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Zhao Yongyong, who witnessed the murder of his mother and found his home after being abducted for 18 years, what happened to him

author:Flying iced tea

In March 2013, Zhao Yongyong took his younger brother Zhao Yongkuan back to his hometown to meet his father Zhao Daifu.

In Jiankouya Village, Yongxing Town, Kaijiang County, Dazhou City, Sichuan Province, on the day the brothers returned, the scene was noisy with gongs and drums, and countless volunteers, reporters and villagers surrounded Zhao Daifu's home.

Under the flashing lights, under the witness of the villagers, the father and son three hugged each other tightly, and everyone was sighing, the children who had been away from home for 19 years finally found a home, and the home was finally complete!

But two years later, facing the interview again, Zhao Yongyong said that he could never go back to the home that was hard to find.

01

Before the tragedy, Zhao Yongyong had a happy home.

Mother Xiao Xueqin is the most beautiful woman in the village, she is introverted, loves literature, rarely argues with people on weekdays, handles housework at home, works hard, loves her two sons very much, has a very good relationship with her husband, and the eldest son Yongyong always runs around behind her mother.

Zhao Yongyong, who witnessed the murder of his mother and found his home after being abducted for 18 years, what happened to him

But all this came to an abrupt end on July 12, 1994, and since then, YongYong has fallen into endless suffering.

That day, 7-year-old Yongyong and 5-year-old Kuan Kuan were playing at home, and suddenly saw his mother Xiao Xueqin preparing to go outside.

Those few days coincided with the rush in the town, Xiao Xueqin had already told her husband Zhao Daifu that he wanted to go to the town to buy him a shirt.

Seeing that his mother was going out, Yong Yong and his brother were clamoring to go with their mother, Xiao Xueqin drove the two sons back with a branch, but the mischievous Yong Yong and Kuan Kuan still took a detour from the backyard to catch up with their mother.

The town is not far from home, when the mother and son three are ready to go home after buying things, they pass by a facade room in the town, and a stranger comes out of it, and takes the initiative to talk to Xiao Xueqin.

Young Yong Yong reminds her mother: Ignore this stranger. But Xiao Xueqin did not listen to her son's words, she stubbornly stepped into the strange room, this action changed her and her sons' lives.

Gao Cui, who was in the same village as Xiao Xueqin, also went to the town to catch a market that day, when she saw two children standing outside the façade room, she asked them if they wanted to go home with her, but Yongyong insisted that she wait for her mother there.

Soon, the brothers were also called into the house by strangers.

Zhao Yongyong, who witnessed the murder of his mother and found his home after being abducted for 18 years, what happened to him

At first, there were quite a few people in the house playing cards, but strangely enough, soon after they entered, the people dispersed, leaving only three or four people.

Before the mother and son could react, the stranger who had just been polite suddenly became abominable, they knocked Xiao Xueqin to the ground, kept kicking and beating her, and then stuck a long syringe into Xiao Xueqin's head, Yongyong and his brother cried in fright, kneeling aside and begging for forgiveness.

These bad guys didn't give up, one of them took out a knife and stabbed Xiao Xueqin in the back, once, twice... Until Xiao Xueqin lay there motionless.

During this time, the mother and son trio had cried loudly, but the deafening sound of the tape recorder in the room covered up the evil that was happening, and the people outside had no idea what was happening in the façade room nearby.

02

On that day, Zhao Daifu went to work on the construction site early in the morning, and when he came home at night without seeing his wife and children, his first reaction was that his wife returned to her mother's house with the children.

But the next day after work, he still didn't see his wife and children.

Zhao Daifu had an ominous premonition that his home was not far from his wife's mother's house, and before this, his wife had never returned to her mother's house with her child without a word.

He rode to his mother's house, but found that the mother and son had never returned at all, and he ran all over the relatives on both sides, but there was no trace of his wife and children.

Zhao Daifu panicked, and while mobilizing all his relatives to find people in the county and town, he went to the police station to report the case, saying that his wife had left with her two sons.

Zhao Yongyong, who witnessed the murder of his mother and found his home after being abducted for 18 years, what happened to him

During this period, rumors spread about Xiao Xueqin, some people said that it was the mother's family who hid the mother and son and deliberately prevented Zhao Daifu from finding them; some people said that Xiao Xueqin ran away with the child and would never come back; some people said that Xiao Xiao Xueqin sold the child...

These words, Zhao Daifu did not believe, his relationship with his wife is very good, she can not suddenly take the two children without quitting, and Xiao Xueqin is introverted, never argues with people, and has no enemies.

Just when the Zhao family was worried, there was a saying that attracted Zhao Daifu's attention: near the location where the children last appeared, there were several families that were human traffickers!

Zhao Daifu was most suspicious of one of the people named "Pu Sanwa", because this person had unclean hands and feet, had stolen things, and there was a basement in his home that could be used for Tibetans.

Zhao Daifu had no evidence and did not dare to go to the door to confront Pu Sanwa, and he reflected the situation to the police station.

The police station looked for these people suspected of being human traffickers, including the Pu Sanwa, but after some questioning, no one admitted that it was related to the disappearance of Xiao Xueqin's mother and son, and the case was shelved.

Zhao Yongyong, who witnessed the murder of his mother and found his home after being abducted for 18 years, what happened to him

After that, Zhao Daifu no longer had the heart to work, he rode a bicycle every day, looking around for his wife and children, when he was in pain and despair, he even had the idea of taking his own life, and he survived under the bitter persuasion of his parents.

A few months later, Zhao Daifu still did not find the mother and son trio, on the family tree, next to his son's name, he trembled and wrote these words:

"Yong Yong, on the fourth day of the first month of June 1994, mother and son took off and ran."

"Yongkuan, on the fourth day of June 1994, took off."

Zhao Yongyong, who witnessed the murder of his mother and found his home after being abducted for 18 years, what happened to him

Although Zhao Daifu's mother kept explaining her son, she was also deeply in grief, and half a year after the mother and son disappeared, Zhao Daifu's mother died, and before she died, she still held a photo of her two grandchildren.

A few years later, Zhao Daifu built a new house and moved to a new home, but his father never let go of his grandchildren, because he missed his children, the old man was blind, he often went to the place where his grandson played, hoping that a miracle would happen, once on the way home, he accidentally fell off the bridge, his internal organs were seriously injured, and he also died.

A good home, torn apart by this change.

03

When the police found Pu Sanwa to understand the situation, Zhao Yongyong and his brother Kuan Kuan were locked up in the basement of his house, and they were locked up with two other abducted children, both from Yongxing Town.

At first, the traffickers fed them sleeping pills, and the two children woke up after a few days of grogginess.

After waking up, Yongyong cried and shouted:

"Where has Mom gone?"

"She went back!"

Yongyong, who witnessed his mother's miserable condition, did not believe it, and was severely beaten by the traffickers, who also clamped his mouth with a clip to prevent him from speaking.

Yongyong did not give up, one day, he successfully escaped from the basement with a wooden stick, but before he could escape the courtyard, he was found by a teenage child and called for a trafficker, and later he learned that the child was Pu Sanwa's son.

He was beaten again, and to prevent them from escaping, the traffickers fed them sleeping pills.

I don't know how long it took, after Yongyong and his brother woke up again, the trafficker took a piece of money for them to identify, he recognized, it was a 50 yuan, the other party said:

"This kid is sober and ready to go on the road."

Along with the two other children in the basement, after several tosses, the two children went to other places on the way, and Yong Yong and Kuan Kuan came to the countryside of Putian in Fujian Province, where they waited for buyers to choose from a farmer's home.

The 5-year-old Kuan Kuan was quickly taken away, and on the day of the separation, Yong Yong pulled his brother and refused to let go, but the young man was held by the traffickers and watched as Kuan Kuan was taken away by strangers.

7-year-old Yongyong because of his age and remembering things, many people are reluctant to buy, more than ten days later, he was taken away by a man named Xu Jinchi.

Yongyong was sold for 5800 yuan, and Kuan Kuan was sold for 7500 yuan.

Since then, Yongyong has had a new name: Xu Yang.

The Xu family was very poor, and when they were the poorest, they only had porridge, not even vegetables, and could only eat with sea salt or soy sauce, let alone meat.

The Xu family bought Yongyong because they wanted him to be their son-in-law in the future, but here, Yongyong became a free coolie, he did not have enough to eat, and he was also responsible for cooking rice, planting seedlings, and raising hundreds of ducks in the family after school.

Once the things he confessed were not done well, or the cooking was late, what greeted Yongyong was a violent beating, and once, he was too hungry to stand it, stole the things from the family, Xu Jinchi tied him up, locked him in the toilet for the night...

The Xu family and Yongyong are wary of each other, and Xu Jinchi and his wife are worried that Yongyong will find their biological parents when they grow up, and the villagers also remind them:

"This child is smart, remembers everything, and is not familiar with it!"

Yongyong also held a grudge against the couple, and until he left the house, he never called them "Dad" or "Mom".

On the other hand, the younger brother's experience of Kuan Kuan is also very bumpy.

Buyers were always violent towards leniency, whipping bamboo sticks and pins to scar the 5-year-old.

Because he could not stand the beating of the buyer, Kuan Kuan fled out without the adult's attention, met a villager on the way, and followed him to the family's house.

A few days after escaping, the buyer came to the door and returned the broadband again.

This escape angered the buyers, who took a feather duster and whipped him hard, but Kuan Kuan never begged them for forgiveness.

Perhaps worried about not being able to raise the child, kuan kuan was sold again soon after, and a man surnamed Wu spent 7800 yuan to buy him.

The Wu family had a pair of elderly people (Kuan Kuan called their grandparents) and two granddaughters (Kuan Kuan called their sister), and buying Kuan Kuan's 7800 yuan was a huge amount of money for the family, at that time, the per capita annual income in rural Fujian was less than 1,000 yuan, the two old people still lived on low insurance, Grandpa was old and weak, and Grandma was paralyzed in bed.

Just arrived at the Wu family, Kuan Kuan also thought about running away, but the two old people of the Wu family not only did not get angry, but also bought him toys, because the old man was not in good health, Kuan Kuan was raised by the old man's daughter's family (Kuan Kuan shouted aunt), and the aunt and uncle regarded him as their own.

The Wu family's kindness to Kuan Kuan made him gradually give up the idea of running away and integrate into the new family.

04

But Zhao Yongyong could not forget their home, could not forget their family, and could not forget his mother.

In those years, he was often awakened by nightmares, in which he returned to the façade room where the bad luck began, and saw his mother lying in a pool of blood, and three human traffickers who could not see their faces, and he woke up from the dream again and again, and he was determined to find a home, to find a family.

When he was a child, Yongyong always felt that his brother was not far from the village where he lived, he had heard the villagers of the nearby village say that he had seen him, Yongyong felt that this villager might be talking about Kuan Kuan, who looked more like himself, he tried to find his brother, but in the end he did not find it.

Yong Yong has a diary that records all his memories:

He painted the story of his mother's murder and his own escape from the basement;

Painted the landscapes, streets, and houses of his hometown;

As long as he remembers things about his hometown, he will write it down, he also remembers that one of the traffickers is called "Ah He", and he remembers that the place where his home is located is called "Back Height"...

Zhao Yongyong, who witnessed the murder of his mother and found his home after being abducted for 18 years, what happened to him

In the diary, there are 5 photos of Zhao Yongyong from childhood to adulthood, and next to the photos, he is full of thoughts about his family:

"Mom, are you still in the world?" I miss you so much. ”

"Brother, where are you?" Brother misses you so much. ”

"Don't know how you're doing right now?" Brother misses you so much. ”

……

Zhao Yongyong, who witnessed the murder of his mother and found his home after being abducted for 18 years, what happened to him

In 2000, 13-year-old Zhao Yongyong followed the villagers to Guangdong to learn jade carving, and his adoptive parents hoped that he would succeed as soon as possible and earn money for his family.

But Yongyong never wanted to go back to the place that made him miserable, and after 2 years, he left his master to go it alone, took the business himself, and when he earned money, he took the train to look for relatives everywhere.

The life alone in Guangdong is very bitter, Yongyong earns very little money, sometimes even instant noodles can not afford to eat, can only drink tap water to fill the hunger, once, he drank tap water for 3 consecutive days, hungry fainted, I don't know how long it took to wake up.

Yongyong repeatedly forced himself to recall things about his hometown, which brought him great mental stress, he often had insomnia and needed to rely on alcohol to fall asleep.

Every spring festival, others are busy going home to reunite with their families, and Yongyong can only celebrate the New Year alone.

At the end of 2006, Yongyong could not withstand the huge pressure, climbed to the roof of his rental house, had the idea of taking his own life, and at the critical moment, he suddenly thought: If he left, his brother and mother might never be found.

05

Around 2010, Zhao Yongyong discovered that he might be from Sichuan, because his accent as a child was the same as that of a Sichuanese who went to Guangdong to work.

Later, at the home of a friend in Sichuan, he saw the sausages and folded ear roots that he had eaten as a child, and this familiar taste strengthened his idea.

In 2012, Zhao Yongyong registered on the "Baby Homecoming" website.

When registering, he used the name "Zhao Yongyong", he vaguely remembered his surname Zhao or surname Chao, in the impression, there was a "go" word in his surname, and his brother's name was Kuan Kuan, but he could not remember what his mother's name was, nor did he remember where his home was.

Zhao Yongyong told his experience to the volunteers who came home to the baby, and his story made the volunteers feel incredible, until he took out his family search diary that he had accumulated for many years, and everyone learned about the boy's bumpy experience.

Zhao Yongyong, who witnessed the murder of his mother and found his home after being abducted for 18 years, what happened to him

Network volunteer "back brother"

Zhao Yongyong remembers that there are bamboo and lotus flowers in his hometown, there are many ramie in the village, in his memory, he has eaten yellow cold powder, his family's surname is Zhao or surnamed Chao, his hometown is pronounced "back high", and when he goes to the street with his mother, the street is called "Baigao Street"...

Based on these clues, volunteers found a place: Beigao Township, Dazhou City, Sichuan Province, the only street in the township is called Beigao Street, which is pronounced similar to "Back High" and "BaiGao Street".

What is even more exciting is that through the understanding, many years ago, there was a famous woman in this township who disappeared with her two sons.

In August 2012, Zhao Yongyong and volunteers came to Beigao Township.

But he soon found that there were no facade houses on either side of the street that he remembered.

They came to the family where the mother and son were missing, the family was not surnamed Zhao, the surname was Chen, and the age was not right, the two children of the Chen family were already more than ten years old when they disappeared.

Zhao Yongyong returned disappointed again, at this time, he had spent all his savings and owed foreign debts, and he was ready to work first and wait for a while to find relatives.

Zhao Yongyong, who witnessed the murder of his mother and found his home after being abducted for 18 years, what happened to him

Seeing that the clue was broken again, the volunteer suggested that Zhao Yongyong and his adoptive father have a good talk to find out who he bought it from and where the other party handled it.

This proposal made Yongyong a little embarrassed, and he deeply resented his later family.

After working in Guangdong, he first went back several times, and then because of the search for relatives, the contradictions between the two sides became deeper and deeper, and when he was 20 years old, because he refused to marry his adoptive father's daughter, the two sides completely broke up, and he had planned never to go back.

Although he hesitated, Zhao Yongyong still found his adoptive father Xu Jinchi, who said that Yongyong was introduced by an old woman and bought from a person named "Ah He" or "Ah Hu", and the others, because of the age, he could not remember.

Zhao Yongyong, who witnessed the murder of his mother and found his home after being abducted for 18 years, what happened to him

On the other hand, the news of Zhao Yongyong's search for relatives appeared in the Dazhou Evening News, and the volunteers who returned home soon received a call from a woman:

"We have three mothers and sons over there who have been abducted!"

The woman said that this incident occurred in Yongxin Town more than a decade ago, and the man who lost his relatives was named Zhao Daifu, and his eldest son was named Zhao Yongyong.

This news made Zhao Yongyong half-believed, and over the years, he experienced too many hopes and disappointments.

Zhao Yongyong and volunteers came to Dazhou again, passing through Yongxing Town, he recognized the façade room at a glance, and more unexpectedly, he recognized the trafficker (Pu Sanwa) of that year.

Accompanied by volunteers, Zhao Yongyong entered the façade room again, and the vegetable field and basement of that year were all there, and the memory of many years ago was instantly awakened!

Pu Sanwa stared at them at the door:

"What are you going to do?"

Because Pu Sanwa's apparent occupation is to repair cars, Zhao Yongyong hurried back to the road:

"Let's take a look at your bike."

Leaving the façade room, Zhao Yongyong told the volunteers:

"Surely it's right here!"

06

On September 8, 2012, Zhao Daifu, who was working in Guangdong, suddenly received a phone call:

"There is news of your missing wife and children!"

Receiving this call, Zhao Daifu's heart was full of mixed feelings, more excitement, tears could not stop flowing down, he used the fastest speed to return to his hometown.

On September 11, the villagers of Jiankouya Village gathered at the entrance of the village, they pulled up a banner that read "Welcome Baby Zhao Yongyong Home", and Zhao Yongyong's grandfather, who is more than 90 years old, also rushed over, and waited with Zhao Daifu at the entrance of the village for the appearance of the mother and son.

On the road to Jiankou ya village, the scene in Yongyong's memory finally matched the reality: the exact same road; the old house on the side of the road...

At the mouth of the village, he met his father, who had some imaginations of himself, and after 18 years, he had lost a lot of weight.

Seeing Yongyong, the relatives stepped forward and embraced together excitedly.

Zhao Yongyong, who witnessed the murder of his mother and found his home after being abducted for 18 years, what happened to him

After arriving home, Zhao Yongyong looked around and asked:

"What about my mother?"

"I want to see my mother."

Yong Yong thought that his mother really went home as the trafficker said, but the relatives present were very surprised, they always believed that Xiao Xueqin had taken away the two children, and the mother and son would come back together.

Zhao Yongyong had an ominous premonition: Would those people have disabled their mother and made her a beggar? Or maybe the mother has been killed.

In the bedroom, Zhao Daifu took out the family portrait photos that had been treasured for many years and showed them to Yongyong, and he recognized himself and his brother Kuankuan in the photos.

As if he couldn't believe that all this was real, YongYong carefully took out the remaining memories and checked them with his father little by little:

"Doesn't [Father usually] wear a suit?"

"It used to be!"

"Are there pigs fed at home?"

"Pigs have been fed at home."

"Did Grandma and Grandpa live in the old house in the back?"

"The pond in the back."

"Did Grandpa weave baskets at home?"

"Yes!"

Zhao Yongyong, who witnessed the murder of his mother and found his home after being abducted for 18 years, what happened to him

After Yongyong finished checking the situation, Zhao Daifu asked the questions he had hidden in his heart for 18 years:

"How did your mother go?"

Yong Yong took out his own painting and told his father how the mother and son were tricked into the façade room at that time.

At this time, Zhao Daifu knew that his wife was likely to have been killed, and he immediately took Yongyong to the Kaijiang County Public Security Bureau to report the case, and the scenes that Yongyong painted with his memory, as well as the diaries he wrote in those years, became the key to solving the case.

Zhao Daifu and Yongyong did a paternity test to confirm their father-son relationship.

07

After analysis, the police believe that starting from the abduction and trafficking case, first go to Fujian to find the traffickers who resell Yongyong.

This human trafficker is the "Ah He" of Yongyong's memory.

The police persuaded Yongyong's adoptive father, under his identification, to quickly find Ah He; the middleman who introduced his adoptive father to buy the child was already suffering from Senile dementia and could not even speak.

However, Ah He quickly confirmed Zhao Yongyong's words, and the police also made a new discovery: Ah He's wife was from Kaijiang County, who was also abducted, and she said that she was abducted by a man nicknamed "Partial BrainCase", who later brought children to their family many times!

The police soon learned that this man, called "partial brain shell", whose real name was "Zheng Zhixian", was a native of Yongxing Town, Kaijiang County, Sichuan Province, and Zhao Daifu's father and son were in the same town.

In 2000, he was sentenced to 9 years in prison for child trafficking, and two other people were imprisoned with him, one of whom was Pu Jijian, who was Zhao Daifu's key suspect "Pu Sanwa"!

Zhao Yongyong, who witnessed the murder of his mother and found his home after being abducted for 18 years, what happened to him

After being arrested, Pu Jijian quickly explained the events of that year:

After hiding Yongyong and Kuan Kuan at home for 7 days, Zheng Zhixian took the children to Fujian to sell;

Zhao Yongyong's mother, who had already been killed by them, on the day of the murder, they put the body into 3 bags and buried them in the backyard, in 2008, Pu Jijian dug out two of the bags, burned them and buried them again in the backyard;

Along with him, there was a man named Liao Dingjie...

In March 2013, the police excavated in Pujijian's backyard, and on that day, the residents of the town surrounded the place, some people lamented that the murderer's methods were vicious, and some people couldn't believe that such a cruel case had happened around them...

Zhao Yongyong, who witnessed the murder of his mother and found his home after being abducted for 18 years, what happened to him

The police carefully dug up the dirt in the backyard, crushing it by hand, carefully washing the fragments of suspected bones and sifting through the dirt in the backyard with a sieve.

Eventually, they found key evidence in the dirt:

Fragments of human bones, fragments of bones after burning, fragments of plastic bags and ropes wrapped around the corpses;

On the third day of excavation, a plastic bag was dug out from the vegetable garden, which contained a bag of bones, which were put together to be the double lower limbs of people, which were identified by DNA as the bones of Zhao Yongyong's mother Xiao Xueqin;

There was also a burned plastic sandal, but it could still be seen that it was a white sandal, and on the day Xiao Xueqin was killed, she borrowed a pair of white sandals from a neighbor and went out...

Zhao Yongyong, who witnessed the murder of his mother and found his home after being abducted for 18 years, what happened to him
After 18 years, Zhao Yongyong finally found a home with his own efforts, let the truth of that year be revealed to the world, and washed away his mother's grievances.

In May 2015, Pu Jijian and Liao Dingjie were sentenced to death and life imprisonment by the Sichuan Provincial High People's Court in the second instance in accordance with the law.

08

Under Ah He's designation, the police found the family of the person who bought Kuan Kuan, and after learning that Kuan Kuan was sold again, the police found all the people who handled it, and finally found the Wu family.

After graduating from junior high school, Kuan Kuan went to Beijing to work, and when the police came to him, he was not at home, and his current name was "Wu Qingfa".

Hearing that his brother was in Beijing, Zhao Yongyong immediately took a train to meet his younger brother, who had been separated for 19 years.

Zhao Yongyong, who witnessed the murder of his mother and found his home after being abducted for 18 years, what happened to him

At first, he heard that his brother was looking for him, but Kuan Kuan didn't believe it, because there had been such a liar in the village before.

He received Zhao Yongyong at the station, and on the car, the other party took out a photo, which was the family portrait that Zhao Daifu had treasured for many years.

He no longer remembers his nickname as Kuan Kuan, but he has an impression of the family portrait, and like his brother, the tragedy of his mother is a lingering shadow in his heart, and he still remembers the process of abduction...

Soon, Kuan Kuan was sure that the stranger in front of him was his long-lost brother.

For 19 years, Kuan Kuan had been reluctant to think about those things, but like his brother, he was always awakened by nightmares.

Unlike his brother, he has fully integrated into the Wu family and treated his uncle and aunt as his own parents, but for so many years, he has never called out "mother".

After seeing his brother, Yongyong did not want to delay for a moment, he took a leave of absence for his brother and took him on the train home.

On March 17, 2013, Kuan Kuan returned home after a 19-year absence.

On the way back to the village, looking at both sides of the road, he didn't have any impression of everything here.

Just arrived at the entrance of the village, greeted by the enthusiastic villagers, flowers and firecrackers, looking at these, Kuan Kuan said:

"I don't need that, I just have to go home."

"It doesn't need to be so grand."

Zhao Yongyong, who witnessed the murder of his mother and found his home after being abducted for 18 years, what happened to him

Even when he returned home, Kuan Kuan still had some doubts, and his childhood experience made this young man very sensitive, and he asked his father a question:

"What's in my chest, you know?"

As soon as his son returned, Zhao Daifu was already a little nervous, and when he suddenly heard him ask this, he did not react for a while:

"It's been years, and I can't remember..."

However, after the reaction, Zhao Daifu remembered that there was a very small mole on his younger son's body.

Kuan Kuan said he was worried that after so many years, his father would forget his own characteristics and no longer worry about himself.

Although the home has been found, the shadow in the bottom of the heart can never be erased.

After YongYong and Kuan Kuan both returned home, they received the news that their mother had long since died.

09

Zhao Yongyong originally thought that finding a home, finding his family and brother would be a happy ending for everyone.

After the confession, the passion recedes, and they have to face the naked reality.

In 2015, only two years after the recognition of relatives, when the reporter interviewed again, he found that their trajectory was completely different from what he had originally envisioned.

Zhao Yongyong was still unhappy, and he mentioned how he felt when he and his brother just met:

"It feels like a stranger, a friend I just met, just felt it, I didn't cry or say at the time, anyway, I was more happy in my heart, and finally found it, I can give my mother an explanation, take him back I think so." 」

Kuan Kuan also couldn't talk to his brother, after confessing, the brothers rarely communicated, and unlike his brother, he and the Wu family had a deep relationship and were unwilling to change their lives for more than ten years.

Father Zhao Daifu formed a new family two years after his wife and children disappeared, and his wife brought two children, but the family relationship was harmonious, and the children were also filial to Zhao Daifu.

Later, his wife let Zhao Daifu out of sorrow, although the two did not have children, they worked together to build a new house, lived together for more than ten years, she gradually replaced Xiao Xueqin and became the most important person around Zhao Daifu.

Yong Yong found that even if he found it, the home was already someone else's:

"That home is not my home, because it is my stepmother's home."

"When I went to see the old house, the old house was gone and demolished, so I felt like living in someone else's house, and I felt a little uneasy."

His mother's funeral deepened the gap between Yongyong and the family: he hoped that his mother's ashes could enter the ancestral grave of the Zhao family, but this proposal was strongly opposed by his stepmother, and in this matter, the father could not be the master.

The brothers also disagreed over his mother's aftermath: Yongyong was reluctant to place his mother's ashes elsewhere (until he was interviewed again on December 17, 2021, Xiao Xueqin's aftermath had not been settled), and Kuan Kuan believed that his mother had been dead for 20 years, and he hoped that his mother would be buried as soon as possible.

Two years after confessing his relatives, the nightmare once again plagued Zhao Yongyong and found his relatives, which did not relieve his pressure, but brought new troubles. He had less and less contact with his family, and when his stepmother died, he didn't go back.

Eventually, he, along with his father and brother, became the closest strangers to him.

Now, Kuan Kuan has a family and lives in Beijing, Zhao Yongyong is still in Guangdong, running his own jade business, not long ago had his own studio, but he is still single.

Zhao Yongyong has his own account on Douyin, and he uploads some small videos almost every day to record his detailed life status.

Eight years later, he cut off his long hair and his figure became rounded, but he was still so lonely.

Although his life after confessing his relatives was not perfect, he still paid attention to the news of abducted children and never regretted his efforts in those years.

I hope that he will unload the burden in his heart as soon as possible, face life positively, and live the rest of every day!

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