to Changde for half a month, ate takeaway every day, and I wanted to throw up.

Look at his expression, strange and pitiful.

Then I made a small calculation in my mind, if I didn't have to bribe him with food bribes, maybe I could introduce me to more part-time jobs.

So I tentatively said, just today I have dinner with my friends at home and bring you with me.

Unexpectedly, Zhou Mingyu agreed to come down.

The meal was a pleasure and a good conversation, but my little abacus fell short.

Zhou Mingyu's job is to follow the project everywhere, and after the event in Changde, he will go to another city.

I had to find another part-time job, but after two days of searching, it was not suitable.

Another classmate called me to go on a trip together, and I simply paid my mother an advance of travel funds and went on a sightseeing trip.

04

Later, Zhou Mingyu and I also had some intermittent contacts on WeChat.

In the 2 years of graduate school in Yunnan, the coursework was heavy, and I would play games and relax in my free time.

Zhou Mingyu and I like the same game, often I run into him as soon as I go online, so I play two games together.

Zhou Mingyu has good skills and often saves me. Every time the enemy army came and needed rescue, he said very funny, "The disciples are not afraid, and the master is coming."

Occasionally, I would chat and know that he worked as hard as before, running business performances every day.

Boys who take their careers seriously are cool. I must admit that Zhou Mingyu like that is shining in my eyes. And so excellent him, there must be a lot of girls like it.

With that in mind, I soaked myself in the library. Sometimes Zhou Mingyu came to me, and my reply was always very slow. The girl is busy getting better, where is the kung fu chat.

It wasn't until April 2019, two months before graduation, that Zhou Mingyu suddenly came to me very frequently. And every time with the words "I've been unhappy lately, I'm lonely... Consolation" as an opening.

At first, I was a little confused. This is not at all like the Zhou Mingyu I remembered.

Later, I was a little resistant, a big man, why did he hurt all day long.

But Zhou Mingyu said, you are not studying psychology, I have psychological problems now, give me analysis and analysis.

This made me unable to refuse, and I had to show some professional attitude.

So I patiently and gently enlightened him.

But one day Zhou Mingyu suddenly said, Tang Jing, Tang Jing, I hinted so much, how come you haven't opened the door yet, but I'm really sad.

I was confused. What does that mean?

It turned out that Zhou Mingyu had no psychological problems at all, and everything was just a gentle trap. The so-called sad spring and sad autumn are just excuses to approach me and implicitly convey a signal of love to me.

But I'm a big grin, less rooted in feelings, and I haven't received it.

When he said that day that he didn't want to face the blind date arranged by his family, and I advised him to try it, he finally couldn't help it.

I said, Zhou Mingyu, if you like me, just say it.

Zhou Mingyu sent a grievance expression and said, I am afraid of being rejected by you, this is the first time I have confessed to a girl.

Zhou Mingyu, who has always been loved by girls, has been passively accepting the pursuit of others over the years. Only this time, facing me who was half a beat slower than him, I did the active one.

Zhou Mingyu said that after that event in 17 years, he has always been thinking of me. But every time I talk to me, I always look very busy, and I go offline before I finish talking.

He said I was like a little sun, and laughing made him feel warm and uncontrollably wanted to get closer to me.

He said that his work location was stable in Changsha, and it made me feel insecure not to have to run around.

He also said I was graduating soon and that he would regret missing this time.

……

I listened and listened, and the appreciation and heartbeat that were hidden in my heart were slowly awakened.

I didn't refuse. Maybe I've already liked him, but I just didn't find out.

That's how we're together. From Yunnan to Changsha, there is a distance of more than 1,000 kilometers.

05

On the first day after we got together, Zhou Mingyu and I couldn't wait to tell the world, afraid that someone would come to loosen the soil again.

I can't tell why I was so determined, but before this, we were all hurt in love, and we all didn't believe in love a little bit.

Zhou Mingyu's most unforgettable love affair occurred in college.

The two are lovers and entrepreneurial partners. Everyone thought they were a match made in heaven and earth, and Zhou Mingyu had never suspected it.

Everyone is waiting for this love to blossom and bear fruit, but in the end it ends with the woman splitting her legs and empathizing with other loves.

When Zhou Mingyu said this, his tone was relaxed. Just like I talked about my ex-boyfriend, it was also light.

In fact, everyone knows what kind of injuries have been in their hearts.

Zhou Mingyu said, it's all in the past, now it's not you.

I was thinking about how to reply to him with a affectionate word, when he suddenly turned sharply and said, "Count the elementary school, junior high school, high school crush on me, you are my ninth girl. The meaning is really good, it shows that we can last a long time.

I gagged and gave him wild white eyes. Then come a sentence, crush counts a ball.

Zhou Mingyu said, yes, yes. You're the only girl I want to chase.

After a week together, Zhou Mingyu confessed to me about the economic situation.

He started his business in his sophomore year and had some savings. But in order to stabilize the company in Changsha, all the deposits were invested.

Zhou Mingyu said that he may wronged you for a while.

I replied, coincidentally, I am also very poor, and I don't mind being dependent on you.

For the third week together, I called him.

He was sleeping, and after the confusion was connected, the first thing he said was, Wife, you miss me again.

That was the first time he called out to my wife. My mind went blank, but my heart was so happy that I wanted to dance.

I said, no, I can't stand to be off-site, I'm going to Changsha to find you.

Zhou Mingyu heard the urgency and instantly woke up. He said, no, if you want to see me, I should also go to see you and wait for me.

Then, we started a love life of seeing each other once a week.

The tickets to and from the two places are getting thicker and thicker, and we are more and more determined that we are the ones who will spend the rest of our lives together. After graduating from graduate school, I did not hesitate to go to Changsha.

06

Before the parents of the two sides met, Zhou Mingyu created a family group.

Send red envelopes in the group without a problem, and enliven the atmosphere. So the two families have not yet met, and they have a very happy chat.

When you really meet, like an old friend, there is no embarrassment.

My dad said a long time ago that I would have to go through his layers of checks when I found a boyfriend in the future.

But after a few days of getting along, he felt that Zhou Mingyu was worthy of trust.

Zhou Mingyu will not say anything beautiful, but he is practical and strives to be self-motivated. Most importantly, be 100% gentle with their daughters.

Zhou Mingyu was very touched, he did not expect us to trust him so much. But what I didn't tell him was that he was doing a good job.

Two things really touched me.

Once he went back to my hometown with me to see my grandmother. Grandma missed the old and couldn't let go of the old friends at home, so she kept living in the old house.

The first time he went, Zhou Mingyu greeted his neighbors, introduced himself to them, and asked them to take more care of their grandmother.

When I left, I also put a big red envelope in my grandmother's pocket.

At that time, Zhou Mingyu was very financially strapped, but for my family, he was always so generous. That red envelope is equivalent to our two months of living expenses.

Go to Grandma's house again, Zhou Mingyu will also buy good food for Grandma in advance and prepare various daily necessities.

Grandma likes to pull Zhou Mingyu's hand and say a lot of words, and everyone praises her for having a good grandson-in-law.

One more thing, now that I think about it, I still can't help but want to cry.

I don't remember what day we went to the mall to buy clothes. Halfway through, Zhou Mingyu said that he wanted to go to the bathroom, but he didn't come back after waiting for half a day.

I went out to look for it, and then I saw him picking a ring in the jewelry store opposite the door.

I crept over without letting him find out.

The ring wasn't cheap, and I saw him pick it very seriously like a child picking toys, even with a little piety.

He picked it up and put it down, put it down and picked it up again, and a little arrogant, he even pulled down his face and asked the salesman if he could get a discount.

The look of wanting to buy but being unable to do anything about it made me feel bad.

I pulled Zhou Mingyu away. I said, Boss Zhou, it's not too late to buy it when you get rich, I'll wait for you.

How did Zhou Mingyu's eye circles turn red?

In fact, I don't feel sorry, his heart is far more precious than diamonds.

Zhou Mingyu's company in Changsha has not developed smoothly. But in 2019 Tanabata, I still got a license with him.

Yes, less than half a year together, I married myself to Zhou Mingyu.

07

After getting the license, we unexpectedly had a baby. I wanted to give birth, but for special reasons, the fetus stopped.

I was sad for a long time.

My mother-in-law specially asked for leave to take care of me, and also told Zhou Mingyu to take good measures in the past two years, so that I could raise my body well and not suffer any more sins.

She and her father-in-law always said that I was still a little girl, and I couldn't bear to see me become a daughter-in-law and become a mother so quickly.

Every time I went out and someone asked me, they happily introduced me as their little daughter.

Zhou Mingyu knew, complained about his parents' eccentricity, and deliberately gave a thumbs up, saying very exaggeratedly that my wife's charm is stronger than mine.

When I mentioned this to my mother, my mother always said that I had a good life and always told me to be blessed.

I understand, and I've been working on it.

My in-laws wanted me and Zhou Mingyu to work within a stable system, and after many days and nights of hard work, I was admitted, or the best unit here.

Zhou Mingyu has always wanted to start a business, but it was really difficult in the early stage, and with the impact of the epidemic, it was difficult to move.

But a short life, do what you love. So I supported him desperately.

My in-laws' birthdays and usual preferences are all silently remembered in my heart.

In the words of Zhou Mingyu, I let this home have a different taste.

In fact, my mother said something similar. As long as Zhou Mingyu goes to my house, my parents will be very happy.

We get better because of each other. The other's family also becomes warmer because of the other's presence.

Maybe that's the best love.