01
Aya, you are the least senior of our sisters.
In a variety show.
Big S carefully finished making up and closed the air cushion.
Little S hurriedly touted:
"You are very suitable for high-end goods."
Aya on the side also blushed enviously:
"Your face is very advanced"
But Big S listened, but sighed worriedly, and his expression was very sympathetic:
"Aya, you're the least senior of our sisters."
The sudden derogatory loss made Aya visibly stunned.
She laughed awkwardly and stuttered in defense:
"You can't say that... I belong to the Virtuous Type..."
On the side, the "Sister Crazy Demon" Xiao S also mended the knife:
"Aya, you have your character, but not superior. Do you use to see (big S cosmetics), can you become advanced? ”
Big S also "generously" handed over his own used air cushion:
"Then I can send you this."
At this time, the scene is already very embarrassing, and many people think that Aya will change her face and get angry.
As a result, she quickly took over the air cushion, and while making an exaggerated expression to make everyone laugh, she laughed at herself:
"After wiping it, will you become the restaurant manager?"
The others laughed.
After the show aired, some people questioned:
Is this how girlfriends get along? Obviously, there is only embarrassment and derogatory.
And it is a bit rude to give your own used cosmetics to others...
More netizens pulled out, in fact, this is not the first time Aya has been "humiliated" -
Big S can burst into tears when he talks about his idol, Takuya Kimura.
But when Aya talked about her idol Andy Lau, she was interrupted by Xiao S's indifference:
"I don't want to hear it."
Big S is even more poisonous tongue:
"Hua Tsai is really unlucky."
"He doesn't need someone like you to help him spread the word."
During the conversation, he completely ignored Aya's embarrassed and helpless face, and did not leave her any face at all.
There are many such verbal "humiliations".
Even Aya herself said that she was with the "Seven Fairy Sisters" and had suffered a lot of grievances.
She is like a "harlequin" who sets off a swan.
But what the audience didn't understand was that —
If you are aggrieved, why have you been playing together for 20 years?
Why is Aya so humble?
Why is she so humble?
02
"Not beautiful, not tall, laughing mouth is crooked, I am a 'funny clown'." 」
This is the positioning that Aya gave herself when she was a student.
When Aya was born, her father was in her fifties and was very fond of this daughter.
But Aya, who looks ordinary, has harbored the dream of being an artist since she was a child.
She was admitted to Huagang Art School despite her parents' objections. But when I got there, I found that I was really an ugly duckling.
At that time, big S, who had a strong personality and was tall and beautiful, was the school's hero, and he had shot advertisements with Jin Chengwu before entering school.
Coupled with the fact that there is a sister Xiao S for her "posture", it is very beautiful.
Aya, eager for recognition and attention, would love to join them.
And the way she joined this sisterhood was to be humble and flattering.
Aya once described this experience in her book—
At one point, Big S said to eat buns. So Aya got up early in the morning to buy her buns.
As a result, too many people bought buns, and when Aya buns were sold out.
Aya was terrified.
So, in order to make up for her "mistake", Aya bought all the other breakfast categories in the neighborhood, hoping that Big S would look at one of them.
As a result, when the breakfast was handed to Big S, Big S only glanced at it and threw a bunch of things into the trash.
With a "whoosh" sound coming from the trash can, Aya felt her heart thrown into the trash can.
Tears of grievance swirled in his eyes, but she endured.
But when it was time for the next class, she began to laugh and giggle around the big and small S sisters.
Aya's tolerance also fueled sister S's indulgence.
Even Little S, who has always been a "dog-legged" in front of Big S, often "bullies" Aya.
She would suddenly push Aya from behind as she walked up the stairs.
He would also call Aya "fat" in the crowd, completely ignoring the embarrassed look on her face.
These incidents, which can almost be counted as "school violence", are still told as jokes by the S sisters.
But Aya just laughed helplessly when she heard it.
In fact, from these things, we can also see Aya's personality:
She was a cautious, careful, and slightly humble girl.
Such a girl, if there is no correct guidance or a good experience, will easily become gloomy and extreme, inferiority and extremism.
But Aya didn't go in that direction.
On the contrary, in the process of getting along with the big and small S sisters, she can always be self-enlightened and self-extricating, and people have become more and more tolerant, generous and peaceful.
Such a character has also achieved her "beautiful life".
So in the later career of an artist, even if she did not have a beautiful face, a devilish figure, and played the role of a clown, she still had a good audience.
She makes the audience feel comfortable.
03
When she was a student, Aya blindly used flattery to integrate into the "Seven Fairy Sisters".
But it turns out that her choice is not "loss-making" at all.
What is the most important point of mixing in show business?
Network.
After the "Seven Fairies" of Huagang Art School entered the circle, each of them showed their abilities and magical abilities, and soon they all had something to do.
And Aya, as the most ordinary one, can have today's achievements, thanks to the "promotion" of her sisters.
Sister S debuted very early, not only releasing records, but also hosting their own shows.
At that time, Aya could only sit in the audience and do the "atmosphere group".
However, every time the show wants to interact with the audience, sister S indicates that she wants Aya in the audience to give Aya a chance to be photogenic.
In addition, sister S will hold a press conference and will also name Aya to preside.
In this way, relying on the "promotion" of the S sisters, Aya gradually changed from an obscure "passerby" to an assistant host.
And she herself is also very hard to compete and seize every rare opportunity.
Eventually, Aya signed a contract with an agency and became a real entertainer.
It seems that it was from that time that Aya's good fortune came—
In 1996, Aya was given the opportunity to participate in the variety show "I Guess I Guess I Guess Guess".
Although she is only a location host, her generous, cute and funny style has attracted a lot of attention.
In 1999, Aya released her debut album. Even more, with the "Divine Comedy" "Ice Breaking March", it has become popular in both sides of the strait and three places.
"Red bean big red bean taro
Frustration frustrated frustrated frustrated what do you want to add?"
I bet on a pack of spicy strips, and many people have "frustrated and frustrated" with Aya on TV when they were young.
The name "Aya" is getting louder and louder, and although it is not as well-known in the mainland as the big S who starred in "Meteor Garden", it is not much better than the small S.
And Aya has become more and more mature and stable.
She is witty and ghostly, and her identity switches back and forth between the host, singer, and actor.
Her smile is also becoming more and more confident, more and more free and cheerful, and she is a rare multi-habitat artist with excellent audience popularity.
04
In 2006, Aya, who was in the ascendancy of her career, suddenly announced that she would leave the show business circle for a while and go to the United States for 15 months of further study.
Further education, for an artist, is both a good thing and a bad thing.
The advantage is that it can help artists enhance their inner cultivation and value, which is more beneficial to their long-term development in the future.
The disadvantages are also clear at a glance, and if it is missing in the public eye for a long time, it is easy to be forgotten and past.
So what did Aya do with her best friends during her studies?
This point is most clearly seen in Xiao S, who hosts the variety show "Kangxi".
She still continues her "poisonous tongue" and "knife insertion" style, and mentions Aya from time to time in the show, but almost no exception is to damage her and harass her.
At first, some viewers were not accustomed to it, thinking that she was disrespectful to Aya in doing so.
But from another point of view, this is also a disguised way to pull Ayyar back into the audience's field of vision.
So Aya's return went smoothly, because in the minds of many viewers, Aya did not leave.
Aya herself confessed:
"They are my nobles."
But Aya is also not a rotten good person who has no principles at all.
As Aya gradually matured and had her own opinions and ideas, she also began to dare to "resist" and "pass the move".
Once, Little S made an inappropriate joke in public, which embarrassed Aya.
Afterwards, Aya avoided the crowd and said to Little S:
"Please don't make jokes like this in the future, I'm very uncomfortable."
At that time, Xiao S was also frightened, but she quickly apologized to Aya in a way that made the two sides seem less embarrassed.
When she saw the sisters again, Aya was still gentle and generous.
Although the big and small S sisters still like to belittle her and damage her later, they still have some restraint compared to before.
And Aya is still inclusive.
Perhaps for her, she had become accustomed to this kind of sisterly way of getting along.
Because she knows in her heart that no matter how poisonous and hateful her girlfriend's mouth is, when she really needs them, they will be the softest and most trustworthy.
One year, when Aya's father was hospitalized with a heart attack, Aya's mother and sister were not around.
When he was most lonely and helpless, it was Big S who was the first to appear in the hospital.
She also held Aya's father's hand to cheer him on.
This is the girlfriend who has been together for 20 years, standing by your side when you need it.
And when you don't need it, she is the biggest "obstacle" in your life.
05
At that time, after the "not advanced" variety show was broadcast, the outside world scolded the big S.
For the questions of the outside audience, Aya responded like this:
"Every friend has their way of getting along."
"We've known each other for 20 years, how can it be better if we've been bullied for 20 years?"
Perhaps in the student period, this girlfriend relationship was not "pure".
One side is high above and is the focal point of the magnesium lamp.
The other side is cautious and cautious, the ugly duckling with low self-esteem.
Aya approached the Big S Sisters with "purpose".
And the big and small S sisters only accepted Aya because she was "obedient".
But in the long-term relationship, the two sides run into each other, and gradually become real good girlfriends.
As the old saying goes, "Companionship is the longest confession of affection." ”
The same applies to friendship.
What the audience sees is the sisters' superficial "words and swords", and they are years of consistent feelings, which are deeply buried in the bottom of their hearts.
As for being bullied and being humble, no one can define it except Aya.
But Aya's life really became more "beautiful" because of this group of girlfriends.
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