Text/An Dongyue
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Is there a person you can always bother?
Whatever you think or see, you can always message or call him whenever you want to talk to him.
He will never be annoyed with you, and will always respond positively to you, making you feel very warm.
Modern people are accustomed to loneliness, neither want to disturb others, nor do they want to be disturbed, so they quietly do what they like, and feel so relaxed.
But many times, it also needs to be shared, it needs to be talked about, it needs to be comforted, and it needs to be encouraged. After all, no one really wants to live as an island. Get used to being lonely and just don't want to deal with unnecessary relationships.
If there is such a person who is willing to listen to your voice and truly understand you, you will certainly be full of joy and cherish it.
The writer Canoe said: "How can an unimportant person be entitled to share the loneliness, but an important person does not dare to disturb it easily." ”
Yes, ordinary people can't go into the heart, into the heart of the people, but because of such and such concerns do not dare to easily disturb, can only in a silent way, far attention, silently remember.
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It is not an easy task to have someone who can be disturbed at any time. So, is there someone who can disturb you at any time?
Nowadays, people are usually very busy, busy with work, busy with study, busy with life, and do not have much leisure time to chat with people. Keep a certain distance from most people and never get too close to someone easily.
If someone is always looking for you to make small talk, you may respond politely at first, but you will choose to turn a blind eye after a long time, because you have your own things to do, and you really can't take care of it.
Of course, there are exceptions to everything. If it is someone you particularly value and care about, when he comes to you, you will not feel disturbed, and you will be very happy. Even if you have something to be busy, you will be busy talking to him.
The person who can disturb you at any time must be someone who has a special meaning to you.
Maybe you're the one you like right now, maybe it's someone you once loved deeply. In short, that person occupies a very important place in your heart.
The relationship between people has always been unclear.
Some people, once a year, feel that it is superfluous and disturbing; some people, who contact ten times a day, do not feel that it is disturbing, but are happy in it.
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In this life, there will always be some people who will become irreplaceable beings in their hearts.
A certain sentence of his can make you remember for a lifetime; his sudden concern can make you very excited; if he takes the initiative to find you, you will be warmly welcomed; if he does not look for you for a long time, you will feel inexplicably lost.
In your subconscious, there has always been a vague expectation of him. So, whenever he comes to you, you don't feel bothered, or even want him to bother at any time.
"I'm someone you can disturb at any time." Behind this sentence is full of affection, but affection is often disappointed.
Some readers left a message saying that she could not put down a person, tossed and turned to inquire about contact, at first the conversation was very good, she thought it was lost and recovered, full of joy. But it turned out that she overestimated her weight in his heart.
He hardly took the initiative to contact her, even if she repeatedly told him: "In the future, if you have any worries or feel bored, you can talk to me at any time, I am free." ”
It was tantamount to telling him that he was important in her heart, someone he could disturb at any time.
However, he didn't "bother" her once. Is he not understanding her mind? Obviously not, the real reason was that she was no longer important in his heart, and even if he was upset or bored, he didn't want to disturb her, and she couldn't give him any comfort.
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"I'm someone you can disturb at any time."
"Sorry, you're the last person I want to bother."
Many relationships are like this, one enthusiastic, one indifferent, one extremely valued, one uncontrolled. So, one is sad, one is heartless.
Who are the people you can disturb at any time? Who are the people who can disturb you at any time?
If the person you can disturb at any time is also the person who can disturb you at any time, that is the most comfortable relationship.
The relationship that can be disturbed by each other at any time must be cherished and not lost to each other.
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Author: An Dongyue, a freelance writer, with warm brushstrokes, writes heartfelt words. May I meet you in the deepest red dust, welcome to pay attention.