Some connections are like a meal, and they will disperse after eating

The ancients listed friends among the five luns, "the foundation of humanity, the beginning of all generations", and made a good friend, which is extremely precious.

Nowadays, people list friends in resources, called network resources, friendship from "humanity" to human network, less human touch, general to each other.

What kind of friends should I make? Confucius believed that if you can make these two kinds of friends, you will be blessed.

A kind of person is called a "mad man", a mad man is not crazy in arrogance, crazy in ambition, untamed, crazy in the courage to forge ahead.

There are many fanatics in China, Li Bai, Su Dongpo, Zheng Banqiao, etc., the common feature of these people is that they are crazy outside, good on the inside, harbor feelings of compassion for heaven and people, and the social problem lies in informal etiquette.

Another type of person, known as the "Fox Soldier", seems to be a little lonely, but he is clean and self-sufficient, sleeping in the snow.

There are also many Chinese warriors, Ni Zhan, Tao Yuanming, Wang Wei, etc., and the common characteristics of these people are that they are alone, they walk alone, and their social problems are that they are angular and difficult to approach.

Crazy people, foxes are rare varieties, "crazy people enterprising, fox people do not do anything", crazy people rush forward, dare to do dare to do, foxes do things very principled, there is something to do.

The way to make friends lies in "seeing the wise and thinking together" and in seeing the true knowledge in tribulations.

In the vast world, most of the people who deserve to be emulated and admired are crazy people; most of them who can help in the long life and in times of crisis are also crazy people.

The accumulation of contacts and the friendship of crazy people are indispensable and cannot be mixed.

Network resources are established by the exchange of interests, and without benefits, one shot and two scatters.

If making friends is equated with accumulating resources, there will no longer be a story of "Guan Bao's friendship" and "Yu Boya wrestling the piano Xie Zhiyin".

There is no longer a friendship of expensive and cheap cloth, there is no life and death of life and death, and there is no friend of suffering that can be entrusted to orphans.

All that's left is the intersection of the city road.

Text/Comic Zhou Tao

Edited by Hu Lan

Editor Wang Luyao Shi Yuling