Taste all tastes, the first feel light and the most true

"Taste all tastes, the first feeling is light and true" | text: falling plum snow

"In this affectionate and cold world, live too drunk"

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The world is secretly changed, the world changes, the gathering and scattering are not hurried, and you and I cannot be. Some people came to this scenery, and some people were lost in that scenery. Some people are landscapes that you have seen and forgotten, while others take root in your people's hearts and become an indelible memory.

I have always liked a sentence: "The good things in the world are not firm, and the clouds are easy to scatter and the glass is brittle." "Everything good in life is always fleeting, and if you are not careful, you may fall to pieces. However, excessive care will lose its original temperature.

The reason why we suffer from gain and loss is not because we have gained too little, but because we have lost too much, and we dare not embrace the beautiful, only because the beauty is only a moment, the truth is often too cruel, we can only tremble all the way, and dare not exceed the rules and indulge.

Even so, don't use reason to restrain your feelings, don't skimp on your efforts. Don't wait until you've exhausted a thousand sails to miss it, and don't wait until things are human beings to regret it.

Deep love will not live, wisdom will hurt, prosperity will decline, and happiness will give birth to sorrow. Anything or emotion, once the beauty is to the extreme, becomes desolate. Therefore, everything is better to be lighter and lighter.

For example, the best mentality in love is probably affectionate and not entangled, you are not my choice to weigh the pros and cons, but the firmness of knowing that I cannot do it after I am excited.

True love does not have to be hot and hot, and a long stream of fine water is even more touching. You know that I am cold and warm, and I know that you are sad and happy. Do not give up in the wind and rain, and keep each other in the plain.

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Always believe that the friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, whether it is friendship or love, you need to have a little space, not too entangled, do not delve into each other's secrets.

Too close a relationship makes each other's relationship into a dilemma, and I still like this relationship between friends: the most beautiful thing is to add icing on the cake, lively and festive, and spend a good month more round. The most precious of friends, you send charcoal in the snow, do not have to open your mouth, rush to help each other. The best among friends, it is like a good tea, light but not astringent, fragrant but not fragrant, slowly wafting, fine water long flow. The so-called confidant also.

Gather and scatter with fate, come and go as you please. Affectionate but not entangled, busy with each other but concerned about each other, a truly comfortable relationship, isn't that the case?

As for the method of writing, I have always admired Su Shi, and he believes that "it is roughly like the flow of clouds and water, and the initial determination is not qualitative, but it is often done in what should be done, and it is often stopped at what cannot be stopped." "Laughing and scolding, you can splash ink at will, and the writing is like flowing water, and it is natural without embellishment." There is a degree of acceptance, eclectic, this open and free talent, only Su Shi is alone.

In this affectionate and cold world, living too intoxicated, it is inevitable to be superficial and confused; Too sober, but also too boring. The more jealous people are, the more disgusted they are, sometimes they may wish to hide their hearts, hide their cunning in clumsiness, be clear in turbidity, get along with people lightly but not greasy, and the thin water is long, it is not impossible. As Master Hongyi said: "Make friends with light words, stop slander with deaf words, rebuke yourself with engraving words, and repent with weak words." ”

I only hope that after the baptism of wind and dust, I will still be elegant and calm. Taste all tastes, the first feel light and the most true.

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Pen name: Falling Plum Breeze Snow. A light and elegant woman who uses Mei as a metaphor for herself and writes her heart in writing. Life is also like his writing, seeing himself, seeing heaven and earth, and seeing all beings.

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