Have you ever noticed that people are always prone to good intentions about the past?
That is to say, at this moment, it will always feel that it is not so satisfactory, and for everything that has become the past, it will feel that it is very good and very nostalgic.
There seems to be nothing wrong with such a concept, but we forget that all the past has actually been the present.
When the past is still the present, we don't feel good, and as the present becomes the past, we begin to feel good, in the end, it is not necessarily because everything is really good, but it is just our nostalgia, adding a layer of filter to the memory.
In life, we always seem to be so easy, always thinking about something that is not there, and ignoring the present.
Not only do we ignore the life in front of us, but sometimes, we also ignore the people in front of us.
We always think that the people in front of us are just like this, but we don't know that the people in front of us are the ones we should treat with the most carefully.
Only by living well with the person in front of you can you be happier.
Think about it, living with a person, if we are always careless and not good for each other, the other party must be able to feel it.
The other person will find that we do not love, and will also find our neglect.
In this case, even if the other party loves us very much and wants to cherish this relationship, in the end, I am afraid that it will only become very sad because of our attitude, and it will no longer be good to us.
In this way, neither of them cares, even if they are together, it is difficult to have any happiness.
Needless to say, that kind of day, of course, will not be what we want, choose a person, live with each other, in the end, we still long to have a happiness, to be able to live better.
Therefore, whether it is for each other or for ourselves, since we are with a person, we should respect our own choices, and also work with each other to live a good life in the present.
To give each other a care, to give each other a care, to exchange sincerity with each other, as far as possible to make life more flavorful, each other can have a warmth, a touch.
Only in this way will the other party feel that there is nothing wrong with choosing us, and we can really feel that we are loved and live more comfortably in the passing years.
Cherish each other, so that you will not regret it in the future.
A reader, after getting married, because the other person likes himself, he has always been very bad for his wife.
What he had always been thinking about in his heart was always the woman he had not received.
For a long time, he ignored his wife's feelings, often came home very late, and left all the big and small things in the family to his wife, and he just played outside and spent his days drinking with others.
A few years later, suddenly one day, his wife fell ill, which was related to the long-term depression, until that moment, he suddenly woke up and was annoyed by what he had done.
From then on, he began to take care of the family's affairs, that is, from that time on, he felt a little bit of his wife's difficulty, and he wanted to make up for it, but everything seemed to be too late.
In life, there are times and some things, when we regret it, we will still have the opportunity to compensate, but some people, some things, even if we wake up later, it will only be too late.
Don't want to create such a situation, we really should not be too willful, when the other party loves themselves, they are particularly fearless, only should cherish every day now, as far as possible do not leave regrets for themselves.
That person, after all, is our own choice, after all, it is very important, since we have chosen, we must know how to be responsible, do not wait until we have to lose, we know that we should cherish.
What is lost is never important, what matters is the moment.
Admittedly, in the past years, we may have met some very good people, and the person in front of us may really be just mediocre compared to each other, and it is not so amazing.
But we must also understand that no matter how good the person in the memory is, the other person does not belong to us.
We will all make some mistakes, we will lose some people, all the past, we must know how to reflect, but we do not have to keep thinking about it, always feel that people who do not belong to themselves are more worthy of attention.
You know, the person who loses, no matter how good the other person is, as long as the other party does not belong to us, is the same but just a passer-by. People can't always live in the past, everything in the past can't be changed, what we have to do is to live in the present.
All along, it is the people around us who have been accompanying us, pouring us a glass of water, and sharing the burden with us.
The people around us may have a lot of deficiencies, but they are also the other party, participating in everything we do.
Always look back, it is not far, there will be no future, know how to let go of the past, love what you have chosen, go with the people in front of you, and treat the people in front of you as your sweetheart, and our future will be more promising.
All the past is the prologue, and the lost will have their own future, and we will actually have our own scenery.
In the years, some people have a mortgage every month, and their days are tight, but they also feel very happy.
Some people don't have any debts, have a lot of savings, and are still not happy.
After all, if we don't know how to cherish the present, no matter how much we have, we will always feel that something is missing.
Know how to cherish, even if the days do not look so satisfactory, their hearts will still be relatively full.
People, to know how to cherish the present, cherish the people in front of them, cherish their own possessions, and should not always think of some of the no, always feel that they do not have a lot of things, the real want did not get.
Sometimes, we don't have a lot of it, and what we get isn't that bad.
It's just that we forget to cherish, forget to be content, forget to accept.
Text/Tan Meng
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