There is a common preference in human nature, good to be a teacher, good to fight uneven, good at fighting and speaking out, this is a good thing, but you encounter strange things, and your preference is your hell purgatory in the future! That is to say, to help and guide others, it must vary from person to person, otherwise it will cause trouble, and if you are not careful, you will be involved in right and wrong, and even the people you have helped will turn back with a knife or a shot, purely to increase trouble.
This kind of person is ungrateful, in fact, the pure nonsense of grace and unkindness, forget good, what dripping grace springs to repay people are the ancients so mysterious to scare people, the ancients misled a lot of people, so ungrateful is too normal, originally ungrateful is the essence of human nature, who wants you to repay? Don't be righteous is to be in place!
In fact, ungrateful people often have these four characteristics. Only by remembering it well and "staying away" can the road of life be smoother and smoother.
1. Have a bad previous record.
As the saying goes, "the country is easy to change, the nature is difficult to move", a person with bad habits, for a while and a half will not be corrected. Perhaps, a lifetime is to find ways to gain the trust of others, selfishness is very heavy.
People with bad nature also have times when they are in trouble. When he was in distress, he stretched out his poor Baba's hand to wipe away tears, dying and living, trying to disguise himself as simple and kind, and even swearing poison that he would never do it again. However, in fact, once you sympathized with him and said all kinds of comforting and enlightening words at that time, they later became the reason for him to attack you for moral, pretending to be good people, and so on! When he is proud, the situation is not so miserable, and he has a little popularity, he will no longer remember you, and behind his back may say that you gave him too little.
Don't believe that a person with bad character can be kind and can reciprocate you. Just like those who "touch porcelain", they succeed again and again, but they will only encourage his arrogance, not let him correct.
A man of very bad character is like a poisonous snake, and if you help him, pity him, you are the foolish "farmer" in the fable of "The Farmer and the Snake."
2. Pick and choose from others.
There is a kind of person who has no ability, but his vision is very high, and his tail is cocked to the sky. If you help such a person, he is not a person who will appreciate you, and he feels that you are not helping enough, and the way to help is not right.
The most heinous thing is that a poor man begs you, and you are kind enough to give him food to eat, but he thinks that the food you make is not delicious. People are down, but the problem of picking and choosing is not corrected. Always, thinking who owes him something should be given to him.
Some people, you are good to him, the result he feels "taken for granted", if you have one day, not good for him, he bites back and hurts you.
3. Live in the belly of a gentleman with the heart of a villain.
Such a person, suspicious of God and ghosts, is always uneasy and kind. Let's say you invite him to a meal and he will guess that you poisoned him or set up a "feast at the gate." In fact, he always likes to have bad intentions!
Persecution paranoia, thinking that the whole world is staring at her, in fact, she herself has nothing to stare at others, peeping, and thinking that others are like this!
She is in trouble, you introduce her to work somewhere, and as a result, he is worried that you and your boss are friends and will deduct her salary. In fact, it's herself who likes to hook up with others and do bad things together!
4, do not remember others good, specifically pick others bad.
There is a saying in the "Cai Gen Tan": "Nine of the ten words may not be strange, and if one word is not in the middle, it is a collection of you; ninety percent of the ten plots may not be credited, and if the plot is not successful, it will be discussed." "That is to say, you say a bunch of good things to him, you can't hear them, and if you say a bad word, you will hate him for a lifetime; you have done a lot of things to help him, but you have not been recognized by him, and if you are wrong, he will hold on."
Not remembering others for good, and picking out others for their bad, typical ungratefulness. He looks at people with the bad qualities of others to refute the goodness of others. Typical "crossing the river and demolishing the bridge".
No one is perfect, and there will be no shortcomings. And ungrateful, he is to seize the shortcomings of others, to attack others, so as to make himself ungrateful, not to return with an excuse.
Such a person, turning his face faster than turning over a book, typical of "seeking benefits and avoiding harm", "finding a backer" and "hugging thighs".
Things are clustered, people are divided into groups, you are kind, you must be with good people, do not give kindness to "ungrateful" people.
Remember, "have a previous crime" three words, how he once treated his past friends, will always be so infinite cycle, will not look at you differently, must one day how to treat you, do not think that you will be an exception, do not have a fluke mentality, rebellion, baldness will happen again, as long as you have been intimate with him, therefore, your kindness and good teacher and warm-heartedness, must be different from person to person, some people, even if they kneel down to ask, do not help. #我要上头条 #
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