Many boys and girls chat, do not know how to upgrade the relationship, obviously want to pursue each other, but finally chat into a male girlfriend, so that the relationship stays in the friendship area. So how to chat with girls to talk about feelings?
Chatting with girls on WeChat to talk about feelings, there are two prerequisites:
1. Girls have a certain interest in you
2. Relatively pleasant chat state, atmosphere
If these 2 conditions are not met, most girls who go to upgrade the relationship are rejected, and they will be embarrassed and embarrassed.
Maybe the point of trouble for the brothers is that the girl's interest in herself does not seem to be high, then it is obvious that what you need now is to enhance the attractiveness, not to think about upgrading the relationship, you need to step by step, a simple chat, in order to start the relationship to pull up.
But you still have to learn this technique, so even if you don't meet this premise at the moment, don't worry, there will always be.
1. When a girl gives you an interest indicator (favorability).
Like what:
After the girl tells you your height, you can say: Not bad, come and touch my head.
Or, when the girl answers you a question, you can say: Be so good, reward you with a lollipop.
As for whether the girl will come over to touch your head, whether we want to reward lollipops or not, it does not matter, what is important is that such interaction will allow you to develop from shallow chat to deeper.
2. Chat method to describe the story
For example, when you vaguely invite girls (fuzzy invitation: refers to another day sometimes takes you to xxx to eat delicious food, this is a fuzzy invitation, saying that there is time for another day, not going right now, girls are easy to accept, there will be no pressure) or when describing a scene, we can use the chat method of describing the story to upgrade the relationship.
For example:
For example, when I talk to girls to mobilize girls' emotions, common words: we can go to the beach to blow the evening wind, take a walk, I hold your hand, although sometimes I feel that you are stupid, but I put up with it, who makes you so cute again~
The way to describe a story, the advantage of this chat to upgrade the relationship is that you can describe the scene while giving the girl expectations, giving the girl expectations and expectations, and then letting the girl also enter this state, the girl's mind fantasizes about the scene of walking with you, and from time to time you hold her hand and play.
3. Role playing
This trick is also very easy to use, role play is to put some common roles into the chat process, a bit like the chat in the cosplay, common roles are boss and staff, teachers and classmates, yuan and concubines, little brothers and sisters are more or less a kind of play,
For example, if you chat with a girl, you can use the role-play chat method of teachers and classmates.
The girl said: This baby is the cutest
You can reply: Classmate, since it is so cute, let the teacher pinch your little face
This method relationship immediately escalates, jumping from the relationship of friends to the method of role-playing.
Speaking of this, some brothers may ask, if I use this method to upgrade the relationship when chatting, what if it becomes embarrassing? How to crack?
The way to do this is to fight back with humor
For example, the above mentioned touching of the head, the girl just replied to an oh, the atmosphere is awkward to die, that means that she may not want to continue to talk like this, the fire is not yet enough.
At this time, the girl returns "Oh", you can reply that "you start to sell cute in this way again, don't do this", use humor to fight back against the girl's coldness, maintain the attraction established in front, in the long run, your relationship will naturally exceed the friendship area and upgrade to a couple.