Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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The circle of friends is an abominable "two-sided" person, looking at it positively is obviously his own territory, but on the opposite side, because he occupies a public place, people seem to be free but they can't let go of themselves at all!
With the doubling of the number of people in the circle of friends from all displayed in recent years to being visible for one month and three days, the circle of friends has long ceased to be pure... In this way, it can be seen that the freedom of the circle of friends has long been ruthlessly "deprived".
Some people say that the personal life record of the circle of friends has nothing to do with others! But even though this is the case, it will also have a big or small impact on yourself.
It's just that some people don't believe in evil and have to let go of themselves!
Because, he feels that driving in the opposite direction is very domineering, but in fact, it is just the "look down, look down" behind the superficial approval and politeness of others. Even when it comes to major cooperation or substantive exchanges, people will take a detour.
It is true that the circle of friends is not necessarily 100% accurate in looking at character and pattern. After all, a grand-sounding circle of friends does not mean that people are so proud and upright.
However, a person has too much "garbage" content in the circle of friends, but it must expose the nature of ta absolutely need to be cautious, cautiously cooperative, and cautious.
Some people say that freely sharing the details of life is better than being a businessman, right? In fact, you don't have to say that people who really do a certain business are really a kind of positive efforts! Although there are many people who block ta, when there is a business demand, others will think of ta for the first time!
People who are very casual in the circle of friends, their lives will certainly not be too brilliant. The people around them who are friendly and respectful to ta have already looked down on them in their hearts and do not know it.
Although life is your own, it is the true wisdom of a person that must not be "destroyed" by himself.
A truly successful and admirable person, his circle of friends is either extremely concise or very contagious and sincere.
People who have become big things, the circle of friends are very special!
Those who become big things, there are 5 people in the circle of friends who do not sunburn, step on the middle, do not need to be angry, just positive correction of their own life, positive "bondage" of their own freedom, you can also win a different kind of wonderful life:
1: Do not dry the steering wheel
In the circle of friends, there are three Versailles who pretend to be unintentional:
While driving, I sent a small video of the circle of friends, with a text similar to "busy and busy, broken silver and a few two..."
When traffic jams, half of the steering wheel is deliberately exposed to the front, with a caption similar to "When can I dredge..."
While driving, let the co-pilot photograph himself driving...
Why? The reason is simple: because you want people to know that they not only drive, but also have cars, but also are very motivated...
Most of these people have less leisure time than really hard work!
There is a kind of person in the world who feels that it is far from enough to work hard all the time, so the moment is in a race against time. They are too busy to take care of any vanity other than hard work, just to live a solid life in their own achievements.
There is also a kind of person in the world, who obviously achieves mediocre results, and only needs a little effort to feel that he has been very desperate, so he must tell the world that "I am working hard..."
People who achieve great things will not use a steering wheel to show their success, because in his life motto, only down-to-earth does not show off.
Life is your own, and when you regard effort as a necessary condition for survival, you will know that you have no time to take care of any vanity other than effort!
In real life, the more successful people are, the more low-key they are. The more people who even feel expensive to refuel, they are willing to punch their swollen faces and be fat, deliberately brush their sense of existence for their own face, and even disregard their own safety!
2: Do not dry the house
As the old saying goes: the house is big and the house is small, and the warmth is good!
Wearing a big brand and living in a mansion is not necessarily a person whose heart is not empty, who is down-to-earth in the present, whose exit is not crazy, and whose heart is not dirty.
Truly successful people don't put gold on their faces with their luxurious houses! They are pragmatic on the outside and abundant on the inside, and they do not need the affirmation of others at all, and they can create their own spiritual and economic dual prosperity through their achievements, and obtain steadfastness and happiness from them.
Look at the people in life today, how much of them rely on the old age in exchange for a rich life? How many people suck on their parents' hard-earned money and don't know how to feed back?
When you live in a mansion and are extravagant, your parents may be reluctant to throw away a grain of corn in the farmland!
Truly successful people, relying on their own hands to create a piece of heaven, whether it is to take their parents to enjoy the blessings or to obey their parents' wishes, let them be free in the countryside, in short, feeding back is not absent for a moment.
And such a person will never show off his luxury in the circle of friends, nor will he be a filial daughter and filial piety in the circle of friends.
Often the more you nibble on the old people, the more willing you are to "show off" in the circle of friends:
The luxurious decorations and accessories of the house are often posed, and once a rare filial piety is done all year round, it is necessary to immediately send a circle of friends to attract countless likes and comments on the word "filial piety"...
The more people whose patterns and thoughts are at the bottom are willing to show off, and the more successful people with large patterns, broad visions, and filial piety, the more they just silently do their own work, cherish and protect the people in front of them.
Busy doing business, leisure time with parents, with family, Versailles? Unnecessary and timeless, too boring and meaningless!
3: Do not send travel screen content
Some people may be very idle, or they may be really rich, so the circle of friends is full of videos and pictures of tourism.
Occasionally send some pleasing things, others will follow the mood, but a dozen or twenty a day to brush the screen, this is disrespect for people to themselves!
Truly successful people will become idle clouds and wild cranes, but they will never cause congestion to the vision of others. Because, they know, their content others will not care, happiness or not to know on the line!
Besides, what has to do with experiencing different landscapes is to expand their own thinking, and what does it have to do with others?
The really successful person is a person who knows how to think in empathy, and he knows:
The hegemonic screen brush of tourism makes envious people complain about their unsatisfactory life; let people with strong jealousy always find opportunities to denigrate themselves; let people who are stronger than themselves look childish; let people who are not as good as themselves feel that they are very capable of pretending...
In any case, the brushing of the tour content of the screen is only harmful to itself and not good...
Travel is your freedom, recording life is also your freedom, but if your freedom inadvertently hurts others and affects others, then it is your fault!
4: Do not send a meal with whom
The network of human relations in real life is a very sensitive existence.
The world is very big, I don't know how many times I passed by in my past life, in exchange for the acquaintance of this life;
The world is very small, the people you know, just happen to know others, and the words you say to the people you know are passed around and back, but the content is completely different!
The relationship between the two sides may involve cooperation and interests, and may also bring luck and misfortune to themselves because of private "friendship", which is unknown.
There are some "ostentatious" things that you think are done from the heart of sincerity, expressing that you have a reliable "circle". In fact, you don't understand the relationship between people in real life, except for the exchange of value, there is no relationship!
The circle of friends you post out for dinner will invisibly make you "defensive" against you. The reason is not self-explanatory!
People who have experienced it know that properly hiding their circle is the best protection for themselves and others!
Also, when dealing with people in private, never evaluate anyone other than two people. So-called, knowing the face and not knowing the heart is this truth.
Whoever you associate with, talk about the interests and friendships between you, and the topics involving the rest of the people must be avoided! Circle of friends also do not "show off", unnecessary at the same time, to avoid a lot of hidden negative effects.
What's more, your joy will not be shared with you, it is just an emotion of yours!
5: No negative energy
Some people's circle of friends, overwhelming negative energy, the previous one is complaining, the next one is complaining.
It seems that the heavens and the earth, all the circles and people who have intersected with them, are "sorry" ta. All the problems are someone else's, and they never understand self-examination!
Yes, it is best for people to live simpler, but many times your too "simple" is not simple, but a kind of ignorance that affects you.
When a kind of words and deeds bring you all negative effects, you still have to insist on doing it, it is not that others are too complicated, but you are not willing to stand in an objective point of view, to understand human nature, to recognize people's hearts.
Society is complex, human nature is inherently evil, if you do not know how to protect yourself, you will leave people with opportunities to hurt you. At that time, you don't know how to correct your words and deeds in time, then unfortunately it is your best partner!
A truly successful person must have the highest cultivation and ability. They are not always smooth and comfortable, they are just willing to find reasons from themselves when they encounter problems.
Therefore, they are more likely to have the ability to solve problems, and because of their own high-quality characteristics, they have brought more benefits to their lives.
People who do not have negative energy do not mean that there are no negative emotions. But ta's negative emotions did not affect others, others are happy to be close to ta, and any lucky thing is willing to be attracted to ta!
Freedom is not arbitrary, just as people walking on the street must be dressed properly, not "unclothed", and behave appropriately and not be rude.
The circle of friends is an invisible society, although you correspond to the same group of people, but the impact of your circle of friends on you is far greater than the too many good impressions you set up in front of everyone.
In the adult world, many times it is forcing themselves to have no choice, rather than indulging their humanity in the days of consuming themselves and affecting their luck!
People, not only to always improve themselves, to achieve their own, but also to let their light shine on others, you can really be with luck and always accompany.
Therefore, the next road in life, is to make your future road wider and wider, or only to look at the "freedom" of the moment, how do you choose?
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