"My Sister"
In the Japanese drama "My Sister", Chihiro Shirai and her brother talk about the ideal type. She said the final decision was "nail length" — if two boys were on equal footing, the shorter one would be chosen.
Regarding the act of "making decisions," we all have some strange rules that only we understand. Some people choose a university because the dorm has air conditioning; someone buys an ugly orange because it's so ugly; someone is together because the object can tell cold jokes...
However, in addition to falling in love with a person, there are many moments in life that cannot be explained by reason.
Last week, look at the ideal with "What strange decisions or things have you made?" Asked my friends for their little stories. In these sharing, we see a lot of ridiculous and lovely human beings.
The so-called fate, many times, is that the feeling of the moment is right (or too lazy to think about it anymore). Those small stubbornness or habits that may seem absurd to outsiders are probably the concrete proof of "I am me".
/Gospel for those with difficulty in choosing/
01.
First of all, aren't these decisions surprising at all?
@Heavy Mountain
When two things can only be bought the same, choose the cheaper one
@Jessica
When consuming, always choose another one other than your husband's recommendation.
@11.28
Give up weight loss because of gluttony.
@Monday Fly
My sensibility said don't go to work, but I rationally insisted on going to work.
02.
I don't know how to choose the go-to rule
@Wise Seagull
When eating in the canteen and not knowing what dish to play, I choose the one with green pepper as a side dish.
@Xiao Xu
Two majors of interest choose the one that does not need to learn high numbers. Similarly, the latter was chosen between compulsory high numbers and schools that did not have to take high numbers. Liberal Arts Student Ideas.
@Long time
In junior high school, a crush on a boy left a nail, until the nails were too long to cut off, and decided not to like him.
@Doolin 2046
When being broken up, counting the single and double numbers of vehicles passing the third green light on the road downstairs on the balcony decided whether to salvage or not.
@Charlene
On the day of the second subject exam, I decided to go to the person I liked after it, and I gave up completely before I passed.
"Seinosuke Yokomichi"
@lxy
If I find two interesting movies, books, or other objects at the same time, I'll choose to look at the older one first. This era is developing too fast, maybe I just can't keep up with this era, so I just "retrograde" well.
@0.01
Before making some hesitant and need to be affirmed by others, he will roll the dice in his WeChat dialog box. The singular represents one answer and the even number represents another, leaving the decision to random.
In fact, more often than not, it is just to verify the answer that is biased in the heart, but also to give yourself more courage to take the step of choice.
/My Stubbornness for Myself/
03.
Everyone is drunk and I wake up alone!
@Psycho.
When I was in elementary school, I decided not to drink Coke anymore, and I never drank it again.
@Dr.Who
Coca-Cola and Pepsi, only Coca-Cola.
@Pepe classmate
Coca-Cola and Pepsi, only Pepsi. Because the name is auspicious.
"Please Answer 1988"
@Sleepy Dragon
When people compete for the sweetness and saltiness of the tofu brain, I add sugar to the salted tofu brain. When people were vying over whether Pepsi or Coca-Cola was delicious, I bought a bottle each and poured it into a cup and drank it.
@Anj mine
No matter how handsome a square-faced man is, I will never admit that he is handsome!
04.
Some ordinary everyday strange behavior
@nolan
In winter, for the sake of the conservation of the universe, mondays and Thursdays wear the same clothes, Tuesdays and Fridays wear the same clothes, and Wednesdays open a new set. That way, colleagues won't notice that I don't have to wash my clothes and only need to use the washing machine once a week. This is my dignity and wisdom as a slacker.
@Please don't expose me
Probably from the time I lived alone in college, I would put all my clothes (tops, bottoms, socks, shoes...). Compile a sequence of numbers, and use random numbers to determine your day's outfit each day. Occasionally, subjective intervention is carried out according to the needs of the occasion, for example: it is best to wear a shirt for the interview!
This decision was made to avoid making a decision. I'm a bit obsessive-compulsive in some ways, not that things have to be placed at 90 degrees, and my room is quite chaotic, but the chaos is orderly and self-contained. So, rather than calling this behavior a "weird decision," I prefer to think of it as a system. There is a sense of ritual when operating, and the orderly and methodical mixing and matching of random numbers in the sequence of numbers is very cool and exciting.
@DPP
When I wear pants, I must mention the belly button eye, and in the winter, I will also tuck the autumn clothes into the autumn pants, and only when the belly button eye is covered, I feel solid. Although the subject repeatedly complained that it was strange to do so, I had to defend my navel eye.
Victory is Justice
@Rice is too thin
Constipation all day, just finished pulling the is immersed in a comfortable mood, the result accidentally rubbed on the right middle finger, sluggish for a few seconds felt that it is a rare experience, to take a photo with the hand with the sticky hand and sent it to a good friend to appreciate.
@MingTian
I didn't want to squeeze the subway rush after work on Friday, so I resolutely turned my head and turned around, walked home, and walked for an hour and a half...
@Wadding
I'm probably a bit of a road freak and always take a no-turn detour when I go somewhere. Especially when I am alone, I like to walk the road that I have not traveled, that is, walking around in the eyes of others.
As for why? This road I have already walked ah, eh, suddenly found that this side can also be reached, then walk, eh, anyway a person, eh, anyway will arrive well!
Shooting: @Wading
@ Warm snail
I often use whether the mosquito will go well to predict tomorrow's horoscope. If you can kill the mosquitoes with a scratch or a slap, tomorrow's luck is bound to be good; if you can't fight around, tomorrow you must be careful. In order to predict tomorrow's fortunes, I often sit on a small bench at night, roll up the hem of my pants to lure mosquitoes, and chase a drama by the way.
@Night
In order to pray for my brother's smooth college entrance examination, I made a strange and difficult decision, that is, to let myself not speak for three days, and others thought that I was emo.
@h
In the college entrance examination that year, in order to go to the examination room with a healthy and unheated body, I did not eat spicy things for a year.
@Mr. Lin
When I couldn't finish my final work all night, I saw two iron rods and it took me a long time to straighten them. Afterwards, I sent a circle of friends and continued to do the final work all night in a happy mood.
Photo: @Mr. Lin
@Blue Lost
In his junior year of high school, he shaved his head without anyone. In fact, I had this idea half a year ago, but I have not made up my mind. One evening between self-study classes, I realized that I had been stuck in a dead cycle for several months, hating myself for iron and steel, and I was eager to change my face and become a new person, so I shaved my hair and changed my personality.
@Wheat
My own daughter. Because I want to know what kind of head will be frozen when the bald head is covered with snow in winter; whether it will smoke and smell of roasted meat when it is exposed to the sun in the summer; what is it like to swim in the sea blowing in the trees; and whether the bald head with lace skirt will be sassy and cat? So I shaved my head on New Year's Day 2022.
@Zhang Lidong
Years ago, he was young and energetic, and a bit of a secondary two, and he was determined to gather twelve zodiac signs in college (unfinished) (and not intended to complete) (to save his life).
@Christopher
I don't know what kind of physique I have, my ex-boyfriend or the rush who died without illness are Capricorns, and later I met a boy who is also a Capricorn, but I don't believe in evil, I prefer to go in, and now I am a boyfriend. Let's just say, a my fate is up to me, hehe!
/ Life, there are always some inexplicable fates /
05.
HR and Admissions Teachers please take a look!
@Sharon
Many years ago I chose a unit because there was a shuttle.
@Lucy
Two offers chose the one where HR didn't have dandruff.
@West Turbidity
My hometown is in Anhui, the winter is very cold, and when I was a child, I often had frostbite on my hands. When I was in the fifth grade, my cousin went to Shenzhen to work, and came back to tell me that the winter in Shenzhen was not cold and would not produce frostbite, and I decided to go to Shenzhen to work when I grew up. Later, the first thing I did after graduating from college was to pack my bags and go to Shenzhen and fulfill my original decision.
@hj
When I applied for the university, because the city where the school was located was rich in my favorite lychees, I applied. As a result, I didn't eat it once in the four years I studied.
@Winter Boom
When filling in the college entrance examination, I found that there was air conditioning in the dormitory of the Media University (ten years ago, the air conditioning installation rate of the university dormitory was relatively low). As a result, he became the first person in his family to go to school in Beijing, and now he has been in Beijing for almost ten years.
06.
"Chance and Imagination"
@Xueyou is not surnamed Zhang
After leaving the job, I strongly wanted to go to the northwest to bask in the sun, and found a donkey friend in Douban, and I did not make up my mind for a long time. One day I placed an order for sunglasses before going to bed, thinking that if I arrived before the expected delivery date, I would buy a ticket. As a result, the logistics were very powerful, and I arrived early and set off for the happiest 12 days of 2021.
@Dandelion in the Wind yiyiyaya
Decided to leave the city after using this bucket of libai detergent.
But just two months ago, I bought a new bucket, and I was still in place.
@ Nine and three-quarters platform
Always choose to travel in the early evening as it is possible to watch the sunset on the bus. I have seen the sunset on buses, subway entrances, high-speed trains, and waiting halls. In short, how to look good, the evening is full of romance.
Shooting: @Nine and three-quarters platform
@Quail bottle
One day on the bus, he found that the sun was shining on the back of the passenger's head in the front seat, which made his head shiny, so he decided to take a picture of the back of the head of the front seat of the bus every day.
Photo: @Quail Bottle
@ All Day Oil Girl
I once sold the band tickets I bought, and then bought tickets for the same show at a high price to see the show.
The reason was that at that time, I had a good chat with the little girl who bought my tickets, and I learned that another netizen would also go to see the performance, and I thought that this was a good opportunity to meet with everyone, so I re-bought the ticket to go to the show with them. Later, we also went to Zibo to see the music festival together.
Shooting: @ All Day OilHead Girl
07.
Strange, I don't usually do that
@Blade Meow Dream Butterfly
One night seven years ago, I was chatting with my husband (who was still a boyfriend at the time) while working overtime, and I said that two days is Children's Day, do you want to register? Then we both registered for marriage.
@tcitci
My husband and I used to be Dink, and one day, without prior consultation, when I tentatively said, "It seems like we have a child now," he thought for a moment and said, "Actually, I want to say this for two days." A month later I found out I was pregnant.
It feels like: Our baby has chosen us. A force in the darkness affected our brainwaves and made us open a door for her.
@NIcole
My second cat was picked up from the side of the road. At that time, I just thought that the kitten looked like the maltose (another cat) that left me for the cat before, but it was very afraid of people, hid in the corner and did not come out, and did not eat cat food, so I squatted down and said, "I will take you home when you come over." When I said that, it rushed up and took my hand!! Maybe the cat also made a strange decision.
Shooting: @NIcole
@Scarecrow
I often wait for the car on a side of the road, there is a sales department on the side of the road, once rushed in to go to the toilet, the sales staff in and out of the building are busy, as if they can't see me.
When I entered the toilet, I saw a row of ten smart toilets, felt comfortable and warm, and later bought a house here, and pulled my brother to buy a set. Now the brothers and sisters are good neighbors.
End.
The Problem Restaurant
Stand-up comedian and screenwriter Liu Beast said when talking about the strange and straight people in comedy that there are no 100% straight people in the world, and everyone has a few strange points that are difficult for outsiders to understand.
These weird spots drive us to make inexplicably fantastic decisions and behaviors that are small or large, shaping our lives in different ways. It is precisely because of these strange points that even ordinary life has a unique wonderful.
Isn't there a saying that goes something like this: "Yes, but not necessarily". And the essence of being yourself is not: "No need, but I prefer"?
On the other hand, more often than not, we just need some strange behavior or standard to help us pick up the courage to move forward in this extremely rational world.
In any case, strange innocence, strange long live. One more thing to say, that is: strange, no brain!
Do you have weird times too?
Welcome to the comments section to open our eyes!
Editor, Author: Lin Lan
Producer: Cat Ye
Pictured: "Problem Restaurant", "Seinosuke Yokomichi"
"Please Answer 1988", "Victory is Justice"
Cover image: "The King of the People"