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Yan Yikuan is a well-known film and television actor, first of all, his handsome appearance is known as the modeling face,
He is the ceiling of the beauty value in the minds of the goddesses, and has been known as the "Four Beauties of Heaven" with Zhong Hanliang, Huo Jianhua and Qiao Zhenyu.
Secondly, as an actor, he starred in many film and television dramas such as "Sui and Tang Dynasty", "Imperial Princess of the Fallen World", "New Xiao Eleven", "Li Shimin of the Qin King", "Golden Years", "Mazu", "Water Margin" and many other film and television dramas, and won the National Drama Festival Idol Acting Award and other honors.
The most important thing is that he not only has good looks and acting skills, but also a good man who spoils his wife and daughter and loves his family.
Yan Yikuan's family of three
Yan Yikuan's wife Du Ruoxi is also an actor, acting in film and television drama works such as "Iron Pear Blossom", "Red Lady", "The Price of Winning Women", "Brave Heart", "Blood Oath", "Love in Love" and so on.
As a star couple, Du Ruoxi and Yan Yikuan look beautiful on the surface, the two have been holding hands in marriage for eight years, having a daughter, and the family of three is very happy.
However, they have many difficulties along the way, especially Du Ruoxi has been ridiculed by the group since he was made public, and he is not worthy of Yan Yikuanyun at all.
In fact, Du Ruoxi is really a woman who cannot be underestimated, she is not married well, she is doing a good job.
Du Ruoxi Yan Yikuan husband and wife
01 This girl has been brave since she was a child
Du Ruoxi, formerly known as Du Xiaoting, was born in 1985 in Tiexi District, Shenyang City, Liaoning Province.
Although she was born beautifully from an early age, she never thought of engaging in the acting industry in the future.
Later, with the increase of age, Andy Lau became her idol, and in order to be able to act with the idol, he was mistakenly admitted to the provincial art school.
Later, Du Ruoxi had another idol, that is, when she was 15 years old, she sat in front of the TV and watched Yan Kuan on the TV, while making a fool of herself, she said to her cousin next to her: "When I grow up, I will marry him." ”
Stills of teenager Zhang Sanfeng
When Du Ruoxi was 15 years old, Yan Yikuan was still called Yan Kuan, and he had just turned 21 years old and was still a student in the theater.
His height of one meter and eight meters, coupled with the handsome invincible modeling face and excellent results, he is a popular figure in the eyes of his brothers and sisters in school, and he is a beautiful man who is deeply liked by the audience and insiders on the screen.
To be someone else, in the face of such an idol, I am afraid that it is just daydreaming.
But Du Ruoxi this girl is very brave, in order to be able to act with Andy Lau she embarked on the road of acting, in order to become Yan Yikuan's little sister, she was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy.
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At the beginning, Du Ruoxi was admitted to the drama, when Yan Yikuan's little sister, she bravely broke into the office of 120 Middle School,
At that time, Du Ruoxi's professional course score was 480 points, which was one of the best in the play.
But her culture class is not good, she is very anxious, in a hurry, just in her home near the 120 middle school is a provincial key middle school, she thought of entering this school, looking for the teacher of this school to make up for herself.
So she went to knock on the door of each teacher's office one by one, and finally there was a teacher to make up for her.
Du Ruoxi, as desired, was admitted to the 2006 undergraduate class of the Department of Drama and Acting,
But at this time, she was still just a nameless youngster who had just stepped into the university door, and there was still a big gap between her and Yan Yikuan, the brother of the influential figure, how to get to know her?
For Du Ruoxi at that time, to be admitted to the play was to be one step closer to him, and she was not in a hurry to meet him.
She believed that if the flowers bloomed, the butterflies would come.
02 If you bloom, butterflies come
Finally, in his sophomore year, Du Ruoxi, who had a fresh temperament, was selected by director Li Xing to play the female number one of "Small Town Story".
This is a very rare opportunity for Du Ruoxi, and she can't hide her excitement and excitement to finish this film.
She did not hide her dream of stardom at that time, originally thought that after the broadcast of this drama, it would be a hit, I don't know, at least it can have a certain popularity.
She didn't think that this film could only be broadcast on a small scale for various reasons, which made her lose for a while.
Maybe it's fate and the costume heroine has no connection,
After Du Ruoxi graduated, because of his classical appearance, he was selected by the director to shoot costume dramas many times.
In the end, it encountered the "ban order" of the costume drama of the State Administration of Radio, Film and Television, and in the two years of 2006 and 2007, Du Ruoxi was very low.
She felt that she was particularly weak, what was not smooth, fortunately, the East was not bright and the West was bright, and she found that her role as a supporting role, even a cameo in the works, was very smooth, and frequently met with the audience.
For example, in the war drama "Iron Pear Blossom" starring Chen Shu and Wei Zi,
The Zhao Yanran she plays is a story of a kind-hearted Miss Zhao family who has become a female agent, although she is not the protagonist, she plays the psychological changes of this character very well, and also leaves a deep impression on the audience.
Then, she participated in Chen Haomin's "The Second Part of the Living Buddha Jigong", and in the "Criminal Master" starring Wu Qilong and Huo Jianhua, zuo Jiayin, the owner of the liquor store, was charming, generous, gentle and lovely;
In Guo Jingyu's "Red Lady", she played the white peacock of the jianghu woman with a righteous personality, strong and strong and with special skills, and Tang Min, who played the love idol drama "The Price of Winning The Girl" starring Zhang Han and Gao Yixiang, was smart and decisive.
Although these are not the protagonists, they are all brilliant.
Du Ruoxi also let the audience know her, after several years of ups and downs, her mentality is also much calmer, no longer entangled in whether it is the heroine, as long as it is suitable for herself, can move her role, she will treat it well.
She knows that as an actor, the role is no big or small, and it also takes accumulation and effort to perform the supporting roles.
03 Double harvest of love career
After the peace of mind, Du Ruoxi did not rush to become popular, she just wanted to do herself, whether it was acting or life.
What she didn't expect was that the way she finally became popular was because of marriage.
In 2013, Du Ruoxi shared the news of his marriage proposal by Yan Kuan on social platforms.
Yes, the 15-year-old who said that when she grew up, she would marry an idol, and she got her wish.
However, after the news was made public, what she received was not a blessing, but a group of ridicule and insults, for which she did not make any explanation, but Strictly removed the idol aura to protect her.
Yan Kuan couple
Yan Yikuan exposed the process of the two people meeting and falling in love on his Weibo, he wrote:
We met at the airport in 2009, and your warm smile deeply imprinted my heart. In Hebei, at minus 18 degrees celsius in 10 years, we warmed each other at the foot of the Great Wall. 11 years of yunnan inn you hold the puppy I take a picture of you.
In the hospital for 12 years, we held each other's hands and got through the difficulties together. Today, after 13 years, you promised me, thank you for your trust, it is my responsibility, I love you.
This is a belated public confession, it turned out to be Yan Yikuan's love for Du Ruoxi at first sight, it was he who actively pursued her, and she was always by his side when he was most difficult and confused...
Therefore, it is not the plot of fans chasing idols that everyone sees, nor is Du Ruoxi worthy of Yan Yikuan.
They did not hit the earth from mars at the beginning, but after experiencing rain, snow, wind and frost together, after affirming each other's personality and character, they recognized each other.
For Du Ruoxi, it is not easy to be the girlfriend of a male idol, after Yan Kuan proposed, there are some irrational attacks on her, she said that she can understand, who has not been a fan.
Du Ruoxi's love for Yan Kuan is a deep love, she said that as an idol, he can choose to marry in secret, and she will support him.
But Yan Kuan is also a responsible man,
He felt that to love someone was to be generous in his love, and promised her,
So he would not marry in secret, he chose to go public, chose to tell everyone that she was his woman, which made Du Ruoxi very moved.
It turned out that the love that went in both directions was so sweet, she did not give up for him, even if she was scolded on her back; and in order to reassure her, he promised to love her for a lifetime, to give her love and care.
Sanmao said: "With my heart, in exchange for your heart, only then do you know the depth of lovesickness, and only then do you know that we share happiness and suffering." ”
No matter how strong Du Ruoxi is, there will be times when she is vulnerable, and there are things that she can't figure out.
And as a good man, Yan Yikuan stepped forward, unconditional support and companionship,
He is not afraid of offending anyone, only afraid that she will be hurt half a bit, such support and mutual support, is love.
Before marriage, they take care of each other and accompany each other out of the trough; after marriage, they support each other and engage in business together.
Whether others say that she wants to rely on him to ascend to the throne, or that she is married well, only they know it in their own hearts.
People say that good marriage, let each other grow into better people, after marriage, they starred in TV series such as "In Love" and "Girlfriend in the Boudoir", and also cooperated in a new book to commemorate their love.
The more others are not optimistic, the more they love each other, of course, they are not to prove to anyone, but because that is their original life.
A family of three
04 Love is mutual
There are many people who are envious, Du Ruoxi has a good life, gets what he wants, marries his idol, and is still favored by him as a baby.
In fact, it is not easy to be a good wife and a good mother, and behind Yan Yikuan's love for Du Ruoxi, she also has a lot of hardships and helplessness, and it is how fortunate he is to marry such an excellent woman.
At the time of "My Family", many people said that they had misunderstood Du Ruoxi after reading it, and Yan Yikuan's favorite wife had collapsed.
It is because in the show, everyone sees that Yan Yikuan's performance can be described by one word, that is, "widowed parenting", as a father, Yan Yikuan will only nag his mother, but he will not do anything.
In an instant, it seemed that Yan Yikuan's spoiled wife had collapsed, and Du Ruoxi had sacrificed too much for this family.
For the crystallization of love, because of the body, she miscarried twice, and did not successfully give birth to her daughter meat until 2018.
In order to take care of his daughter, Du Ruoxi completely stopped working, and the road to come back after childbirth was so difficult, first of all, he recovered his body, and then he ran around the crew, running more than 70 crews, hoping to have a drama, but they were all rejected.
The reason is a lack of girlishness, a mismatch between roles and ages.
Outsiders see Yan Yikuan's endless love for Du Ruoxi,
Payroll cards, property for her, buying a house with only her name on it, preparing a 2.1 carat diamond ring when proposing, proposing in front of everyone, these are all very sweet and practical moves.
And love is mutual, Du Ruoxi is also giving while enjoying,
Therefore, in her opinion, there is no collapse of the human set that everyone says, it is just the difference in the division of labor between the two of them.
So when someone asks Du Ruoxi if he is married well or if he is doing a good job.
She said without hesitation: to be able to marry Brother Kuan, it is because she did a good job, for example, they were together, and at the earliest, through her own efforts, she became his sister step by step, and only when she was admitted to the play, she could become a brother and sister with him.
And the more than ten years with him, if it were not for the fact that she took care of everything in the family and took good care of him, he would not have such a long-term relationship.
Du Ruoxi understood that if he wanted to attract butterflies, he had to bloom a flower first, and marriage must be evenly matched for a long time, which was "you are good, I am not bad." ”
I've always liked a quote from Chaplin in When I Started To Love Myself:
"When I really start to love myself, I don't continue to dwell on the past, nor do I worry about tomorrow.
Now, I live only in the moment when everything is happening, and today, I live here and now,
Day after day, this is called perfection. This is the portrayal of Du Ruoxi and Yan Yikuan,
Couple recent photos
So far, they have been in love for more than ten years,
In these years, they really changed their hearts, experienced rain, snow, wind and frost together, looked at the sun, moon and stars together, and will work together for the rest of their lives in the future.
They know that a person's true wealth is never fame and fortune, but can live healthily and love happily.
For the rest of your life, only by seriously living your own life and treating yourself well is the beginning of a lifelong romance.
At last
Share a passage of what Mr. Qian Zhongshu said, personally like words, to see you here, I hope you have peace of mind.
You drink a cup of tea and think it's beautiful; you wash a piece of clothing and hang it outside and think it's beautiful; you see the wind blowing today, and the willows feel very beautiful.
It's not because these things make you beautiful, it's because you don't have a problem with your heart, that's why they're so beautiful.
This peace of mind...
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