"Seeing each other and hating late" means lamenting that they met each other too late, and by extension, praising the other party's outstanding talent, or having a temper and temperament similar to their own.
From the Chronicle of History. The Biography of the Patriarch of the Marquis of Pingjin: "The Son of Heaven summoned three people and said, 'Are all the princes and others at peace?'" What a late night to see each other.
The Marquis of Pingjin and the main father here are two people, Gongsun Hong, the Marquis of Pingjin, who was also a famous politician in the early Han Dynasty, and later served as a chancellor of the Han Dynasty until the death of Emperor Yuan of the Han Dynasty in the second year. However, he is not the protagonist of this article, the main father is the person who made Emperor Wu of Han "meet and hate late", and his full name is the main father. But here we also have to mention Gongsun Hong, who let the main father finally fall to the ground.
The main father is very interesting, not a Confucian descendant, Qin and Han, the Fa family, the miscellaneous family, the Zongheng family, etc. can be mixed, the main father Yan is very mixed, good at the art of vertical and horizontal, miscellaneous hundreds of schools. The specialty is that he can speak and write articles, and the disadvantage is that his personality is not good, especially in the mainstream Confucian of intellectuals, he was ostracized, and he could not stay in his hometown of Qi guo, and he was poor, and he could only travel around yanguo, Zhao guo, and other places, and the results were similar, and they could not be mixed. Anyway, wherever he went, he was not treated well, he remembered the revenge very much, but the lonely interpersonal relationship was poor, and there would not be necessarily trouble; but the sense of revenge was strong, and it was often much more dangerous to make enemies everywhere, which also laid the groundwork for his tragic end.
The Lord Father is a lot older and doesn't want to see anything, but this brother is not a person who gives up easily. He went to the Western Regions to join Wei Qing, and seeing that there was no sign of being reused by the imperial court, he simply began to write a sonata and let the emperor see his talent in the most direct way.
The historical records say that he entered the palace in the morning, and in the evening, together with two other people who wrote the sonata, he was summoned by Emperor Wu of Han, and presumably what he wrote was deeply valued by Emperor Wu of Han. The content contains 9 opinions on current politics, of which 8 are related to laws and the last one is on the Hun war. You must know that Emperor Wudi of Han advocated taking the initiative against the Xiongnu, so that Emperor Wudi of Han could see the song in time, and he could attract his attention, and he had not yet been abandoned because of the opposite point of view. Of course, this also tells us that if we keep working hard, we will eventually be rewarded.
In the summons on the same day, the expression of the main father was estimated to be sufficient and the effect was very good, and Emperor Wudi of Han had the saying of "seeing each other and hating late". Since he had the first appreciation of the big boss, the speed behind was much faster, and the main father became the emperor's red man, a senior adviser, and soon changed from a disgraced person that everyone hated to a national pillar that they climbed. Once the lord father is powerful, his appetite is greatly opened, which in itself is a characteristic of the pragmatic and religious masters. The Lord's father gave the green light to bribery and collected a lot of money.
The point is that he began to touch the interests of the upper royals. The main father had a great merit, that is, to promote the Tuien Order, and doing this dirty work allowed him to get a new position comparable to Emperor Wu of Han. The same-sex king is too powerful, and it is not good to directly cut the domain, afraid of resurgence, the idea of the main father is that the princes are dead, and the fiefdom must be divided into multiple shares to be shared by several heirs, and the fight is small, so that the kings of the clan can no longer rise up the storm. This, of course, offends people. Why did King Zhao later want to make a high incidence of the lord's father, this can not but be an important reason.
The lord also personally forced the death of two powerful princes. King Yan was reported by him, saying that there was an incest scandal, and as a result, King Yan committed suicide. Later, he took the initiative to ask for instructions to investigate the problem of king Qi's style. Of course, he was a personal vendetta, and he wanted to marry his daughter to the King of Qi, but he was decisively plucked back by the mother of the King of Qi. During the investigation of the King of Qi, the main father gave full play to the characteristics of his personal ability and fierce personality, which soon made the King of Qi feel desperate, and in just a few days, the young King of Qi actually committed suicide in fear of sin, and the situation began to get out of control.
As mentioned earlier, the princes gathered fear and resentment against the main father, and they lacked such an opportunity, and as a result, the main father was quickly reported by the king of Zhao, and the bribes and forced to kill the princes were all hit on the seven inches of the main father. As a result, the crime was quickly confirmed, and the usually bad popularity played a role at this time, breaking the drum and beating ten thousand people, and Gongsun Hong, the prime minister, clearly stated that he should execute the main father, or he could not account to the world. Then, there was no more, and the Lord Father was killed.
Whether Emperor Wudi of the Han Dynasty "met and hated late" whether he achieved the main father or brought him deeper pain is really difficult to say, but there is no doubt that people must have self-knowledge.