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Did you find out? More and more people disappeared from the circle of friends.
At first, they liked to send a circle of friends, liked to record their daily life, liked to party with friends, liked to have dinner with colleagues, and then took a lot of photos, beautifully sent to the circle of friends, you can get a lot of praise.
But I don't know when it started, there are fewer and fewer such people, some of them set the circle of friends to be visible for only three days, some do not send a message for many days, you have no idea what they are doing, how they are doing.
In fact, such a person is really not a simple person.
With the increase of age and the deepening of experience, they slowly see through many things, the heart of the previous circle of friends was simple, and later found that it was not necessary.
Whether the day is good or not, only I know in my heart, why should I be sent to the public to be watched? If a person cares too much about these superficial things, he will gradually lose his original intention, and the more you care about the evaluation of the outside world, the more you cannot be loyal to yourself.
It is better to live your life in a down-to-earth, low-key and pragmatic manner.
Many times, a person does not send a circle of friends, often has the following psychological characteristics, if you are also, then it means that you are a very strong heart, very mature thinking.
One: I don't like to compare and show off, I just want to keep a low profile
As the saying goes, the more a person lacks something, the more he wants to show off something. When you cannot be satisfied through your inner mind and knowledge, you will want to be satisfied by contrasting with the weak outside.
Such behaviors and thoughts, not to mention the inferiority itself, are even more vividly displayed in addition to money, and the fact that their heads are empty and useless.
In fact, people with a high standard of living, even if they just record their lives, will have the feeling of showing off, but such unconsciously revealing it is actually not a show off.
The show-off mentioned here is to pick those luxurious things to display, to pick those extravagant life sharing, these are the lowest level of show-off.
People who are truly full of heart, even if they have a lot of wealth, will not want to show their wealth through the circle of friends. On the contrary, they will avoid sending a circle of friends because of showing off, which causes the phenomenon of sending a small circle of friends.
Such people just want to live in a low profile, because they know the truth of the tree's big trick. The more high-profile you are, the more likely you are to attract attention and the more insecure you are.
Two: Pay attention to security and privacy, do not want to expose too much personal information
Some people have simple minds, and when they send a circle of friends, they don't think that this is a small public place.
If you always send too many personal messages, or always habitually locate when you go out, then you will give some ill-intentioned people an opportunity to take advantage of it.
For example, if you go to a certain place to travel, directly locate to a specific location, just imagine this time, if there is a malicious person who wants to carry out tracking, or other criminal acts, the content of the circle of friends undoubtedly creates the best conditions for such crimes.
In the Internet age, it may be difficult for everyone to have complete privacy at all. When you use each software, you must give up a part of your privacy to obtain the right to use the software.
It is for this reason that we should pay more attention to protecting the small privacy of our lives.
The circle of friends can be used as a platform for speaking or recording, but after all, it is still a public network environment, and no one knows whether anyone will use your information and privacy to carry out infringing behavior. In order to minimize this probability, it is safe not to send it.
Three: Say goodbye to useless social networking and no longer deliberately manage your own personality
Some people send a circle of friends, purely to get the recognition of the outside world, in order to run their own personality, but those who do not send a circle of friends, have long said goodbye to useless social, just want to live alone with high quality.
Such a attitude of rejecting the useless socialization of the circle of friends is actually very bold. In the face of some things that you are not interested in, purely a waste of time, there is no reason to make yourself more friends.
In the final analysis, they have more different value trade-offs and trade-offs for their lives, which can make them feel more fulfilled than doing something more meaningful on the Internet.
Many people will think that people who don't like to send a circle of friends are because of their low-key personality. In fact, it is not, they may have more consideration for this small matter in the eyes of ordinary people.
At any given time, people who can think things through more often have more concerns, but in any case, they must follow their true wishes.
It is really unnecessary to be wrapped up in the ideological orientation of others and do less important things such as sending a circle of friends.
At first, the circle of friends was just a small circle, and the friends in the circle of friends were the people they were most familiar with and closest to, but with the expansion of the social circle, we knew more and more people.
Some are just nodding their heads and are not familiar; some are out of the need for work and have to be added. These people are not good friends, but they exist in our circle of friends and can see our lives at a glance.
In order not to add trouble and burden to yourself, keep a low profile as much as possible and always be safe. This is also the main reason why high-level people gradually bid farewell to the circle of friends and return to real life.
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