There is a saying that goes well, "Love that does not have the purpose of marriage is to play hooligans", and now many people are in love just to play, and they have no intention of marrying each other.
Whether it is a boy or a girl, meeting such a person is a disaster, wasting his feelings in vain, but his life events are delayed by the other party.
If you're not ready to take on this responsibility, be honest and honest, don't talk about it, and in the end nothing will be achieved.
As long as you observe with more care, even if the other party is very good at covering up, many details will expose the true thoughts of the other party's heart.
A woman who had been in love with her boyfriend for five years immediately shared the good news with her boyfriend after the unexpected pregnancy, but the boyfriend hurriedly hung up the phone on the grounds of busyness.
A few days later, the boyfriend said that the company arranged for him to travel for a month, and then the other party evaporated in the world, the woman thought that the boyfriend had an accident, and after calling the police, she found that the other party just returned to her hometown.
As for why the man returned to his hometown, everyone is an adult, and obviously understands the other party's intention to do so, that is, he does not want to take responsibility.
The fact is also as the woman thinks, the man said that the relationship between the two has broken down, it is impossible to get married, and also advised the woman to beat the child as soon as possible.
In the end, the woman did not return, she left alone, the man thought that the matter was over, and the next day the woman's parents came.
As soon as the woman's parents came, they directly asked the man to set the wedding date, and now the man in this marriage does not agree to it.
Good guy, this woman's parents are directly at the door to force the marriage.
The reason for the woman's parents is also very simple, their daughter has been with each other for several years, it can be said that youth is spent on each other, and now she is pregnant with each other's children, which can say that she will break up.
However, the man said that the two people's feelings were broken and had already broken up, hoping that the woman's parents would respect the opinions of their children and not engage in arranged marriages.
This sentence immediately made the woman's parents angry, and the woman's mother immediately became angry: "My daughter has lived with you for 5 years, which is equivalent to being a white prostitute by you?" ”
Although this is not very pleasant, it can be seen how angry the woman's parents are, and their daughter has a weak personality, and is coaxed by the man to turn around, but the parents can't swallow this breath.
But they forced marriage so forcibly, in fact, it is not a good way, although it seems very relieved, but the daughter's happiness in the second half of life is most likely over.
Although this man is unreliable, he has a correct sentence, and now the feelings of the two people are gone, and they will not be happy if they are barely together.
Take advantage of the fact that the stomach is not big yet, remove the child first, if it is dragged to the stomach to become bigger, or the woman directly gives birth to the child, it can only be bigger and bigger.
Basically reluctantly married, it is difficult to obtain happiness, the woman is obviously eaten to death by the man, and the parents cannot let her rely on her for a lifetime.
This incident also gives us a wake-up call, whether it is a boy or a girl, we must learn to clean ourselves and do not take that step before we are ready to take this responsibility.
Take more time to understand each other's character and personality, see if the two sides are suitable, if the two people do not match at all, then directly separate, there is no need to waste time.
Learn to love yourself first, you will know how to love others, if a person does not even love himself, how can others respect him and love him.
Marriage is a major life event, everyone deserves to spend time to take seriously, spend more thought before marriage, and spend less time after marriage.