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Yu Dafu: Abandoning his pregnant wife and marrying Wang Yingxia, the famous flash marriage in the Republic of China is still a tragedy

In modern times, there have been many talents, in addition to Lu Xun and other great literary heroes, as well as Yu Dafu, a patriotic and amorous literati, he not only understands Chinese and Western cultures, but also good at speaking the languages of various countries, Yu Dafu wanted to go to the official field like most literati in history in his early years and make a big cause, so he went to take the diplomat exam with full hope, but it backfired. Since the ancient official field, there are many unspoken rules, Yu Dafu asked people about the reason, only to know that those who are famous on the list, all of them were good at the beginning, Yu Dafu is talented, more of the arrogance in the bones of the literati, although he is very angry about this matter, but for his own future, he still went to take the subsequent diplomat exam. Yu Dafu was very confident in the examination room, thinking that he could definitely be on the list this time, but the heavens made a joke with him, and the quota was once again occupied by powerful people, yu Dafu could no longer stand it, and directly gave up the examiner's plan, and since then there has been a literary giant in Chinese history.

Yu Dafu: Abandoning his pregnant wife and marrying Wang Yingxia, the famous flash marriage in the Republic of China is still a tragedy

Yu Dafu was born in 1896, his hometown is in Fuyang, Zhejiang, his grandfather Yu Shengshan is a famous local doctor, but Yu Dafu has not enjoyed his father since childhood, his father died when he was three years old, Yu Dafu lived with his grandfather and widowed mother, in order to provide Yu Dafu to go to school, his mother relied on helping people sew clothes, Wash clothes hygiene, life is very hard, it is the experience of childhood, so that Yu Dafu deeply feels that the world is cold and warm, and his personality is relatively silent. There is a saying that introverts and silent people are more suitable for literary work, and there is also a certain truth in this statement, and Yu Dafu's experience and personality have laid a solid foundation for the future literary path. Yu Dafu went to a private school at the age of 7, entered the academy at the age of 11, after graduating from the higher primary school, he was admitted to Hangzhou Fu Middle School, and then went to several church schools, Yu Dafu during his study, often sent his works to the newspaper, and later because he was dissatisfied with the education method of the church school, he returned to his hometown for two years to stay at home and study alone.

Yu Dafu: Abandoning his pregnant wife and marrying Wang Yingxia, the famous flash marriage in the Republic of China is still a tragedy

In 1913, Yu Dafu followed his brother to study in Japan, he stayed for ten years, when he was studying in Japan, not only learned new knowledge and new ideas, but also saw the gap between China and foreign countries, after the fall of the Qing Dynasty, China entered the era of warlord chaos, economic, military and other aspects are backward to foreign countries, Yu Dafu often feels distressed by the international backward status of the motherland, in addition, there is the relationship between men and women, when the trend of gender liberation has swept Tokyo, Yu Dafu's initial thoughts are still relatively conservative, However, the intellectual stage of Japan, as well as the students in school, have been liberated from the relationship between men and women, the newspapers publish portraits of ladies and celebrities, and many aristocratic women will also go to the photo studio to take pictures, it can be said that Yu Dafu's concept at that time was incompatible with Japanese society. Japan is a small country widow, the woman's personality is particularly gentle, and the concept of chastity is relatively weak, not as heavy as china looks, Yu Dafu whenever he comes into contact with Japanese women, always with excitement and loss, so he often feels distressed.

In 1915, Yu Dafu left Tokyo to study in Nagoya, and when he was studying, he began to contact Japanese women, but most of them were in brothels, in fact, it is understandable that a person studying in a foreign country, there is no one around him, when he is depressed, he will inevitably think of doing other things to divert his attention. However, every time he returned from the museum, Yu Dafu fell into a contradiction again, he was concerned about the motherland, but now he was indulging in warm nephrite, so the vicious circle. Yu Dafu's friend Qian Chao once recalled that Yu Dafu's days in Nagoya were very romantic, often wandering in brothels, and would also introduce them to what they had seen inside. Most of Yu Dafu's early novels were based on prostitutes, which may be because of this experience in Nagoya, but now that I think about it, the literati of the Republic of China are very popular, whether it is Yu Dafu or Guo Moruo, Xu Zhimo and others, they will not end up with a woman, which is related to the feudal ideas left in China, on the one hand, they are influenced by Western culture, on the other hand, they are ordered by their parents, so they often make some history of affair.

Yu Dafu: Abandoning his pregnant wife and marrying Wang Yingxia, the famous flash marriage in the Republic of China is still a tragedy

In the autumn of 1916, Yu Dafu switched from medical science to liberal arts, and after graduating in 1919, he was admitted to Tokyo Imperial University to learn about economics, during this period, Yu Dafu was much more psychologically mature than before, he read a large number of foreign masterpieces when he was studying, and began to try to write novels, and successively wrote short stories such as "Sinking" and "Moving South". "Sinking" is a shadow of Yu Dafu describing his early years, according to his autobiography, when he was thirteen years old, he began to have a male and female one, and also had a first love with a fighting girl, this faint youthful melancholy, actually affected him for a long time, until the Zhao family women were engaged to marry, Yu Dafu regretted it, and in the same period, Yu Dafu also had such feelings for two women, and later he went to Japan, and met Many women such as Goto Takako, Tianye Mei, Yu'er, etc., Goto Takako and Yu'er, Both are maids in the hotel, Yu Dafu has written love poems for these two women, one of which is quite famous, it is written to Yu'er, which reads: Yu'er sees a doctor rouge, two lines of tears fall on the pipa, which shows that Yu Dafu was romantic and affectionate in his youth.

Yu Dafu: Abandoning his pregnant wife and marrying Wang Yingxia, the famous flash marriage in the Republic of China is still a tragedy

In 1921, when Yu Dafu was teaching in a school in Anqing, he met a girl named Haitang, the two had a very close relationship, every time Yu Dafu finished teaching, he would definitely go to the residence of Haitang outside the city, because there was a class in the morning, Yu Dafu needed to rush to the city gate in the early morning, and then waited for the city gate to open, in his novel "The Vast Night", he described his love life with Haitang in detail, but in the way of a novel, the heroine named Haitang, said that it was the Begonia girl who interacted with him. The male protagonist's name is Yu Zhifu, who is also the embodiment of Yu Dafu. The women we mentioned above are not the wives of Uddhav, but can only be regarded as lovers and confidants, and Uddhav's first marriage was influenced by the old times and obeyed the orders of her parents. In 1917, when Yu Dafu returned home from Japan, his mother introduced a fellow countrywoman Sun Tsuen, and the two people quickly got engaged, but Yu Dafu was not very satisfied with this family affair, but from some of his poems, it can be seen that although Sun Tsuen was not proud of his appearance, he talked and talked like a feudal woman in the old society, so Yu Dafu was still quite attached to her.

Yu Dafu: Abandoning his pregnant wife and marrying Wang Yingxia, the famous flash marriage in the Republic of China is still a tragedy

In 1920, the two married, according to Yu Dafu's idea, everything was simple, neither witnesses were present, nor candles were lit, even firecrackers were not released, Sun Quan's way of marrying was also extremely low-key, but when night fell, he made a palanquin from home to Go to Yu Dafu's house, and after a simple dinner, he officially became a husband and wife. After 1921, because of Yu Dafu's work, Sun Quan ran around with her husband and lived in Anqing, Shanghai, and Beiping, which was also her happiest day. However, the marriage did not last long, in 1927, Yu Dafu and Wang Yingxia, who fell in love at first sight, were engaged, Sun Quan and her husband were completely separated, and Sun Quan took his children back to Yu Dafu's hometown to live with his mother, and did not die until 1978. Yu Dafu recalled in his diary in 1936 that he had been married to Wang Yingxia for nearly ten years, and his feelings for her were still the same as when they first met, and the feelings of the husband and wife were still warm after so long.

Yu Dafu: Abandoning his pregnant wife and marrying Wang Yingxia, the famous flash marriage in the Republic of China is still a tragedy

Yu Dafu met Lu Xun in his early years, in 1927 Lu Xun moved to Shanghai to settle down, the two became increasingly close, Yu Dafu wrote for him under lu Xun's introduction, and later co-edited the monthly magazine "Benliu" with him, Yu Dafu and Lu Xun were both collaborators and friends, Lu Xun also supported him to become the editor-in-chief of the newspaper. Although Yu Dafu did not throw himself into the revolutionary battle like Guo Moruo and others, he was very bitter about the counter-revolutionary forces, and although he was immersed in personal love disputes, Yu Dafu was often critical of Chiang Kai-shek's actions and organized many patriotic activities in private. After everyone thought that Yu Dafu's life would be calm, and his wife Wang Yingxia had been in love until the white head, yu Dafu found that Wang Yingxia and Dai Kasa had an affair, and the husband and wife were completely separated, and it is a pity that Yu Dafu was secretly killed in September 1945, resulting in an amorous life.

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