From the growth of Nezha to see education

Reading aloud: Look at education from the perspective of Nezha's growth

From the growth of Nezha to see education

In a recently very popular movie "Nezha", there is a very hot line "My life is up to me", who can say this sentence? It is those who are brave enough to be brave. As everyone knows, true warriors, real great husbands "come without being alarmed, adding without cause without anger" (Su Shi's "Theory of Liu Hou") They will not say such bold words, they are introverted, calm, and indifferent. Of course, there is nothing wrong with an ignorant teenager saying this, but if a person with a heavy responsibility says such a thing, I am sure that he will fail!

A famous teacher must have a clever method and must have his own wisdom. They follow good examples, teach well, have knowledge of ancient and modern times in mind, master the degree of leniency and strictness, and make the best use of the law. I see that Taiyi Zhenren cultivated Nezha, which is of great reference significance to us.

First of all, he was good at teaching and dared to teach. He awarded Nezha the Heavenly Aya, the Qiankun Circle, and the Rocket Gun, so Nezha was born with a great talent. When Nezha relied on his strong mana to act arbitrarily and broke into a catastrophe, he smoked dragon tendons, unveiled dragon scales, and killed Li Jing in revenge for breaking the golden body, Taiyi Zhenren did not directly intervene to stop it but secretly invited Manjushri Bodhisattva to burn the lamp Daoist to help him, although Nezha was proud of his high mana and excellent martial arts, but he had a strong hand in the strong, but he lost a defeat at the hands of Manjushri Bodhisattva and the Burning Lantern Daoist, at this time Nezha soberly realized his own smallness, it turned out that there were people outside the people, and there was a sky outside the sky. From then on, I did not dare to look at no one and be arrogant. If Taiyi Zhenren orally taught this truth to Nezha, the effect would naturally be greatly reduced, such as passing through the smoke clouds, it is better to let him really experience it, get the painful lesson of blood, and get the unforgettable lesson, which is exactly where Taiyi Zhenren's clever method and wisdom lie. Taiyi Zhenren did not hesitate to teach him martial arts because of Nezha's trouble.

Knowing the son is like the father, and the disciple is like the teacher. Taiyi Zhenren is familiar with Nezha's weaknesses and is good at turning him into merit, if Nezha can turn arrogance into brave self-confidence in the face of the enemy, this will be of great benefit to future achievements, not like Nezha now, no matter whether it is big or not, as long as he is not accustomed to it, he will let his own character be brave for a while and vent the anger of the puppet.

Tai Yi Zhenren dared to let go. Letting go is not laissez-faire, much less indulgence. In other words, if his apprentice is bullied, in order to get angry for his apprentice, in order to regain his face, this master will definitely theorize with others, or fight a lot, and even form a vendetta between the two families. Taiyi Zhenren, on the contrary, specially invited helpers to educate his apprentices for himself, hone the disposition of apprentices, and let apprentices suffer losses and grow in losses. Just like the winged eagle, if it does not flap its wings hard, then it will face death, it is precisely because of the fear of death, so it strives to flap its wings, and finally exerts its full strength, forces out its potential, learns to fly, and contains endless wisdom between one loss and one gain.

"The master leads into the door, and the practice is in the individual." Some roads must be walked by themselves, and others cannot do half a point for them. Only the experience of personal experience and personal experience is the most real and precious. This experience will flow in your blood and stay with you for the rest of your life. For Nezha's stubborn nature, Master Taiyi Zhenren did not arbitrarily scold and forcibly reverse, but took the initiative to create opportunities for him to be experienced and grown.

Understanding this, let's look at today's family education. Parents give their children the best, let them eat and drink without worry, use no worries, eat fragrant, drink spicy, meet many needs, want what they want, and eager to pluck the stars in the sky; do not let them be hurt a little, do not let them suffer a little cold, do not let them bear a little pressure, they are enshrined as pearls in the palm of their hands, they are kept in a warm and comfortable environment, they are cared for, as if they are weak and windy; they are afraid that they will be killed by poison, for fear that they will fall halfway.

Such a child is untrained, weak and incompetent, and has no fighting spirit, and once he is contaminated with bad habits, he will be indulgent, arrogant, arrogant, and difficult to control. I think that such parents are extremely selfish, they are afraid that their children will become strong, become brave, become tenacious, on the contrary, they are willing to shield their children from the wind and rain, so that they will protect them in the palm of their hands for a lifetime. It's just a giant baby that combines thousands of pets. If you really want to realize the wish of "hoping for a son to become a dragon and a woman to become a phoenix", you must change your current approach.

Now let's look at the sentence "My fate is up to me", but it is just a bold remark casually uttered by a yellow-haired boy who has not dried up, is childish, and has no strength.

The real brave dare to think, dare to do, dare to take responsibility, they have the will to persevere, they have the courage to cut through thorns, they have the endurance to shoulder heavy responsibilities, and they have the courage to go high and low, which is the real great husband.

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