It was almost 11 o'clock in the evening when my phone alerted me to a message. It was so late, and someone sent me a message, probably in an emergency. I got out of bed, and the message was sent by my nephew who was in the first year of junior high school.
Message content: "Aunt, I scored 719.6 on the final exam, and I am the first in the class, and I can't sleep now." "It turned out that it was my nephew who had done well in the final exam, couldn't sleep excitedly, and sent me a message to report the good news."
It's really a bit like when we were young, once we did well in the exam, we ran home after school and put the results on the table, which was very arrogant. Don't think that when your nephew goes to junior high school, he is a little adult, but in fact, he is still a primary school student in his thinking.
My nephew, since the first grade of primary school, has a very good habit of reading, loves to read, and learns consciously. Some people may say that children have been excellent since childhood, and now they are certainly excellent, and the foundation is played well.
Admittedly, this is certainly one of the reasons. However, I want to share with you how my nephew continues to maintain a leading edge during the holidays.
Sometimes I have to sigh "people who are better than you are not terrible, what is terrible is that people who are better than you work harder than you".
The younger brother and sister-in-law, one is a science student with a key undergraduate degree, and the other is a liberal arts student at a key college, and he has cultivated his nephew into good study habits since he was a child. How to let children spend a winter vacation when children are satisfied and parents are assured?
Winter vacation homework
I often hear friends around me say that when school starts, children rush to catch up with homework all night, how to finish, and even ask parents to help copy. In this case, every parent does not want it to happen to their children.
The child has poor self-control and does not develop the habit of doing homework. As soon as the winter vacation arrives, it is time to let go of the self, throw the bag aside, play games today, go shopping tomorrow, the day after tomorrow's classmates party, anyway, there are many programs, and there is no homework in the eyes.
For such a child, the supervision of the parents is very important. Children don't like to do homework, and without supervision, the situation described above will really occur.
How is my nephew's winter vacation homework arranged? After communicating with her nephew, the sister-in-law reached a consensus. After the winter vacation officially begins, it is necessary to do winter vacation homework and ensure that you do 1-2 hours of winter vacation homework every day.
Other times can be arranged freely, such as reading a book, playing on the computer for a while, and going to play basketball in the evening. Before the Spring Festival, winter vacation homework must be completed.
Take your child to visit relatives and friends
I used to be curious to ask my sister-in-law, nephew's winter vacation homework, why must it be completed before the Spring Festival? The sister-in-law said: "After the Spring Festival, we will visit relatives and friends, and we will take the children with us, so he will not have time to do winter vacation homework." ”
I'm a bit blindfolded, and if my child's homework isn't done, I can just leave him to visit his family. My sister-in-law explained to me: "Your brother and I consider it this way, taking the child with you, so that the child can increase his knowledge and learn the etiquette and way of how to interact with the elders, peers, and juniors." ”
It turned out to be like this, I never thought that every time I went back to my mother's house to visit my relatives during the Spring Festival, I put my daughter in my mother's house and took the gifts to my uncle and aunt's house. I didn't expect to take my children to visit relatives and friends, and there were such benefits.
Filial piety to the elderly
Many people will be very confused when they see this, what can a child have to do with filial piety to the elderly? That's too far-fetched.
Nowadays, many families are parents who live in the city with their children, and the grandparents of the children, because they are reluctant to go to the city, prefer to grow vegetables and raise chickens in the countryside. Grandparents usually want to meet their grandchildren and grandchildren, but they can only watch and chat through online videos.
We always say that parents should be the role models of their children, parents are filial piety, and children will not be bad. Then the child is on winter vacation, and the parents' time allows, and they really have to take the child back to see his grandparents.
What's more, even if it is not this excuse, parents should go back to accompany their parents. All year round, there are two elderly people in the rural family who are lonely and lonely, and they really need their children and grandchildren to go home and lively.
My brother and sister-in-law do this very well, driving their nephew back to the countryside to see their parents almost every weekend.
Don't forget to exercise during the holidays
Winter vacation, literally, is a cold season holiday. Children don't have to go to school, no physical education teacher to take them to exercise, and they stay at home.
As a parent, you have to play your role, let your children go outdoors to exercise and exercise. If the weather outdoors is really bad, you can also exercise at home. For example, a family at home, following the video to do exercises, dance, etc., as long as the child can move.
My nephew loves to play basketball, and my sister-in-law said he ran off to play basketball for an afternoon the day before his final exams. When the nephew told his sister-in-law that he was going to play basketball, the sister-in-law's first reaction was that tomorrow there would be a final exam, and he would have to play basketball?
But the sister-in-law did not refuse the nephew, but only told him: "Don't play basketball too fiercely today, proper exercise can be, in case of injury, you will delay tomorrow's exam, remember to go home before 4:30." ”
Written in the end: Every child is a special individual, has his own character, has his own hobbies, as a parent, to fulfill the responsibilities of parents. How to arrange the child's winter vacation, parents remember to discuss with the child, can not force the child to strictly follow their own plan to do, things will be the opposite. Together with your children, you can make good use of the winter vacation time to study, exercise, entertain, and relax. (The picture is from the network, if there is infringement, it must be deleted)