In modern society, the concept of male and female mate selection has become more open, and there is a saying that "age is not a problem, height is not a distance, as long as you really like it and feel appropriate."
Indeed, some people now do not pay special attention to the traditional "conditional matching" requirements.
If both men and women can really walk through this life together, then breaking through obstacles is also a good story. However, it is not easy for two people to live together, and the relationship between the two families and the problem of having children need to be considered in advance.
There is a female star in South Korea named Mina, and her boyfriend is 17 years younger than her.
At first, everyone thought that this pair of "sister-brother love" was too absurd and would definitely not have a good result. Unexpectedly, after experiencing the limitations of the man's military service and huge age difference, the two still had a stable relationship, and finally successfully married, so they received the blessings of many people.
However, due to the woman's older age, the first task of the two after marriage is to have a child.
Mina is over 40 years old, it is very difficult to conceive naturally, coupled with a busy schedule, the body is often in a state of exertion, and it is not suitable for pregnancy. So, on the advice of the doctor, Mina and her husband decided to do IVF.
Unfortunately, the two tried IVF many times, all of which ended in failure, and the husband also said on the show that it was very stressful to face this situation.
In fact, when the two choose to get married, since they want children, they should take this situation into account. Although medicine is now more developed and can make people look younger, the body does not lie.
According to statistics, women over the age of 40 have a success rate of less than 20% in doing IVF, and a success rate of only 5% over 45 years old, and the probability of a child being born smoothly is even lower.
Older mothers not only have a small chance of getting pregnant, but also take greater risks when giving birth.
Factors for success in IVF include egg quality, endometrial environment, and embryonic condition. When a woman reaches the age of 40, if none of these factors affect pregnancy have a problem, then the success rate is high.
Of course, women are older, and it is not that there is no chance of success, but the main thing is to be patient. For elderly women like Mina, who are not physically well enough, the following matters need to be paid more attention to before doing IVF.
1. Health examination is often done before pregnancy
Although it is IVF, the mother's mother is still used during pregnancy, so the maternal environment is crucial.
Before pregnancy, both husband and wife must do a good job of examination, and problems are detected early and treated early. If the physical condition does not allow pregnancy, or first adjust the body, this is the primary task, otherwise forced IVF, not only the success rate is not high, but also damage the body.
2. Be careful during pregnancy
Elderly women will encounter various problems when pregnant, and the body's ability to bear risks is relatively low, and it may encounter a little problem that will lead to miscarriage.
Therefore, always be careful not to be excessive, usually pay attention to nutritional supplements, do a good job of obstetric examination on time, do not be lazy, and pay attention to changes in the body in time.
Near the due date, you can first be admitted to the hospital, so that there are professional medical staff to care, you can ensure the safety of mothers and children, but also to avoid the time to rush.
3. Pay attention to mental and physical health
For advanced-age mothers, pregnancy needs to withstand a lot of pressure, and the loss of the body is not small.
After giving birth, be sure to relax and don't put too much pressure on yourself. Usually the financial situation of elderly mothers is good, you can ask professionals to help, and mothers take more care of their own bodies.
During confinement, pay more attention to nutritional balance, do not eat too greasy food, and eat more vegetables and fruits.
Write at the end:
Now although men and women are advocating free love and choosing the other half, everyone has their own preferences.
However, both men and women who have too large an age gap want to enter the palace of marriage, and they must consider it in detail before marriage. For example, whether to have children, what to do if there is resistance in the process, and what situation can be accepted at worst.
After all, for women, it is true that at a certain age, fertility will decline. Even if the man does not mind this, the woman herself must also consider it clearly, after all, doing IVF is not a simple thing, and both physically and mentally will be very tired.