I don't remember how long I didn't laugh from the bottom of my heart, and I don't know if everyone was like me, forgetting when the last laugh was.
In the hurry, everyone seems to have become accustomed to tightening their nerves every day, and they have completely exhausted their energy to sleep.
When people reach middle age, their hearts are filled with anxiety.
In leisure time, the TV series that I once loved to watch did not have the patience to watch, and the brain-burning people felt tired, and the relaxed and pleasant variety show became the first choice to kill time.
"Night in Tai Wan Chai" is mainly about five stars, Chen Xiaochun, Zhang Zhilin, Xie Tianhua, Lin Xiaofeng and Liang Hanwen, who open food stalls and spread the food of the Greater Bay Area.
A few Hong Kong celebrities make food, but I see the happiness of the five middle-aged people in the show, even if the body is very tired, the heart is also full of smiles.
It turns out that the happiness of middle-aged people is very simple, no need to deliberately prepare, no reason, as long as there are friends around, a word, a thing, an action can open up and laugh.
1. Chat
Before the start of cooking on each episode, they would sit together for a meeting and arrange what to do that day.
However, their meetings are not the affectionate tension that everyone experiences in their daily lives, sitting at the conference table and not daring to speak.
They meet in the form of sitting together and chatting, laughing lightly and happily, and arranging things.
Chat is a form of communication between people that helps to enhance feelings.
Several middle-aged men in the Greater Bay Area sit together, just chatting gives people a very comfortable and relaxed feeling.
In fact, happiness is sometimes not that many people get together to drink, eat together, and engage in activities, but quietly watch a program, and the heart is already very satisfied.
2. Get your friends back together
There was a period of Ren Dahua as a guest to their food stalls, Ren Dahua made Chinese food, Western food, but also can make desserts, Zhang Zhilin they simply said let Ren Dahua be the store manager for a day.
Chen Xiaochun also proposed whether it was possible to produce two diners among them, and Zhang Zhilin was reluctant to choose again.
Because before Ren Dahua arrived, he decided on two diners by drawing lots.
Zhang Zhilin and Lin Xiaofeng were selected, but were denied by Chen Xiaochun, Xie Tianhua, and Liang Hanwen.
Zhang Zhilin felt that he could not be a diner twice, and would not be so lucky. But Ren Dahua is the store manager, and the store manager said to start over, and everyone will listen.
So scissors stone cloth, if true, good things will not come to the same person twice, Chen Xiaochun and Liang Hanwen to be diners for a day.
Zhang Zhilin and Lin Xiaofeng shook their heads, speechless.
Later, Ren Dahua and them divided into two groups, one group made trust cakes, one group made leaky milk, went out to give to neighbors to eat, and two groups competed to see which one won.
When they do something together, the laughter is from the heart.
Albert Einstein said that true laughter is optimism about life, joy at work, and excitement about career.
3. Make games
When people reach middle age, they rarely feel the joy of childhood and playing games with friends.
Those joys have long since passed away with the passing of childhood.
A few friends in the Greater Bay Area made a soccer shooting game together, and there were many jokes.
The stone scissors cloth alone is already very happy. Only to see Zhang Zhilin jump up and punch, he was really happy!
Everyone took turns doing the shot once, and the mood of waiting for the ball to kick out was the most complicated, because the back was facing and not knowing when the ball would fly out.
This game, five people play a lot of fun.
Remembering the ten-year reunion of college classmates, one of the games that everyone relived was actually the playing cards and tractors learned after entering the university, similar to the upgraded gameplay.
A table of four people playing, not playing on the side to watch, a class opened several tables, not idle.
Although they have reached middle age, when they say goodbye, the girl becomes a yellow-faced woman, and the boy has a big belly, but a deck of playing cards has found the happiness of college.
4. Happiness is all around us
Life is plain and plain, it seems that every day is the same, but some people are happy every day, and some people are not happy with their money.
We are often worried about our children's learning, but we have ever thought that in places where we can't see, some children can live a normal life, which is the happiest thing for parents.
Spring and winter come and go, flowers bloom, cicadas and birds chirp, nature gives life a variety of colors, but people trap themselves in reinforced concrete and do not want to come out.
Happiness is actually very simple, open your heart and accept everything. It is enough to have family around and always have friends to accompany you.
The joy of success, the pain of failure, the compromise of life, are all part of real life.
Life is like a container bottle, what you put into it, what you will reap in your heart.
From today onwards, be a happy person! See the flowers on sunny days, listen to the rain on rainy days, pay attention to happy things, and the beauty will meet unexpectedly!