The way love looks is - no matter how good you are, there are always people who are not used to you, no matter how unbearable you are, but that person just likes you, this is fate, that is, to meet the right person at the right time, regardless of beauty and talent, regardless of status and past, age is not a problem, height is not distance, just three words - I do.
Emperor Taiji is one of the few emperors in history to marry three of his aunts and nephews. But these three women are not simple, one has won the Jiangshan that Huang Taiji has worked hard to lay, one has got what every woman wants to have - the heart of a man, and the other is to win the respect of Huang Taiji.
As a successful man, What Huang Taiji needs most is not how talented a woman is, but how empathetic she is, and obviously Hai Lanzhu has done it.
Hai Lanzhu was Xiaozhuang's elder sister and entered the palace at the age of 26. At that time, Hai Lanzhu had already had an unhappy marriage, became a widow at a young age, and was ridiculed by the tribesmen as an "ominous person" in the grassland. It was in this situation that she was given to Huang Taiji by her brother in the form of a marriage.
After entering the palace, after Huang Taiji heard about Hai Lanzhu's origins, not only did he not dislike her past, but he was even very distressed about this beautiful woman who was widowed at a young age, which stimulated his impulse to protect and love this woman.
Because Hai Lan Zhu is a woman, from childhood to the cold eyes of the people around her, plus there was an unhappy marriage, so for the Emperor Taiji warm feelings wave struck, warmed her cold heart, so Hai Lan Zhu's love for Huang Taiji, are carefully stored in the heart, and in action let huang Taiji feel their own sincerity and love, which makes Huang Taiji, who is accustomed to fighting with his heart, face the sincerity of Hai Lan Zhu, instantly feel that he has experienced the sweetness and happiness of doing ordinary.
In order to show his feelings for Hai Lan Zhu, he specially gave the name of the palace where Hai Lan Zhu lived as "Guan Ju Gong", which means from the "Book of Poetry: Guan Guan Ju Dove, in the River Continent, a lady, a gentleman and a gentleman. It symbolizes the most beautiful love between men and women.
With the favor of Emperor Taiji, Hai Lanzhu soon ranked first among the four concubines, second only to the empress. Soon gave birth to a son for Emperor Taiji, emperor Taiji in order to show the honor of Hailanzhu mother and son, but also a once-in-a-century amnesty in the world, various tribes have sent emissaries to come to the pilgrimage, it is said that Emperor Taiji personally said that he wanted to make Hailanzhu's son the prince.
As the saying goes, the greater the expectation, the greater the disappointment, and it may also be that the Emperor Taiji attaches too much importance to this son, and as a result, this son did not live to the age of one year and died prematurely. (This is what others often say about life that cannot be endured)
Hai Lanzhu, who had lost her beloved son, could not bear the psychological blow and was in a trance all day, and died of illness soon after.
When Hai Lanzhu was dying, Huang Taiji was directing the battle on the battlefield of Songshan, and after he learned the news that Hai Lanzhu was critically ill, he immediately rushed back to Shengjing day and night, and when he returned to Shengjing, Hai Lanzhu had been dead for many days.
In the face of the loss of two beloved people, the psychological pillar of the Emperor Taiji who had been running for days was completely destroyed, and after coming to Guan Ju, where Hailan Zhu lived, the Emperor Taiji was even more devastated by the scene, and even had heartache to the point of passing out, and only woke up after emergency rescue.
In order to express his remembrance of Hai Lan Zhu, Huang Taiji held a solemn funeral for him, and gave him the title of Min Hui Gong and Yuan Fei, the word "Yuan" was actually only used by the emperor's wife, and Huang Taiji seemed to imply that only Hai Lan Zhu was his wife, which made the empress at that time how to feel sorry.
With the departure of Hai Lan Zhu, Huang Taiji suddenly collapsed, his body deteriorated, and finally within a few years after Hai Lan Zhu's death, he vomited blood and died, which shows that Huang Taiji was deeply devoted to Hai Lan Zhu.
However, Xiaozhuang Dayu'er, who is known as the first beauty of Manchuria, did not get the favor of Emperor Taiji because of her extraordinary beauty. However, because the purpose of marrying a husband and wife at that time was political marriage, whoever was favored was to win glory for the mother's family.
Love is not the most important thing, what is important is to let the blood of the Mongols flow in the blood of the heirs of the Emperor Taiji.
Obviously, Xiaozhuang did this, although she did not get the love of Emperor Taiji, she gave birth to three girls and a man for Emperor Taiji, and the boy was the later Shunzhi Emperor - Fu Lin.
Perhaps it was the blood of the Emperor Taiji who loved beauty and did not love Jiangshan flowing in his body, and the Shunzhi Emperor Fu Lin also died for love.