As "Xiao Min Jia" is about to usher in the end, let us congratulate Liu Xiaojie on finally divorcing Xu Zheng!
In episode 39, she is "detained" at home by Xu Zheng, and under Xu Zheng's perverted possessiveness, she is not even allowed to come out of the door.
Liu Xiaojie is a Dink family, and has long made up his mind not to have children, but after marriage, Xu Zheng's family forced her to have children, and now Xu Zheng is taking out medicines that will help her get pregnant, and she wants to watch Liu Xiaojie eat it.
Liu Xiaojie's heart was not only panicked at this moment, she felt that she did not understand this man at all, and she did not understand how she was confused by him in the first place, did not listen to the words of her mother and sister, and insisted on marrying him.
At this time, Chen Jiajia, who could not contact Liu Xiaojie for a long time, vaguely felt that Liu Xiaojie might be in danger, so he immediately came to Xu Zheng's home to find someone, Liu Xiaojie realized that this was her only chance to be rescued, if Chen Jiajia and the three people were tricked by Xu Zheng to leave, she did not know what situation she would fall into.
She shouted for help despite Xu Zheng's persuasion, and was finally rescued and taken away by Chen Jiajia's three people.
After two failed marriages, Liu Xiaojie was physically and mentally exhausted, she no longer believed Xu Zheng's lies, and made up her mind to divorce.
At this time, Liu Xiaomin, who looked at his sister's sleeping face, also had mixed feelings in his heart.
Speaking of the role of Liu Xiaojie, people occasionally feel sad and angry.
A 20-year-old girl will feel full of sentient water, willing to fight the world for love, and believe that she can change the man.
But Liu Xiaojie is not in her early 20s, she has experienced a failed marriage, and she can even take her mother's words as a side wind, and when she does not have a deep understanding and careful consideration, she will be hot to marry Xu Zheng.
Some viewers feel that Liu Xiaojie's role is contradictory, her personality seems to be independent and autonomous, and she has her own plans for life, such as she does not want to have children, she wants to live for herself wholeheartedly, and she is a modern woman who is different.
Such a character should be very powerful, how can it be so weak that it is impossible to do anything, until the final decision to divorce?
In fact, the role of Liu Xiaojie is very real, and it is precisely because she is too selfish that she will be deceived by Xu Zheng.
Liu Xiaojie wants to marry Xu Zheng, and her mother and sister have expressed their opposition, but she feels that Xu Zheng's strong possessiveness is a manifestation of loving her.
Sometimes it is too innovative, unwilling to look at the problem from multiple angles, and cannot listen to the opinions of others, also because she is too simple.
Xu appeared in the case of the breakdown of Liu Xiaojie's first marriage, although Liu Xiaojie did not want to have children, but she longed for love, especially perfection, only for her single preference.
Xu Zheng pursues her to the extreme, just imagine a good-looking, seemingly infatuated, willing to work hard and spend money to pursue, and even when she is threatened by her ex-husband's family, save her from water and fire, and the little wolf dog who is a few years younger than her age surrounds her every day, liu Xiaojie will fall into the love network is too normal.
And once a person falls into the sweetness of love, she can't listen to what others say.
In this way, Liu Xiaojie will hastily marry Xu Zheng.
After marriage, Xu Zheng's possessiveness is reflected in his increasingly sharp and violent and paranoid personality, and he does not allow Liu Xiaojie to meet with too many outsiders, not even women, let alone the opposite sex.
If it was slightly against his wishes, he would have to mess with Liu Xiaojie and even take a knife to harm himself.
It was only then that Liu Xiaojie woke up and found that Xu Zheng's imprisonment of her was not out of love, or that this perverted behavior could not be called love.
But she was taken away by Xu Zheng all the tools that could contact the outside world, and if Chen Jiajia and the three of them had not come to the door, it was difficult to imagine what she would have experienced.
Isn't such a plot real?
I will think of an old drama "Don't Talk to Strangers" many years ago, as a hospital surgical expert, AnJiahe has a lofty social status, and in the eyes of outsiders, he is a gentle and handsome man, a white-clad angel who saves lives and helps the injured.
But in fact, he is a domestic violence, suspicious personality, a strong possessiveness of his wife, and even a demon who does not hesitate to kill people.
Compared with Mei Shonan in "Don't Talk to Strangers", Liu Xiaojie is undoubtedly much luckier, but he can't ignore its practical significance because "Xiao Minjia" does not shape this story line deeply enough.
As the influence of the Internet gradually expanded, more and more women are known for the violence they suffer in the family, and for many years they have endured in silence and dare not speak up, and many people have finally died.
Due to the particularity of the problem, even if women pluck up the courage to call the police, domestic violence can only be blamed on the dispute between husband and wife, and finally can only wait for painless mediation.
But is it possible that the act of violence can be resolved by a sentence of mediation and a few accusations? Verbal "sorry" is too light, the letter of guarantee written down does not have any legal benefits, and for those who carry out violence, it is simply not costly to beat people.
Although there are relevant legal provisions on anti-domestic violence, there are still problems in the identification of domestic violence facts in terms of proof standards and difficulties in obtaining evidence, and few can be solved in the end.
When watching related TV series, I will also think, is there really no perfect solution to domestic violence?
There is an anti-domestic violence TV series in Japan, "Naomi and Kanako", which tells the story of her friend Kanako's frequent domestic violence by her husband, Naomi decided to conspire with Kanako to kill her husband to avoid the aftermath.
This is a near-death struggle that women have no choice but to do after encountering violence, not to encourage everyone to kill, but the reason why many women are trapped in it and cannot save themselves is because they are not only beaten, but also threatened to the safety of their friends and family members.
Even if you divorce, you may have hidden dangers to your own personal safety, and similar social news abounds, which is shocking.
"Naomi and Kanako" expresses helplessness about this social phenomenon in this way, hoping to cause everyone to reflect on how to protect women who are subjected to domestic violence, and more perfect laws and protection measures can be established in the future.
For some reasons, many topics in domestic TV series are not suitable for in-depth discussion, but "Xiao MinJia" has created the role of Liu Xiaojie, and it can arouse heated discussion among netizens, indicating that related issues are still the focus of attention at present.
"Xiao Min Family" is about to usher in the end, and the divorced Liu Xiaojie will usher in her new life with the help of family and friends.
I also hope that all women who are plagued by similar problems can escape the sea of suffering and start a new life.