Friends say that if you were given three options in life, love, friendship, and career, you could only choose one of the three, which one would you choose?
I said, as a man, will your choice be different from mine?
My friend laughed. Because don't think about it, the vast majority of men will definitely choose friendship and choose brothers.
This may be the childishness and incomprehensibility of men.
In concrete and subtle life, this is truly incredible. Choosing love, then marriage, and then children, can form a complete life support platform. Choosing a career, once successful, means that there are too many dreams and desires that can be easily realized. And choosing friendship, to make it specific to brothers, it is really difficult to say what practical gains it can bring to yourself in real life.
After all, brotherhood does not necessarily mean opportunity, it must mean companionship, it must mean righteousness, it must mean complete understanding and tolerance.
But incredibly, the vast majority of men will not be in the choice, the brothers are excluded. This point is vividly reflected in some common performances of men.
War movies, jianghu movies, action movies, martial arts movies, gun war movies, will always make men's blood boil, the biggest reason is that basically in every film, the protagonist will have one or more brothers who do not abandon, completely do not care about the company of life and death. If so many years have passed since the ancient puzzle boy, why are men obsessed? If both fast and furious are going to be in double digits, why do every one of them make men flock to it?
What man doesn't have a song about his friends in his heart that makes people tear up when they sing it?
Which man conquers the mountains and seas with a sword in his dreams, or even stands alone in the sunset of the long river, without the company of friends?
Which man is in the most helpless, lonely and pathless situation, not the most eager for a friend's drink?
What man, even if he is abandoned and betrayed by the whole world, and forgotten by love, can completely destroy the two words brother in his heart?
This is the concept of friends and brothers in men's hearts, even if in our lives, there are never any fierce grandeurs, never any ups and downs, never any grand blood, some are just ordinary and can be seen at a glance day after day, but it does not prevent men from putting friendship in the most important position in their hearts.
For men, there is no need for thought or explanation of choices and concepts.
In fact, from an emotional point of view, men are the most intelligent creatures. Because they will never unify and mix emotions together, nor will they allow each emotion to replace and squeeze each other, either one or the other, but naturally divided into layers, just like a suite of multiple rooms, enriching their lives.
Just like love is responsibility, career is struggle, dreams are freedom, that friendship is delivery, delivery trust, delivery understanding, delivery of self, delivery of time, delivery of the past, and then let their frankness and arrogance indulge fragile peace of mind or even unbearable, there are people who have a place to express and place their hearts with confidence. For men, this is truly unparalleled importance.
A long life, a short life, only friendship, but whoever has, dare to say that there is no loss, no debt.
This is the purity of men.
(Like my text, please pay attention to the public number: middle-aged emotional chatters.) ）