Because of the popularity of the TV series "Kangxi Dynasty", the Kangxi Emperor has since had another scandalous object, that is, her grandmother Empress Xiaozhuang's maid, Su Ma Lagu. In the TV series, Su Ma Lagu and Kangxi grew up once and were Kangxi's sister-like beings. Who knew that Kangxi actually wanted to marry her when he grew up, so Su Ma Lagu made a vow not to marry for the rest of her life.
In the TV series, Kangxi and Su Ma Lagu are written to love each other, and the historical Kangxi and Su Ma Lagu are grandmothers and grandchildren according to their age. In fact, Su Ma Lagu was a year older than Empress Xiaozhuang, and she and Kangxi were 42 years apart, and it was completely enough to give Kangxi a grandmother. Why does the TV series like to write about Kang Xie and Su Ma Lagu falling in love? This has to do with what Kangxi did in those years. 、
Kangxi's love
Some of Kangxi's actions toward Su Ma Lama were not like grandmothers and grandchildren, but were treated according to the standards of concubines. Su Ma Lama did not marry in her lifetime, and in her later years she had a son. In fact, this was adopted by Kangxi to Su Ma Lagu, and this child was the twelfth son of The Emperor of Kangxi. According to the ancestral system of the Qing Dynasty, only those above the concubine rank could adopt a prince. If Kangxi had pitied Su Ma Lama for not having children of her own, he could have sent a princess to him. In short, no one understood why Kangxi made an exception for Su Ma Lagu.
If Kangxi sent Su Ma Lagu a child, he was considerate of not having a biological child. Then when Su Ma Lagu died, Kangxi's performance was surprising. Su Ma Lagu was only a maid, but Kangxi actually buried her in the royal cemetery. He also asked the emperor to be his son to recite the sutra for Su Ma Lagu. Such treatment is also a treatment that only concubines have. It was these acts of Kangxi that gave future generations room to imagine
However, Kangxi had so many concubines, there was no need to be with Su Ma Lagu, who was 45 years older, which was the imagination of posterity. In fact, the relationship between Kangxi and Su Ma Lagu is more like the relationship between teachers and students, adoptive mothers and adopted sons, masters and maids. What Kangxi did was only out of gratitude.
Su Ma Lama's contribution
Su Ma Lama was originally born into a poor family, and was later bought into the princess to serve the second lady, who was the future Empress Xiaozhuang. Xiaozhuang married Emperor Taiji alone, accompanied by Su Ma Lagu; Xiao Zhuang bravely entered the capital and was accompanied by Su Ma Lagu; Xiao Zhuang fought against Dolgun, and it was also Su Ma Lagu who accompanied him.
Empress Xiaozhuang single-handedly supported the 6-year-old Fu Lin to sit on the throne, and the mother and son could only see each other once a month because of the ancestral system. Coupled with Dorgon's knowledge of the two women, it is not convenient for them to plan something. At this time, Su Ma Lagu acted as a messenger for the two women. Fortunately, Su Ma Lama reacted quickly and was quick-witted, and the three of them finally joined forces to bring down Dolgun.
With the help of Su Ma Lagu, Shunzhi came to power smoothly, and there would be a later Kangxi. When Kangxi was born, Su Ma Lama was already in her forties, and she was more of a childlike love for Kangxi. When Kangxi was just born, Empress Xiaozhuang asked Su Ma Lama to raise him as his "hand teaching the national book". It can be said that Su Ma Lagu is Kangxi's kindergarten teacher
It can be said that Su Ma Lama not only accompanied Empress Xiaozhuang for a lifetime, but also accompanied the important moments of Kangxi's life. At that time, the smallpox in the capital was seriously disturbed, and the Shunzhi Emperor died precisely because of smallpox. In order to avoid acne, Kangxi stayed away from Bauhinia City from an early age and lived in a mansion outside the Xihua Gate of Miyagi City.
Referring to this period, Kangxi said: "Because when she was a child, she did not have a pox, so that the nanny guarded outside the Forbidden City. Parents kneel, not a day to bear joy" This time of lack of parental company, it was Su Ma Lama who accompanied Kangxi. Su Ma Lama took good care of Kangxi and gave him the feeling of a long-lost family. However, this period of time was very hard for Su Ma Lama. Empress Xiaozhuang could not do without her, and Kangxi could not do without her at a young age. There was no way, Su Ma Lama could only ride her horse, day and night through the Cining Palace and Kangxi's pox shelter.
So when Su Ma Lama died, Kangxi learned the news and was devastated. In order to finally see Su Ma Lagu,Kangxi asked the princes to keep the remains and hurried back with a whip himself. After Kangxi returned, he asked Su Ma Tou's funeral to be held at the level of concubine, with the coffin placed together with Empress Xiaozhuangwen.
Kangxi's great affection for Su Ma Lama was praised by posterity. It was not until 1931, when Empress Xiaozhuang's tomb was stolen and Su Ma Lama's grave was dug up, that everyone found out that Kangxi had lied. The tomb of Su Ma Lagu contains only a small bone box and no funerary items. The concubineship promised by Kangxi was not realized at all, and even the scale and layout of the cemetery were simple. Kangxi did not do it, but gained a good reputation for it. Su Ma Lagu paid a lifetime for the Qing Dynasty, never married, and it was not too much to ask for a better tomb.
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