In our country, there is such a saying: the child avoids the mother, and the daughter avoids the father. And how old does this "big" refer to? Usually refers to the beginning of 3 years old.
Because children begin to have gender awareness at the age of 3, if they are not guided in time, it is likely that children will have a sense of gender boundaries, which will cause them to be troubled by their own gender cognition.
Of course, this is not absolute, only that the results of scientific research show so. For many families, the gender awareness of children and parents is not so early.
This year's New Year's photo, Beckham launched a warm picture of himself kissing his 10-year-old daughter mouth-to-mouth.
As a result, what he did not expect was that the melon-eating masses did not buy it: their daughters were 10 years old, how could they kiss like this?
Indeed, although Little Seven is Beckham's beloved treasure, he has always been fully cared for and loved by his father.
From the growth of The Little Seven, it can be seen that where to hug and where to go, this is the most straightforward love ThatCkham gave to his daughter.
"In fact, raising a son is a completely different concept from adopting a daughter, I am a more eccentric daughter, and I want to protect my daughter well."
Beckham said this in an interview.
Because of this, the melon-eating masses believed that Xiao Qiqi had been spoiled by her father and rarely wore shoes until she was five years old, because she did not have to walk on the ground at all.
Such fatherly love is still nothing, because there is also a "big hemorrhage" on the material aspect of the daughter.
Just 1 year old, Beckham customized a famous painting of "Daddy's Girl" for his daughter, which cost up to 5.29 million yuan. This kind of strength is not something that ordinary fathers can have.
When he was 6 years old, in order to fulfill his daughter's dream of a princess, David Beckham took Little Seven directly to the British Royal Family, where he had a birthday party and played with the little princesses.
In addition to princess dreams, Xiao Qiqi also likes to ride horses.
It was an aristocratic sport, but the Beckhams weren't short of money and didn't care about the expenses. He even bought a pony for his daughter and spent more than 60,000 yuan. At the same time, a matching stable was prepared for the ponies.
You see, this kind of operation is simply too thick to melt the father's love, and kissing a mouth is very ordinary.
At least, for Beckham, it's not a big deal at all, it's normal.
But what the Bei family did not expect was why the reaction ability of the outside melon eating masses was so enthusiastic? Even the British media followed in in the "denunciation" of him.
The British "Sun" has reported that star David Beckham has been accused by many people for kissing his daughter mouth-to-mouth, which is called "cross-line" love.
In fact, as early as when Little Seven was younger, someone filmed Beckham kissing his daughter mouth-to-mouth.
At that time, netizens simply exploded: "Why did he kiss the child's lips?" Please stop kissing your child's lips. ”
But the problem is that it can be seen from the picture that Xiao Qiqi is not unfamiliar with this at all, and whether it is a response or an expression, it is natural.
This means that Beckham's education of his daughters is already deeply rooted: in front of the father, there is no need for gender awareness.
The real age of Xiao Qiqi has reached 10 years old, and if it is according to the imaginary age, it is even bigger.
Shouldn't such a big girl still establish a gender consciousness and blindly satisfy the unquenchable love of her parents?
Of course, where there is opposition, there is approval. The British writer Jon Axworthy stood up in solidarity with David Beckham, because that's how he brought his daughter.
"It's perfectly normal for me to kiss my 9-year-old daughter Anne, just like David Beckham. I don't think it's strange to kiss my own daughter, you haven't seen me kiss my daughter on the street, because Anne hates me for hurting her with her beard when I kiss her. ”
Jon proudly said to the outside world that the words were full of clouds and breezes.
Even Jon's wife stood up in favor of this approach:
"Although I am not a fan of Beckham, when I saw him kiss his daughter so naturally, I thought he was a good father, and it was ridiculous that the media said that Beckham had something to think of his daughter."
This statement is a bit interesting, a father, ignoring the gender of his daughter, directly kissed her mouth to mouth.
How can this wave of operations be considered to be out of bounds from conventional human behavior?
Otherwise, there would not be so many people who would stand up and "denounce" David Beckham, and you, as an adult, naturally have a clear psychological consciousness to treat everyone. But Xiao Qicai is just a newly grown child, can you ask her to be like an adult and not have physiological thoughts?
Presumably, this is too direct, but when a father cannot properly guide his daughter to face self-growth and gender consciousness, it cannot be called love, but a kind of drowning.
What kind of consequences this kind of feeling will eventually produce, I am afraid that no one can say. It can only be said that all education for children's adventures is not perfect love.
It's just that Beckham himself doesn't think so, because the Internet has been arguing about this incident, but people are going their own way.
Probably this is the star, no matter what you can do, it doesn't matter, because they know that there are too many different sounds, and they have to learn to filter automatically.
It's just a pity that the netizens who are broken hearts, while they are uneven for the little seven, they can't ignore Beckham's charm.
This feeling is really awkward enough, making people suddenly think of the willfulness of "you can't get used to me, you can't kill me", is this the fan's feeling about the star?
Looking back, it's none of our business to learn about the education we received.
We just watched her grow up little by little, from a fat yellow haired girl to a little blonde haired little beauty, a little sigh.
It has to be said that Beckham's genes are strong, and Xiao Qiqi has the shadow of his mother, but he also has a lot of his temperament. This excellent combination of genes allows Xiao Qiqi to successfully go to the ranks of beauties, and when he grows up, he will definitely be a beautiful woman!