01 Win in Harmony
As the saying goes: "It is easy to deal with things and add harmony, do not sharpen your temper in case of trouble, and cultivate the atmosphere." ”
Life is a journey of discovery. The future road we can not predict, what we can do is to adjust ourselves, more harmony, more atmosphere, less temper, things will develop in the direction we expect, life will be more colorful.
Life, win in harmony.
When interacting with people, only by treating people with a gentle and humble attitude can we resolve the contradictions and conflicts in the interaction and get along well with others.
The so-called harmony is to value harmony in everything and have an inclusive heart.
In life, everyone has their own emotions and temper, and we must learn to face up to the emotions of others and tolerate the temper of others.
Many times, tolerance does not equal indulgence, kindness does not mean weakness, and welcoming people with kindness is also a kind of wisdom in life.
As the saying goes: there are fewer disputes in harmony, and more smiles and friends.
Treat anyone and anything with kindness, and tolerate three points without hurting the harmony, and you will avoid many unnecessary disputes and quarrels.
To be a person, you must be calm and calm, and you must be full of rivers in the world.
Be friendly and kind, and good luck will naturally come uninvited.
02 Defeat in temper
A good temper is a boost to life; a bad temper often becomes a resistance to life.
When people are angry and angry, they are prone to lose their minds, do some impulsive things, and regret it afterwards.
You know, tantrums not only won't solve anything, but they can have a terrible impact on your life.
As the saying goes: Bad temper is a double-edged sword that stabs others while also hurting yourself.
So, please control your temper.
In the face of difficult things, let yourself retain three points of calm and seven points of reason, say less hurtful words, and do less regrets, so as to avoid causing harm to both sides.
Only by learning to let go of our temper can we be the masters of life and meet a better future.
03 into the atmosphere
As the saying goes: The heavens are great, can accommodate the vast sea of stars; the earth is great, can nourish all living beings; the sea is large, can absorb the confluence of hundreds of rivers; the atmosphere of man, then the heavens and the earth and the sea are all between the heart and the chest.
Atmosphere is a kind of temperament, a pattern, but also a kind of cultivation for people to deal with things.
Whoever has an atmosphere must be broad-minded, open-minded, able to accept others with a tolerant attitude, and tolerate what others cannot tolerate.
Only in this way can we have a bigger pattern and more opportunities, so that the road of life will become broader and broader.
Only by being a man of the atmosphere can we achieve great things.
As the old saying goes: "Let one step be high in the world, and step backward is the zhang ben; treating others with a point of leniency is a blessing, and benefiting people is the foundation of self-interest." ”
Let a step is the temperament, a wide point is the generosity, only in this way, can we make our lives less unnecessary trouble, more beautiful colors.
For the rest of your life, may you be kind to others, the atmosphere is tolerant, and use your own footsteps to walk out of the bright scenery.
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Source 丨 Xinhua News Agency, the article has been deleted and revised
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