In the latest variety show "Night in Greater Wan Chai", when it comes to the problem of getting along with his family, Zhang Zhilin mentioned that the biggest impact of his parents' divorce on himself is to make himself understand that he should spend more time with his family, which has resonated with many viewers.
Zhang Zhilin said: "My parents divorced when I was fourteen or fifteen years old. ”
Xie Tianhua asked him, "Does it have no impact on you?" ”
Zhang Zhilin replied: "It has a good impact on me, and the divorce of my parents makes me cherish the people around me even more."
Netizens have expressed their support:
"The biggest harm caused by family divorce is the child."
"Treat them well when you have children, a complete family is too important for children!"
"I really hope that divorced parents will think more about their children in the future, the original family of their children is really very important, and a good childhood heals a lifetime."
"My husband grew up in a divorced family, and he really took care of the family, which was super good for me and for the children." I hope he can continue to carry it forward and not get bad. ”
However, some netizens said that if the husband and wife are not in harmony, divorce is the right choice.
"Not divorcing will actually affect children, the best thing is that parents will grow up happily if they have good feelings, and it is better to live together than to divorce."
"I think it's very good to be divorced, my parents quarrel every day, and there is no peace in the family for a moment."
In fact, only parents together can bring complete love to children, if one party is missing love, any unilateral love from father or mother is difficult to satisfy children. Father's love and mother's love are different and cannot be substituted for each other.
But if the parents really can't continue to be together, can no longer love the child, but will hurt the child because of the two people' affairs, then it is best to end the harm to the child as soon as possible.
But let the child understand that even if the parents are divorced, they still love him as much. Although it will be difficult for the child to accept in a short period of time, it is better than making the child feel that the parents are tied together for him.
It is precisely because Zhang Zhilin lacks that love, so he understands the preciousness of love more and does not want his children to experience the same pain again.
Therefore, Zhang Zhilin pays great attention to the relationship with his family. In a certain variety show of Hunan Satellite TV, Zhang Zhilin's family video was exposed, in which Zhang Zhilin and his son frolicked happily and said that love is not the most important.
When the intimate world of two people becomes a warm family of three people, in addition to love, there is more affection for their children. This is a heavy responsibility, because the children are still young, so they need more love, and love is less important.
Because Zhang Zhilin has three views, bad experiences can also become positive energy. Then as Zhang Zhilin said, spend more time with your family, after all, such time and opportunity can not be bought no matter how much money you use in the future.