2021 has passed
We don't know if we should miss it
For a variety of reasons
Some, rational and restrained
Some people, tired but still brave
However, there are still a few people who can't bear the pressure of life and go to extremes
In the Qingchun Branch of the First Affiliated Hospital of Zhejiang University School of Medicine
Emergency department
Eight cases of suicide were treated within one month
Huge debts, pressure to go to school,
Emotional frustration, loneliness, mental depression
And so on
Hate will, love parting, can not ask
If you throw all this into the "deep well" of death
Simple, rough and cheerful?
Miss by a mile!
More than 20 years of practice, detoxification for countless "poisoned" patients
Chief Physician Lu Yuanqiang, Director of the Emergency Department
I want to write a small one
Rescue stories for these patients
He said that life is rich and interesting
The year is sad, in fact, it is necessary to cross the "hurdle" in the heart
Life has infinite possibilities, as long as you live, it is hope
She owes 300,000 online loans,
Drink a small half bottle of enemy grass quickly
"Once you enter the internet loan, you are as deep as the sea, and from then on, you understand that between life and death, there is another way of life called life is better than death!" In the First Affiliated Hospital of Zhejiang University School of Medicine, 29-year-old Xiaowei lay on the hospital bed and muttered weakly, while her mother on the side kept wiping away tears.
After a fierce competition between the emergency department team led by Director Lu Yuanqiang and the God of Death, Xiao Wei luckily picked up a life. When she was just sent to the emergency department, Xiaowei had been taking 50ml of pesticide "Enemy Grass Fast" for nearly 6 hours, she convulsed, comatose, oliguria, and her hands and feet like a puppet no longer listened to the call, and she kept flowing with ha laziness and dripping wet brand-name coats.
The highly toxic pesticide not only stimulated and corroded her digestive tract, causing her to have a sore throat and constantly vomit coffee-colored liquid in the early stages of poisoning, but also with the rapid progression of the disease, there was also severe cerebral edema and kidney damage. The medical team immediately gave blood perfusion to remove the enemy grass from the blood quickly, while correcting kidney failure, acid suppression and gastrointestinal mucosa, nutritional support and other treatments... After more than ten days of wandering on the line of life and death, Xiao Wei finally picked up a life.
"Such a large dose of enemy grass is likely to be unable to save it, little girl, you may not be the only one who feels that life is very hard or even can't live, but there are still many people who have experienced hardships and are still strong to live, people have the right to choose life and death, but in the future you will definitely be extremely grateful to yourself who chooses to live at the moment." 」 Director Lu Yuanqiang also repeatedly advised during the rounds, and the "mother" of the 6-year-old son on the video phone seemed to recall Xiaowei's belief in rebirth.
Xiao Wei's mother introduced that their family is Wenzhou people, and Xiao Wei is the only daughter in the family, working in a foreign trade company in Ningbo. She was good-looking and tall, and it was not at all obvious that she was the mother of a 6-year-old boy. Two years ago, Xiaowei and her husband divorced due to emotional discord, the child was raised by her ex-husband, and she restored her free body in order to create a "good marriage style" persona - non-big-name cosmetics are not used, not high-end restaurants do not eat, carry valuable bags every day, wear high-end fashion in and out of the company, have nothing to do with the "little sisters" all night rubbing mahjong, KTV, spending money, when there is no money, they borrow online loans for various consumption.
Gradually, she bought more and more luxury goods, and the installment platform of online small loans became more and more numerous, and Xiaowei, who earned only 4,000 yuan per month, had to repay tens of thousands of yuan of online loans every month. It is not that she has not thought of ways to make money, but she has done micro-business and engaged in various insurance methods, only to let herself lose money and lose more... After Xiaowei's mother asked carefully, she learned that Xiaowei, who had unlimited scenery in front of people, had already owed a loan of more than 300,000 yuan. The 100,000 credit card, white strip, and Huabei line has long been used up, and nearly 250,000 loans have been borrowed from more than a dozen lending platforms.
The year is approaching, every day by the debt collection telephone "bombardment", Xiaowei can not take out the money, nor can she borrow money, and finally chose to embark on a desperate road. After drinking the pesticide, she could not bear the torture of severe poison when she wanted to die, called her family for help, and finally the family sent her from Ningbo to Hangzhou for emergency rescue.
8 cases a month,
"Mistakenly ingesting" pesticides up to 70 years old and minimum 15 years old
In December 2021, in the emergency department of the Qingchun Branch of the First Hospital of Zhejiang University alone, there were 8 cases of pesticide poisoning patients. There are many reasons for their "mistaking", including failing exams, neighborhood conflicts, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law failures, emotional betrayal, and mental depression, which leads to the meaninglessness of "being born as a human being".
On December 28, a cute 15-year-old girl was sent to the rescue because she drank "Enemy Grass Fast". In the second year of the first year of this year, the usual academic performance is in the middle, because the exam is not ideal after being seriously criticized by the teacher, with Coke mixed with 2ml of "enemy grass fast" drank down, see the effect is not obvious, 7 hours later, drink 10ml of "enemy grass fast" again. By the time her family found out she was poisoned and rushed to the hospital, it had been 16 hours since she had taken the pesticide for the first time.
Unlike Xiao Wei, you can't tell which pesticide you drank, the bottle of pesticide was also thrown away early, and the experts finally clarified the source of the poison after a series of hematuria identification, because they missed the window period for medical rescue, and after more than ten days of detoxification and rescue, the flower girl escaped from death.
"Life is precious, and some things are taken without regret pills on impulse." Director Lu Yuanqiang introduced that the pesticide poisoning patients received by the First Hospital of Zhejiang University include paraquat, dichlorant fast, glufossium glufossinate, glyphosate, acetochloramine, etc., of which paraquat and dichox are the most toxic, whether paraquat or dichophylla is fast, there is no specific antidote.
A shopping website for the "enemy grass fast" consultation
What makes the emergency department experts most distressed is that in a large shopping website to search for "enemy grass fast", all that jump out are such pesticides of different brands, dozens of dollars can be easily purchased, sales are still quite high, and there is no warning in the product details that people should be careful about. In order to reduce costs and improve drug efficacy, some unscrupulous traders have privately sold paraquat prohibited by the state into the enemy grass fast, so that the pesticides with different packaging and content have also harmed many impulsive people. Experts need to spend more time to clarify the pesticide ingredients and use different ways to detoxify, which brings great difficulties to rescue.
Doctors emphasize that any pesticide has a great effect on the harm of the human body, once mistakenly taken or through the skin, respiratory tract, etc. into the body, must, must, must be timely medical treatment, save lives.
When the thought of "not wanting to live" came up,
Please actively ask for help
At the beginning, when I wanted to write about this topic, I was very hesitant
Suicide is the unbearable weight of life
It's too sensitive and too hard to grasp
Many people regard it as a "taboo"
Because it's too negative and heavy
It's like our attitude toward death
Curious to snoop, but afraid to look directly
In fact, for adolescents, due to the lack of mental maturity, the frontal lobe function of the brain has not yet matured, it is difficult to control their impulses, coupled with easy to fall into cognitive misunderstandings, feel that only death can solve the problem, will not be able to think about doing "stupid things" for a while.
Others have used it as a well-thought-out option. Liberation, let go, a hundred, ending one's own life in painful days, escaping from the unbearable circumstances of life... In this world, many people have to face the temptation of death every day, and they struggle between the desire to survive and the instinct to die, but no one knows.
"Suicide is a complex individual behavior, sometimes even a social behavior, and is affected by social, cultural, political, economic and other factors, not just the so-called 'fragility', nor can it simply be considered to be caused by psychological diseases such as depression." For each individual suicide, it is necessary to analyze the specific problems. Hu Chanchan, a psychotherapist in the Mental Health Department of the First Hospital of Zhejiang University, introduced that suicidal behavior actually includes 3 stages: suicidal ideation, suicide attempt and suicidal behavior.
01
Suicidal ideation
The representative has an idea, but has not put it into practice;
02
Suicide attempts
It means that you may really start to make plans, including buying medicines, going to high-rise buildings, etc.;
03
Suicidal behavior
Committing suicidal acts leads to death.
From germinating suicidal ideation to actually starting to plan, prepare, or even try, it takes an internal struggle. Faced with the idea of "not wanting to live", experts also prescribed these "spiritual prescriptions":
Psychic prescription
Acknowledging that you have this thought is the first step in beginning to heal yourself. When most people realize that they don't want to live, they usually feel cowardly or disappointed in themselves, but in fact, it is a kind of bravery.
Second, seek professional help. Suicide is an extremely complex behavior, it is difficult to overcome on its own, so professional help is very important, to go to the mental health department of a large tertiary hospital, or find a professional psychological counselor to actively carry out psychological counseling and psychological intervention, and adhere to treatment.
Third, talk about your feelings with trusted family and friends. It is also possible to try to live with friends or have deep contact, often a kind of relaxation and stress reduction, so that they are "forced" to shift their attention from their own problems to each other.
You can also try to log in to the "National Psychological Assistance Hotline Inquiry" function launched on the State Council Client Mini Program on WeChat, and click on the province you want to inquire about according to your personal needs; you can also click "University Hotline" to query the psychological assistance hotline of each university (you can also directly enter the name of the university in the search box to inquire);
Nine times out of ten things are not satisfactory in life
Maybe when you climb over the hill, you will be a little unable to hold on
But who hasn't thought about it for a hundred years?
At this time, don't give up on yourself
The world does not reward the lonely
The gentleman hides the vessel deeply
It doesn't matter if the moment is at a low point or a leap forward
Stretch the time dimension to ten years, stretch it to a lifetime
You'll find out
Face the biggest difficulties and problems in life
It is also up to "time" to solve it
Life will only be bitter for a while, not for a lifetime
There will always be hope in life
In 2022
Hope never dies, faith lives on