Lu You's mother forced Lu You to divorce Tang Wan on the grounds that Tang Wan could not give birth to a child, but when Tang Huan remarried, she had already given birth to a child with someone else.
In ancient history, the combination of Lu You and Tang Wan was hailed as the most "beautiful" love story, but unfortunately, this pair of immortal couples was separated by Lu You's mother, Tang Shi, who strongly required them to separate the husband and wife, and this strong underpinnings came from the Lu family lineage.
Lu You, who was born in the Lu family, was definitely a noble family in the two Song Dynasties, and Lu You's grandfather, Lu You, who was once a student of Wang Anshi, served as the deputy prime minister during the Song Huizong period, and compiled the "Records of Zhezong".
Because of Lu Biao, the Lu family must have been very smooth in politics, but soon after, a major event that shocked the ancient history occurred, interrupting the rising trend of the Lu family.
In 1125, Lu You was born on the way to Fenjing, his father Lu Zai entered Beijing to take up his post, and two years later, in 1127, Fenjing was forced by the Jin people to open the city gates, the two emperors were captured and went north, and the Northern Song government collapsed.
This incident had a profound impact on Lu You's political ideas and literary thought throughout his life.
When Lu You grew up, it was already the Southern Song Dynasty.
Lu You was taught by many literati since he was a child, because his family was a political aristocrat, so he had not yet participated in the imperial examination, and when he was only a teenager, he was awarded the idle post of "Deng Shilang", although for the court, this position was meaningless, but Lu You also had an official body.
In addition to this, Lu You's examination is also different from others, and Lu You's examination is the "Lock Hall Examination".
The so-called lock hall refers to the imperial examination conducted by the sons of These officials and eunuchs of Lu You, and Lu You originally did very well, but because he was in the same batch as Qin Jun's grandson Qin Xi, in order to take care of Qin Xi, Lu You's ranking was suppressed, and later he was beaten to the point of not being hired.
Fortunately, Qin Juniper died of illness two years later, and Lu You was able to make a comeback.
At this time, Lu You's life had twists and turns, before that, Lu You was also connected with the "early" Tang Wan, because of the forced order of Lu You's mother Tang Shi, Lu You married his new daughter-in-law Wang Shi, and after experiencing huge fluctuations in feelings, Lu You experienced fluctuations in his life and career.
Separated from Tang Wan, it is difficult for the history books to say how uncomfortable Lu You is, but from the later "Phoenix", it can be realized that Lu You's love for Tang You is a person.
Originally, the two of them were supposed to go to the last pair of immortal couples, but unfortunately, Tang Wan and Lu You had been married for many years, but they had not given birth to children.
The combination of the two is very wonderful, Lu You is talented, Tang Wan is more beautiful, they were at that time, symbolizing the most perfect love marriage state of young people, but the problem is that what young people like in general, the older generation will oppose.
In the face of the talent of her daughter-in-law, Lu You's mother did not feel that it was a good thing.
Tang Shi was the mistress of the Lu family, the father-in-law was lu tuo, the deputy prime minister of the Huizong era, and the husband was the envoy of Jingxi Road at that time, psychologically, she naturally put the Lu family in a very high position, in her opinion, Tang Huan should be a good reproductive tool, and should not be full of genius.
Tang Huan did not give birth, Lu You explained to his mother, saying that Tang Wan's physique is like this, and later, Tang Wan was also able to give birth to a child, but Tang Shi did not listen to these reasons, and what she was really angry about was that his son's career was hindered, and he had to come back and spend the moon with Tang Huan.
The decline of the Lu family made the Tang family intolerant of the "talent" of the daughter-in-law, and at that time, the ideological imprisonment of women had actually begun, Tang Huan was still very young, naturally unable to empathize with the Tang family, and when they came and went, the family had a great contradiction, and it was to the extent that Lu You had to divorce his wife.
In the face of his mother's aggressiveness, Lu You did not say to rebel against his mother, Lu You's attitude became the biggest sorrow in his marriage with Tang Wan, he listened to his mother's will and let Tang Wan move out, but Lu You also placed Tang Huan in a courtyard at the beginning, which was very difficult to give up.
Soon after, Tang Shi knew about this matter, he found Lu You, and began to criticize Lu You again because of this matter, and then she found Lu You's second wife Wang Shi and let them get married, forced by family pressure, Lu You began a second marriage, as for Tang You, perhaps back to his home.
It is very sad that Tang Wan, who was dismissed, was a woman with both talents and good looks, and he was soon pursued by other young talents, so she and her second husband in life, "Zhao Shicheng".
In the Song Dynasty, the surname Zhao was a big surname, and Zhao Shicheng was indeed a son of the imperial family, and Zhao Shicheng was not an ordinary imperial son, his father "Zhao Hun Xiang", after the Jing Kang Disaster, was almost pushed to the throne by the Sixth Army and became the emperor, even if Zhao Hun Xiang did not become emperor, Zhao Shicheng's status was also very high, but "Yongjia County King".
At that time, Zhao Shicheng was also courting, it just so happened that they were all in one place, and this marriage became, but Tang Hu was not Zhao Shicheng's first wife, Zhao Shicheng had also been married, so the essence of this marriage was still very fair, which also made Tang Hu respected enough in this marriage.
After Lu You and Wang Clan got married, they gave birth to heirs one after another, and Tang's face smiled and blossomed, she always felt that before Lu You had no heirs, it must be Tang Wan's problem, and it was also because after separating from Tang Wan, the Lu family ushered in so many descendants.
But Tang's idea was soon "punched in the face", because after Tang Wan and Zhao Shicheng got married, Tang Wan also began to conceive a child, which shows that Lu You's explanation was not wrong, and Tang Wan may really just be physically not yet at that stage.
The so-called things are human, nothing is Lu You and Tang Wan, the couple, they have the helplessness of the wang family, especially Lu You, in the face of his mother's strength, he has no way to resist, everything about Lu You comes from the family, naturally it is to conform to the interests of the family.
Many years later, Lu You visited a famous local garden in Lin'an: "Shen Garden", it just so happened that Tang Wan and her husband Zhao Shicheng were also visiting the garden here, and the husband and wife met again, which was a helpless situation, but Tang You walked out of those painful memories, she generously walked to Lu You, said hello, and said the past.
Seeing his ex-wife, facing her calmness, Lu You was in a trance, in fact, both of them had endless pain in their hearts, the reason was that they were each at home, Lu You gave birth to a child, Tang Huan also gave birth to a child, but when they were together, they could not have children.
With Zhao Shicheng's consent, Tang Huan toasted a glass of wine to Lu You, paying tribute to each other's first love, paying tribute to the two most suitable people in that world, but the sadness of not coming together.
After this incident, Lu You recalled thousands of times, he remembered that when he married Tang Wan, he sent a "golden phoenix", and this golden phoenix had already returned to its original owner because of the separation of the two, Lu You recalled the word "poor and lonely like a phoenix" during the Huizong years, which is the name of the word "Phoenix".
Lu You inscribed this poem on the wall of Shen Garden, "wrong wrong wrong", "MomoMo", the clear emotions in the words, even if it has been many years, have not faded, Lu You vividly shows the nostalgia behind this immature but warm love, where life does not meet, the most afraid of meeting is to leave.
After the appearance of Lu You's "Chao Tou Feng", Tang Wan saw this poem of her ex-husband, so he also wrote another poem "Chao Tou Feng", under Tang You's pen, Lu You's mother Tang Shi's aggressiveness, as well as the helplessness of life, were revealed, and the two were sad with each other in the text, but also kept a distance from each other intellectually.
It is these two words that seem to be dialogues, which have become famous passages through the ages, Tang Wan's life is very short, he died early before he was thirty years old, while Lu You is very long-lived, almost living to the "age of old age", and in his life after the age of thirty-five, he completely lost Tang Wan.
Later, Lu You wrote in the Shen Garden:
Forty years after the dream was broken, Shen Yuan Liu did not blow the cotton.
Returning to Shen Garden after more than forty years, Tang Huan has been "incense and jade" for forty years, and the willow trees in Shen Garden are also getting older and older than him, but some people will not grow old again and will not come back.
In the last time of his life, Lu Youwei was worried about two things, one was the home country on the verge of being broken, he should have had a frank career, but he was repeatedly suppressed by the surrender faction because of his efforts to recover the Central Plains, and he was depressed, and the other was his ex-wife Tang Wan, who was the last pure land of his soul and a regret that he was young enough to persist.