Men are afraid of entering the wrong line, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man. The former Shanghai Beach underworld was rampant, and the major forces were standing. Du Yuesheng was the most legendary figure at that time, from a humble origin, but he could become a wealth tycoon involved in many fields, and to this day, his story is still talked about by the world. And Shen Yueying, as his original wife, should have enjoyed the life of your wife with great enthusiasm, but ended up with a depressed end, what happened in the middle?
Du Yuesheng married Shen Yueying
A person's life is only two big happy events, the cave room flower candle night, when the gold list is nominated. 1915 was a special year for Du Yuesheng, because he married his first wife, Shen Yueying. When Du Yuesheng asked Jin Rong, the leader of the Qing Gang at that time, to go to the Shen family with him to propose to him, Mrs. Shen did not even think about it and should get married.
However, there is a condition, that is, to give her a pension, such a simple request, Du Yuesheng is naturally full of promises. Although Du Yuesheng did not have any reputation at that time, with the help of Jin Rong and Lin Guisheng, the wedding was still a beautiful place, and it took ten days just to entertain guests, which can be described as a sensation in the whole of Shanghai.
Shen Yueying, who was sitting in the palanquin, was also in a trance, because her father died early, she thought that her life and her mother had passed so plainly, but in the blink of an eye, she had ushered in such a big turn in life, and the lively horn sound outside still seemed a little unreal in her ears.
Life after marriage as Shen Yueying thought, harmonious and plain, Du Yuesheng is busy outside, and she is doing everything at home, and there is no difference from the life of ordinary couples, with the passage of time, Shen Yueying slowly got used to such a life, but did not give Du Yuesheng a son and a half daughter, but Du Yuesheng did not care about this, he cared about another thing.
Estrangement between husband and wife
Under the ordinary life, Du Yuesheng always felt that there was such a layer of estrangement between himself and Shen Yueying, as if it was an invisible and untouchable membrane, which was always inserted between the two, which greatly affected the feelings of the two, so that although they slept together day and night, they could not touch each other's hearts. Du Yuesheng wanted to change this situation and try to break through the membrane, so he told his wife what he had done in the day and the strange things he encountered after returning home, hoping to let her know more about his own affairs and thus resolve the barrier.
But after a long time, Du Yuesheng found that things were not so simple. Shen Yueying and Du Yuesheng are the same, have not read any books, the level of education is not high, but Du Yuesheng has been working outside for a long time, rich in experience, in terms of dealing with people has their own set of ways, broad vision, very everyone's style.
But Shen Yueying is different, her ideological consciousness has always stayed in the small citizen class, can not keep up with Du Yuesheng's vision, naturally there is no way to talk about a place, for this Reason Du Yuesheng is deeply helpless, and he is also disappointed in his wife, and what makes him completely dead to Shen Yueying is that he is talking to Shen Yueying about adopting a child and letting the child recognize Jin Rong and Lin Guiying as a father and mother, Shen Yueying blurted out, "They have no sons, we do not have sons, you take one and give them half, why should this be?" ”
Du Yuesheng only felt a burst of helplessness and sadness after listening to it, not to mention that this matter can close his relationship with Jin Jinrong, but also means that he can sit on an equal footing with the two of them in the future, such obvious benefits for his own women can not see, only entangled in small interests, how can this not disappoint Du Yuesheng?
Words do not speculate more than half a sentence, this word is used in the communication field is simply the most reasonable quote, for people with different experiences, different horizons, different heights of thought, what to say is futile, because the other party simply can not understand the deep meaning of their words, just like when they recommend their hobbies to others, people sneer at this, how does this not make people cold, so generally get along for many years and still have good relations with friends, are people with the same hobbies and height of thought.
Things are clustered, people are divided into groups, and true best friends can read each other's eyes, and they don't need too much explanation to convey their own ideas, especially in love, but obviously, Du Yuesheng and Shen Yueying can't do this.
Du Yuesheng was a concubine
Although there is a gap, Du Yuesheng has always been not thin to his wife. Shen Yueying once said that he needed to cross the river to return to his hometown, which was too troublesome, and Du Yuesheng even sent someone to build a stone arch bridge. After Shen Lao was too old, Du Yuesheng not only buried her thickly, but also built a magnificent tomb for her, which shows that Du Yuesheng has true feelings for Shen Yueying. As Du Yuesheng's name grew larger, more and more women threw hugs into their arms.
At first, Du Yuesheng did not have any ideas, just wanted to do a good job in his career, but Shen Yueying never gave birth to an heir for him, Du Yuesheng also had the idea of a concubine, when he told Shen Yueying about this idea, the latter immediately threw away the needle and thread in his hand, and mocked Du Yuesheng: "Men are big enough to add women, that is the right thing, you go to tim well, don't ask my opinion falsely!" “
When the words fell, Du Yuesheng's feelings about Shen Yueying in his heart dropped again, and he even developed a little resentment, so he whisked his sleeves away. In the following year, Du Yuesheng took in several ladies in one breath, one younger and more beautiful, the youngest was even only 15 years old, and she was the dancer of the Wind Moon Field at that time. Since then, Du Yuesheng has sung with these ladies night and night, and Shen Yueying has been completely snubbed.
At this time, Shen Yueying still couldn't figure out what was wrong, he wholeheartedly took care of the family's affairs, there was nothing out of the ordinary, why Du Yuesheng's attitude towards himself would change so much, but no matter what the reason, Shen Yueying understood that he had failed in this marriage.
Unable to compete with those young and beautiful women, she had nowhere to vent her resentment, so she became infected with gambling and opium, and lived in the clouds and fog every day, without hearing anything out of the window. Seeing that Shen Yueying was so depraved, Du Yuesheng was completely dead to him. How can a person who does not even cherish himself let others cherish himself? Depravity is never a solution to the problem, the only way to solve the problem is to try to make yourself better, but Shen Yueying chose the former and even made a bigger mistake.
After making a big mistake, he died depressed
Shen Yueying, who is in the year of the wolf like a tiger, not only has to guard the empty house alone, but also has to endure the pain of her husband and other women singing night and night, she urgently needs to find light from this abyss, that is, her green plum bamboo horse Liu Luliang, she invited Liu Luliang to shanghai to develop, and then help him stand on his feet, as long as Liu Luliang becomes stronger and stronger, she still has a future to speak of.
After Liu Luliang came to Shanghai, Shen Yueying carefully dressed up to meet with him, and Shen Yueying, who had endured for a long time, saw his green plum bamboo horse, as if he had removed the haze of many days, and completely handed himself over to Liu Luliang on the same day, after having the first time, Shen Yueying knew that he had no way back, so he began to plan how to let Liu Luliang gain a foothold in Shanghai as soon as possible, and the two set the location of the private meeting at the racecourse, because it was chaotic enough, and maybe they could quickly gamble to win a sum of money.
But Shen Yueying underestimated Du Yuesheng's power at that time, his little brother had been all over Every corner of Shanghai, and it happened that one day when the two were meeting privately, he was bumped into by a little brother and secretly photographed it and handed it to Du Yuesheng. When Du Yuesheng learned of this, he suppressed his anger and ordered his men to secretly dispose of Liu Luliang and never let him appear in Shanghai again.
In the meantime, the desperate Shen Yueying returned to the previous days, and Du Yuesheng tacitly avoided the meeting, and then Shen Yueying found a reason to move out of the Du family and live alone, until the end of depression, it was only in her forties. At her funeral, Du Yuesheng did not appear, but only ordered her adopted son Du Weifan to bury her good life.
After the funeral, Du Yuesheng and Du Weifan had a long conversation, in that conversation, Du Yuesheng did not have a grudge against Shen Yueying, but only a little sadness and a little guilt.
For Shen Yueying, this life is a tragedy, perhaps she did not want to understand why Du Yuesheng suddenly gave up on herself until her death, but reality is reality, and the difference in thinking seems to be a gap, deep and impossible to cross. How strong can love be on top of this? It can only be used to warn future generations that the basis of love is the unity of thought, the complementarity of ability, mutual appreciation can have no estrangement, in order to go long.