In psychology, there is a special 150 law that states the importance and purposefulness of social dating. Interestingly, if you want to become a dating expert, it is best to read the Sui and Tang Dynasties, because cheng Yaojin in the book is a real dating expert. What is the secret of Cheng biting gold to make friends? And why has it become a model for making friends? If you want to know, let Xiaobian reveal the secret for you:
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In the category of psychology, there is a special iron law, that is, the law of 150. The content of the law is very simple, that is, it is recommended that in the process of social interaction, we should not make more than 150 friends, so that we can stand in an invincible position, become a real dating expert, and find more opportunities for our future. There are many dating experts in history, but the most prominent person with "performance" is the famous Tang Dynasty fu general Cheng Yaojin.
Cheng Biting Jin was born in the grass, but became one of the few founding heroes of the Tang Dynasty, whether it is the history of the right or the wild history, he has paid a lot of ink to it, which shows the importance of Cheng Biting Jin's position in history. Cheng's ability to bite gold is not outstanding, and strategic wisdom also belongs to the midstream level, but why is Cheng's ability to bite gold overwhelm the crowd and be favored by posterity? The reason is precisely because Cheng Yaojin perfectly used the 150 law and successfully made four close friends. Let's talk about it:
Cheng bit Jin's friend Wang Bodang and made him loyal. Wang Bodang is a native of Henan, and since he was a child, he has liked to act heroically and righteously, and he has always been dissatisfied with the dark rule of the Sui Dynasty, so there is always a belief in rebellion in his heart. When Wang Bodang became an adult, he met His best friend in life, Li Mi, and the two went to Wagangzhai together to discuss the great cause of anti-Sui. It was also during his tenure as a general in Wagangzhai that Wang Bodang met Cheng Yaojin, and the two of them saw each other as they were, and eventually became friends of Mo Rebellion. Unfortunately, Wang Bodang was loyal to Li Mi all his life, and even after the two of them surrendered to Tang, he still devoted himself to following his old lord, and when Li Mi decided to rebel, he resolutely chose to follow. Wang Bodang's courage to "know that there are tigers in the mountains and prefer to go to the tiger mountains" and the loyalty of "soldiers who die for their confidants" are really admirable, and Cheng Bitejin's making of this loyal friend is indeed worth it.
Cheng bit Jin to make friends with Qin Shubao and made a commitment. Qin Shubao' name is Qin Qiong, one of the main characters in the "Sui and Tang Dynasty Yanyi", he is known as "ma ta on both sides of the Yellow River, three states and six provinces", can be called "book guts". The story between Qin Qiong and Cheng Yaojin stemmed from the robbery of yang lin's imperial gang. At that time, Yang Lin, the patron king, offered the Sui Emperor a birthday, but he was unexpectedly robbed by the robbers disguised as Cheng Yaojin and You Junda, so the imperial court began to arrest the two, and what was even more unexpected was that such an important task actually fell on Qin Qiong's head. However, Qin Qiong and Cheng Yaojin are good friends, so he decides to change his makeup and disguise himself as a robber to face the crime. I have to say that Qin Qiong is indeed a role model among good friends, and his style of acting has a deep influence on Cheng Biting Jin, and at this point, Cheng Biting Jin has also learned the responsibility of manhood.
Cheng bites Jin's friend Shan Xiongxin and makes a righteous gesture. Shan Xiongxin was the chief scoop of the green forest in the three provinces, that is, the leader of the gang at that time, and he was bent on rebelling against the imperial court, and even reached the point of madness. However, with the demise of the Sui Dynasty, Li Shimin's ranks became larger and larger, but Shan Xiongxin insisted on righteousness, and still resolutely did not surrender after the rebellion and separation of the people, and finally died heroically, becoming the most tragic character in the "Sui and Tang Dynasty". Shan Xiongxin is called by many people as a "dead eye" and a person who does not know the times, but in cheng yaojin's heart, he is a good man with righteous words, and he deserves to be respected as a model throughout his life.
Cheng bites Jin to make friends with Luo Cheng and makes friends with Yongmeng. Luo Cheng was the son of Luo Yi, the King of Beiping, known as "Luo Shaobao", known as "Cold Face Cold Gun Pretty Luo Cheng", and was a handsome and brave second-generation official. Compared with other clumsy children, Luo Cheng's ability can be ranked in the top ten in the "Sui and Tang Dynasty", and he is an authentic "rich and handsome", and he is also the dream lover of thousands of young girls. Luo Cheng had helped Wagangzhai break the Golden Snake Array and the Bronze Banner Array, and even won the first place in the Martial Arts Conference. In the process of interacting with Cheng Yaojin, Luo Cheng has always played the role of little brother, but in this handsome teenager, Cheng Yaojin understands the principle that "to strike iron, you must be hard yourself".
Through the analysis of Cheng's biting gold dating, we should also have some understanding, the original making friends is also a science, and it is a very deep learning, worthy of everyone's deep thinking and learning.
Reference: Sui and Tang Dynasties, Qing Dynasty. Chu Ren was authored by Jilin Publishing House
Wen xiucai, editor-in-chief of Wenlan Hairun Studio, written by: Special history writer: Changshan Zhao Zi worm