If you ask me what happiness is, I would say family reunion, self-positioning, and understanding that enjoying life is happiness!
Family reunification
My original family was a very traditional family, my father was responsible for earning money outside the home to support the family, and my mother was responsible for caring for us at home. From school to work, my family was always by my side, so much so that I once wanted to get out of it and live an independent life.
In 2020, due to the reason of job transfer, I lived alone in Xiamen, living according to the blueprint I had drawn in my heart. I don't know when it started, whenever the friends around me are reunited with their families during the festival, my heart can't help but be sad, this year I am ready to go home for the New Year, I have never been so looking forward to it, happy. I bought a lot of new furniture for my family, and I also learned a few dishes and thought that I could make it for my parents when I went home, and I was extremely happy when I made these preparations.
Family reunion, being able to spend the holidays with your family, is really a very happy thing. This is something that can't be bought with much money made outside.
Recognize your own positioning
Many people may wonder why recognizing self-positioning is a happy thing, because recognizing self-positioning is also to give yourself a clear direction, no matter what difficulties you encounter, questioning you will know who you are and where to go.
Now the news reports on many incidents of young people going with the flow and not having their own core values. Now is the era of information, we want to get any information is easy, but this information is too fragmented, if you do not have your own core ideas, it is easy to be biased by this information, thus wasting a lot of time and even money.
Know how to enjoy life
Now that social competition is increasing, the pressure of work and life has also increased. Everyone is becoming more and more home, company, accommodation two lines; but everyone seems to forget, with the development of society, the world is becoming more and more beautiful, in the rest of the time we can go outside to walk around, take a look, more to enjoy the most original happiness brought to us by nature.
Don't be so busy with the pursuit of a better life that you forget to enjoy life.