When it comes to love, some people have decided to "allow one person to be partial to love, and are willing to do the generosity of the rest of their lives", some people have experienced "for the sake of Yi Que people are haggard, and the belt is gradually widened and there is no regret", and some people have determined that "the mountains and the earth are united, and only then dare to be with the king". Although I have heard of love and nine wounds, it is difficult to curb my heart's yearning for "holding the hand of the son and growing old with the son". Those who shout that they no longer believe in love are probably not seen in love as it really is. The song "Ladder" must have been heard by many people, especially the lyrics of "How tired, I will never be discouraged; one more year old, I will accompany you for one year" makes people listen to it.
Behind this song, there is a story that makes countless people envious and tearful - the ladder of love.
Liu Guojiang and Xu Chaoqing, an ordinary Chinese couple, have interpreted extraordinary feelings with their lives.
From braving the world's great disobedience to becoming a realistic version of the cowherd weaver girl, "the young man" and the "old mother" have written a long and strange relationship with two hearts of life and death. One is a stinking child, the other is a budding girl, two people who originally had no intersection, met under a magical opportunity.
At that time, there was a custom in the village that children who had lost their front teeth would grow new teeth as long as a bride touched them in their mouths. When someone was holding a wedding, Liu Guojiang followed the palanquin all the way, desperately hoping that the bride could make his teeth regenerate.
The bride held out her finger through the curtain and put it in his mouth, and he bit his finger nervously, and the startled bride lifted the curtain and was greeted by a delicate and slightly shy face.
Young Liu Guojiang had never seen such a beauty, he had been looking at it stupidly, at that time he naturally did not understand what was called "one eye ten thousand years", but he was deeply attracted.
The bride was None other than Xu Chaoqing, and that day was her big day.
I can't help but think of Zhang Ailing's sentence: In the tens of millions of people to meet the people you meet, in the tens of millions of years, in the endless wilderness of time, there is no step earlier, there is no step later, just caught up.
Love is worthy of the most wonderful thing in the world, just one glance is enough to mistake for life. Love once begun, will never end. Love is the most wonderful thing in the world：At the sight of her, he fell in love all his life。
Ten years of life and death are vague, do not think, unforgettable...
The next time they intersected was a full decade later, when Liu Guojiang was 16 and Xu Chaoqing was 26.
As the saying goes, "There are not many widows at the door", and his act of doing nothing to give and courtesy has attracted many gossip, but he ignores it and insists on carrying water, chopping firewood, and taking care of household chores. For almost four years, he went to Xu Chaoqing's home rain or shine, taking care of orphans and widows.
Even if Xu Chaoqing was afraid of delaying him and deliberately not seeing him, he could not change that firm heart: to protect you for a lifetime.
Finally, in 1956, 19-year-old Liu Guojiang confessed to Xu Chaoqing, who was 10 years older than him.
Since he was regarded as a great rebel, he simply left, and he wanted to take his loved ones away and fly away.
It's hard to imagine how determined they were and how much courage they needed to gamble on each other and give up everything.
It's hard to imagine how determined they were and how much courage they needed to gamble and give up everything for each other.
There is no lack of passion for elopement in this world, what is missing is the perseverance to stay together, and the ordinary life of chai rice oil and salt has made many people unable to bear loneliness, let alone survive in a cruel natural environment.
When many couples parted ways in the face of small tribulations, Liu Guojiang and Xu Chaoqing did not want to give up in the wind and rain.
Working at sunrise and resting at sunset, standing up to the test and keeping the original intention, from their relationship, I saw Lin Huiyin's sentence:
You are the blossom of a tree, the swallow whispering among the beams; you are love, you are warm, you are hope, you are the April day on earth.
Love is not a vigorous vow, but a plain companionship, how primitive their life is, how pure the feelings are.