Question: Why is the Dream of the Red Chamber honored by the daughter? This is the biggest failure of this book!
Text/Jiang Zi shushu
The next stone under the Qinggan Peak, once recorded the illusion and seal text, the moon will stone see "Stone Record"!
Rong is Hua Xihua is Rong, the former Lord of the Mengxi Hall of Mushi, rouge dyes "Dream of the Red Chamber"!
Sound energy two singers two mu, two jian wind and moon two flowers! With poetry passing on the history of stone ink, who knows the thrush zhao wind and current?
The daughter who is not married will not be surrendered, and the last days will be loyal and righteous! At the time of the first time, the name was Tong Lingyu, and the surname was originally Qin.
The source is Eryu playing Erbao, generous and elegant as a concubine, Rong Yuanning playing Yin Zhen, "胠箧", "Nanhua" continued "Zhuangzi"!
- Preface to The Book of Stones
"Dream of the Red Chamber", formerly known as "Stone Record", is the remaining fairy stone of Nuwa Patching Heaven, a story that she has experienced in her own life, and Baoyu is the strongest and most precious stone in the Three Realms.
In the world of the Red Chamber, whether it is the Baoyu of the Jia Family in Chang'an or the Baoyu of the Zhen Family in Stone City, they are all Yihong Gongzi who respects his daughter, what do you see them say?
Bao Yu often said to his children, "These two words of this daughter are extremely noble and pure, and they are even more honorable and infallible than the two treasures of Amitabha Buddha and Yuan Shi Tianzun!" You have a foul mouth, you must not make these two words out of the ordinary, it is important. But whenever you want to say it, you must first rinse your mouth with clear water and fragrant tea, and if you make a mistake, you must chisel your teeth and wear your cheeks. ”
In the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber", Jia Baoyu often said that the daughter is the essence of heaven and earth, and the boy is the remaining scum of heaven and earth, the root of which is because the daughter represents the three words of "loyalty, righteousness and chastity", and Lin Siniang's story is the clear evidence that the author clearly points out "daughter" as "loyal".
Officials heard that most of the ancients favored sons over daughters, and Prince Yihong had this insight, knowing that compared with men with foul mouths, daughters were superior characters, the purest essence of heaven and earth, and naturally they were extremely intelligent and elegant princes.
However, taking the daughter as the loyalty and righteousness is also the most vicious spell of the patriarchal society, the strongest moral shackle that has bound women for thousands of years, and the biggest failure of "Dream of the Red Chamber".
It is said that "Kong Yue became a ren, and Meng Yue took righteousness", however, because of the benevolence of the woman, Xiang Yu eventually failed, and Liu Bang, who had no moral baggage, won the final victory.
Why did the ancients add the word benevolence to women? Don't men need benevolence? That's because women are mostly kind and empathetic by nature, in other words, they are called soft-hearted, and they are often unconditionally and bottomlessly soft-hearted.
When it comes to people's moral kidnapping of women since ancient times and today, it is natural that we cannot fail to mention the traditional Chinese concept of love and marriage, and we may wish to look at a few well-known stories.
For example, the story of the cowherd weaver girl! Niu Lang is kind and honest, so he steals the Weaver Girl's clothes, and then morally kidnaps the Weaver Girl to marry him poor and white, weaves cloth for him to pay off debts, makes money for him, passes on the generations for him, and finally breaks the immortal tendons for him and becomes a mortal.
So, what did a sincere cowherd do for the Weaver Girl? Where is his effort? Where is he honest? What did his kindness bring to the Weaver Girl? Is it really rude for a man who does not give anything, with a fig leaf of sincerity, steals other people's clothes in the name of marriage, and morally kidnaps the heavenly immortals to marry?
Even the story of Pan Jinlian and Wu Dalang, I have not seen where Wu Dalang's so-called "good brake" performance is, the tea and meal are all Pan Jinlian cleaning up, the female red in the family is also Pan Jinlian doing, even the house they rent, are all with Pan Jinlian's dowry, together with Wu Dalang's cost of selling burnt cakes, are all obtained by eating Pan Jinlian's soft rice.
Rich and generous men are bad people, they are just playing, having nothing, waiting for unearned gains, blood-sucking women for a lifetime, men are sincere, and those who choose to have money are three views that are not correct. Really brainwashing women.
It is natural for men to not cash in on their rhetoric, and women who are deceived into falling in love and marriage are not allowed to stop losses, otherwise they are cheating poor men's feelings. Poor men don't have to pay anything, and they can justifiably kidnap women with the two words of sincerity, and make cattle and horses all their lives to meet the wishes of their whole family.
It is said that etiquette is exchanged, where is the reason for sacrificing a woman alone? Men regard women as grass, but women can not regard men as enemies? Why do some people always brainwash women so viciously to be victims? Because poor barefoot men will riot, women have little strength to bully? Please, the era of cold weapons has passed thousands of years!
Why did Lu Xun attack traditional filial piety? Because all people are born equal, the lives of the younger generations are not cheaper than the lives of old men and women.
A woman's parents are good people, which is equal to the tragedy of reincarnation, because none of them pit, but specifically pit their daughters. If a woman marries a so-called traditional good man, it is equivalent to the tragedy of the second reincarnation, because the strange virtue of a traditional good man is to trick a daughter-in-law into returning home and performing filial piety for him.
Why is it that it is easy for women to fall in love and get married? Because men's responsibilities in marriage can be arbitrarily discounted, women are different, once pregnant, women can not avoid, once they have children, women must be the first to be pushed to the cusp of morality, because this society allows men to be jerks, and stipulates that women must be great.
How humble can a woman because of poverty? Men's little experience is weak and explosive, men's poverty, most of them are temporary, as long as they work hard, they can change, if women are poor, with the vision of your parents, they will desperately belittle you, suppress you, let you marry the worst man, roll in the mud for a lifetime, no matter how hard you try, don't want to get out, unless you wait to get rid of the moral kidnapping of loyalty and filial piety, and live for yourself.
Society's excessive moral demands on women's near-cleanliness force women who are already in a disadvantage to be more involuntary. Women's tragedies often come from their women's benevolence, who dare not live for themselves, do not dare to take something for a lifetime, and can only lose their luster in the mud pond of infinite sacrifice, as Jia Baoyu said, and finally be distorted to change their appearance.
Jia Baoyu said, "The girl is not married, she is a priceless jewel; Out of marriage, somehow conjured up a lot of bad problems, although it is a bead, but there is no glorious treasure color, it is a dead pearl; When I get older, it's not the beads that change, it's the fish eyes. How can you make three things out of a clear person?"
Society requires women to serve the interests of men, and ultimately to hate women to become as realistic, cold-blooded, and dirty as men, in the final analysis, this society is not based on daughters, but only requires women to be more loyal and filial than men, why are those moral kidnapping requirements not used for men? Why give up on the demands on men? Ask men to improve their morality, instead of using the word morality to throw all the baggage to women.
The information in this article is mainly quoted from: "Dream of the Red Chamber" Cheng Gaoben, "Fat Yan Zhai Full Review Stone Record"