My house purchase note

Buying a house

Friday, December 31, 2021

After four months of waiting, the mortgage was finally approved.

From the time we planned to buy a house, my daughter and I went to see the house almost every weekend. Because we dare not be the master, my husband is the kind of person who will not worry, and his suggestions are only to let the purchase price be low, and do not consider the location and school district at all. So my daughter and I rarely consulted with him, and talking to him too much was also an argument. Many times we would ask our sisters for advice. The second sister has bought and sold the house several times, she has experience, the second sister accompanied me to Jinan to find an agent to see the house, and finally settled the house. In the middle of this, there were several twists and turns because of the loan, and I could not give my daughter a co-repayer due to my reasons, which made me very miserable, and my well-behaved daughter has been comforting me. Under the coordination of the intermediary, let the eldest sister be the co-repayer for the daughter.

Next there was a down payment, the down payment was more than seven hundred thousand, I only had four hundred thousand, and my sister told me that she lent me all the rest of the money. My sister retired from the enterprise with a low salary, and I was very touched by my sister's generosity.

From my daughter looking for a job and buying a house, my sisters and sisters have been helping me. I didn't expect that my husband's sisters and sisters knew that we didn't have enough down payment to buy a house, and their family had spare money but didn't lend us a penny. It made me feel their ruthlessness fully.

Can't sleep at night, I reflect on myself many times, am I doing a bad job?

Looking back on the bits and pieces of life. In the past, they didn't have a car at home, as long as they used the car, their husband was on call. The eldest sister's children get married and have children, all of which are the amount of gifts that the sister-in-law said, and I have never raised an objection. The eldest sister and daughter-in-law quarrel, but also let us go to be the old man. Her son had surgery, our family of three waited outside the operating room, no matter what happened to her family, I tried my best to help...

The second sister-in-law is very strong, and her father-in-law's money is in her hands. I remember that more than a decade ago, her husband stabbed his colleague with a knife to calm the incident. We gave her the only eight thousand dollars we had, and they didn't give it back to me after the incident. My daughter was admitted to college and she gave three thousand, and when her son went to school, I gave them five thousand...

All they have to do is tell us that we are all doing our best to help them, and when I encounter difficulties, they even pretend not to know, even a false greeting will not make me feel so cold. The eldest sister and the daughter-in-law often quarreled, the sister-in-law and her mother-in-law did not interact with each other, because the demolition money her mother-in-law did not let her receive, they made trouble to the headquarters, I found someone to mediate them... I thought back and forth that it wasn't that I didn't do a good job, it was that they were ruthless to me.

The matter of the house is finally settled. Starting to pay off the mortgage the next month, our family of three made plans. Have fun every day and don't want me to be unhappy.

People are doing the day to see, be kind to everyone!