01.
- The Treatise on the Ten Dwellings of Vipassana says:
"By knowing, the winner is accomplished." The effect is from the cause, and the thing becomes the effect. ”
In a person's life, the cause and effect are repeated.
Perhaps, in many people's minds, the related remarks of cause and effect are just the old ideas of the ancients.
But this is not the case.
The theory of cause and effect, which involves the movement of life.
Cycles of back and forth, ups and downs, in a person's life, cause and effect, all the time.
About good and evil, about encounters.
Whether it is the interaction with people or the intersection with things, there are stories of cause and effect.
Can't dodge, can't avoid.
It is precisely because of this that people should pay more attention.
Think about the big picture, don't indulge in the past, and don't despise the present.
The future is long, bearing the fruits of the past, the past has been determined, and it is the cause for the future.
Standing at the junction of life, please pay attention to the cause and effect in life.
Plan for the future and give good results to the past.
As for everything else, life has its own answers.
02.
Don't dwell on the past, the causes planted the day before have become established.
Are you satisfied with your life now?
In the vast sea of people, how many people, reading regret medicine, want to go back to the past and change their lives in the present.
But the past has become a given, and no matter how people think about it, they can't change it.
Therefore, don't turn your head and look at the past, but delay the present day.
The future is still very long, and the present day, condensed fruit, is the time of the future.
In the long river, people will eventually stand as a tree and fulfill their lives.
The road ahead, don't look back, just be firm and walk towards the future.
When I visited a friend's house the other day, she was eating a not-so-good apple.
And her refrigerator is full of very fresh fruit, and thinking about her life, it is always the same.
I put the fresh fruit in the refrigerator, put it away, forgot it, and bought a new one.
So, I put the newly bought ones in and took out the bad fruits and ate them.
This is very similar to her life.
She often remembered the past, sighed and felt nostalgic for the past, and said regret in her mouth.
"If that time...", such a sentence pattern often appeared in her words.
And with the passage of time, these words have become new "ifs".
Indulging in the past brings her not a reference, but a bad fruit.
In fact, life is like a fruit in the refrigerator, there will always be fresh in.
If you can't digest the freshness in time, you have to constantly embrace the erosion of the old things.
And those newly settled things will turn into the next round of sunset.
Therefore, those past events, should be put down, just put down.
The moon has risen, and the sunshine will sprinkle on time in the early morning to meet the future, which is the best posture.
03.
The cause and effect of life is also manifested in encounters.
On this road, the people or things encountered are all predestined by cause and effect.
It is often said that people meet because they have a fate.
As for being able to develop to the stage of degree, it is its own cause and effect.
Cherish every encounter, and when you meet, be full of expectations.
Get along seriously and sincerely, and then leave the matter to fate.
If you are unfortunate to separate, please do not be discouraged, and wave goodbye generously.
In the TV series "Ruyi Zhuan", Ruyi said that his love with Hongli was Lan Yinxiuguo.
In her final days, she calmly accepted this fact.
Life is like this, there is an encounter, there will be separation.
It doesn't matter who plants the fruit of this separation, whoever plants it.
What matters is whether you have done so in the process.
In most cases, if both parties get along seriously, the results will be beautiful.
The common treatment of love, the father's kindness and filial piety, and the fist and fist of friendship are all the same.
In the process of getting along, how each other does it also determines what direction this relationship will eventually go.
Those who should come cannot be stopped, and those who want to go cannot be left, so are people, and so are things.
In the face of all kinds of encounters in life, do your best, obey the destiny, and settle down with the encounters.
04.
Milan Kundera said: "Meeting is a beginning, leaving, in order to meet the next departure." ”
On the road of life, if someone comes, someone will go.
Whatever cause is planted, what fruit will be borne.
No need to struggle, no need to worry, relax, the road is still flat.
Whether it is the person you meet, the things you encounter, or the past self, it is an unavoidable experience in life.
In the face of life, it is good to maintain your own mentality.
Don't be anxious about the past, don't worry about the future, and at the same time, smile and greet every encounter of life.
Life is beautiful and the scenery on the road is also very good.
Stop crushing yourself when nothing has happened.
As a person, we can't change others, and all we can do is adjust ourselves.
And when you are confident enough to start to meet life, life will also bring surprises.
If you are now, you feel that life is not very pleasant.
Don't panic, calm down, do every second of the present, the future of the good, is to you originally.
For the rest of your life, stand firm in the moment and live up to life. This is the best posture in the face of cause and effect.
Please remember that the cause and effect of life is planted by yourself, and what you can live like depends on yourself.