"If I love you, I am by no means like a climbing lingxiao flower, borrowing your tall branches to show off myself....... We share the cold waves, the wind and thunder, the thunderbolts......... It is as if they are separated forever, but they are dependent on each other for life. This is great love."
Shu Ting's "To the Oak Tree" wrote out the true meaning of how many people's love, what is love? I'm afraid that everyone has their own experience, and people who are generous in love will often become the one who loses, who dares to say that this generosity is not love?
Sun Yat-sen's original wife, Lu Muzhen, is such a person: although she loves him, she is more willing to become his beauty.
Lu Muzhen is a native of Xiangshan, Guangdong, in 1867, she was born in a scholarly xiangmendi in Xiangshan County, and has been sensible since childhood, and later someone described Lu Muzhen as follows: "Lu Muzhen is a mother with traditional Chinese female virtues."
At the age of 17, Lu Muzhen married Sun Yat-sen, who was 18 years old.
It was a purely arranged marriage, and in that era, it was not a good thing for a man who could be said to be the most advanced in thought in the entire era, and three months after the marriage, Sun Yat-sen left his hometown to continue to fight for his ideals.
"Since she entered the door of the Sun family, it is the daughter-in-law of the Sun family" After that, when Sun Yat-sen was running around to serve the revolution, Lu Muzhen took care of everything in an orderly manner at home, she was filial to her in-laws, which aroused the envy of her neighbors, sun Yat-sen and Lu Muzhen gave birth to three children, a son Sun Ke, and two daughters.
In the years of marriage, Lu Muzhen was famous for her filial piety and won people's praise.
In 1888, Sun Yat-sen's father came to the end of his life, and in his last days, Sun Yat-sen saw his wife Lu Muzhen serving in front of his father's hospital bed, not leaving anything, personally serving soup medicine.
The revolution was violent, he was one class to overthrow another, in 1895, sun Yat-sen led the Guangzhou uprising failed, Sun Yat-sen was wanted by the Qing government, Lu Muzhen and his mother-in-law panicked and wanted to flee, and later they went to Honolulu and defected to Sun Yat-sen's eldest brother Sun Mei.
In the days of the foreign revolution, Sun Yat-sen and Lu Muzhen met for a few days, and even so, Lu Muzhen did not complain, she sat at home with everything she could do, and the only thing she could do for her husband's revolution was to allow him not to be distracted by the affairs of the family.
The Xinhai Revolution was successful, Sun Yat-sen became the first president, and soon After, Lu Muzhen came to Shanghai with her daughter and was warmly welcomed by the revolutionaries, and then she and her son Sun Ke and others came to Nanjing, and all the revolutionaries were full of reverence for this mother of the country.
After the failure of the Second Revolution, Sun Yat-sen went into exile in Japan, where he met his beautiful man, Soong Ching Ling.
The Song family was Christian, believing in monogamy, Sun Yat-sen was already a hot love for Soong Ching Ling at that time, and he finally decided to marry Soong Ching Ling and divorce Lu Muzhen, and he wrote a letter to Lu Muzhen.
Lu Muzhen was sad in her heart, but she also knew that if Sun Yat-sen and Soong Ching Ling married, it would have a greater role in the revolution, so she replied: Divorce is possible, and later Lu Muzhen said: "Mr. Sun ran overseas for the revolution, wandered everywhere, and was physically and mentally exhausted, since the existing people are willing to take care of his life, I am willing to make the best of it and divorce Mr. Sun." ”
"Although I love you, I would rather be your beauty" Learning that Lu Muzhen and Sun Yat-sen divorced, Soong Ching Ling officially married Sun Yat-sen in October.
After that, Lu Muzhen came down from the front of history, her name no longer shines, do not accompany the shining name, Lu Muzhen spent almost the rest of her life in Macau, she lived until 1952, at the age of 85, is a good death.