Lamei Turui, Ruixue is flying, and the footsteps of the New Year are getting closer and closer! In any case, 2021 will come to an end. Whether you have experienced glory or ups and downs, joy or sorrow in the past year, please return your heart to zero, unload the burden of the past, and greet the new 2022 with a relaxed attitude!
2022 is back on, and time tracers send you three tips to make your 2022 full of ease and excitement!
Tip 1: Learn to make your heart bigger
The word "state" of the state of mind is "a little bigger heart.". A bigger heart, the better the mentality. Only a good state of mind can have a good state, and a good state can have a good future!
On September 7, 1965, the world-renowned World Billiards Championship Tournament was held in New York, USA. Native American Louis Fox is highly skilled, far ahead of his rival John Dealy, and can win the championship by a few points. Not long after the game began, a dramatic scene suddenly appeared: a small fly landed on the main ball that Luiz was about to hit. In full view of everyone, it seems particularly out of place.
Louis was very angry, and he immediately swung his club to drive away the "spoiler" fly. But when he leaned over again to hit the ball, the damn fly flew back and landed on the main ball. The audience erupted in laughter, and Louis was so annoyed that he swung his club again to drive away the uninteresting fly.
The laughter at the scene gradually subsided, and the game continued. As Louis sorted out his clothes and picked up his club to get ready to play, the audience suddenly erupted in a frenzied laughter, and it turned out that the fly flew back again and landed on the main ball before.
In the face of the laughter of the audience and the teasing of the flies again and again, Louis was furious, lost his composure and sanity, angrily hit the flies with his club, accidentally touched the main ball, and thus lost a round of opportunities. His opponent John Dire saw the confidence of the situation, with a rational mood and stable play in a row, and finally overtook Luis and won the world championship.
Enraged, Louis broke his club and left the game in frustration.
The next morning, his body was found in the river, and he threw himself into the river. A small fly not only made Luiz lose his world championship, but also made him lose his precious life! This real event is breathtaking, even more shocking and thought-provoking.
There is no way, the technique is still available; there is no way, stop at the art!
It is not enough for a person to have superb skills, but also to have a good attitude. If your heart is only the size of a coin, then a fly will look particularly harsh on it; if your heart is as big as the earth, many things are like a tiny speck of dust. A drop of ink drops into a glass of water, and the water will quickly turn black and drip into the vast sea, but the sea will not change at all. Therefore, when the heart is bigger, the matter is smaller; when the heart is wide, there are no troubles!
Therefore, please learn to make your heart bigger in 2022, let the troubles go with the wind, and let the happiness always follow!
Tip 2: Learn to turn your heart
As the old saying goes: life is not as it should be, nine times out of ten. If you are always thinking one by one and staring at these unsatisfactory things, it must be pessimistic and sad every day, and there is no joy in life. Therefore, we must learn to make our hearts turn a corner, change our perspective, and learn to see the other side of things, don't you know that "Sai Weng lost his horse, and he knew that it was not a blessing"!
Once upon a time, an old lady had two daughters, the eldest daughter married the umbrella seller, and the second daughter married the cloth dyeer. When the old lady was sunny, she was always worried that the umbrella of the eldest daughter's family would not be sold. When it rained, I was worried that the cloth dyed by my second daughter's house would not dry, and I was worried and worried all day.
Later, a wise man advised her: Old lady, you must learn to make your heart turn, when it is rainy, your eldest daughter's family business is prosperous, and when it is rainy, your second daughter's family has a surplus of customers, you see how blessed you are! The old lady has really thought about it since then, and since then her heart has turned, and she is happy and happy every day!
Remember, think about the benefits of everything, life is originally imperfect, but no matter who it is, his life is not lacking in excitement, the key depends on how you look! Lin Yufeng in "Heavenly Dao" was too stubborn to force himself into a dead end!
Yu Zhonglin is a famous Chinese painter in the mainland, especially good at flowering peonies. Someone once bought a peony painting of him, carefully framed and hung it in the living room of the family, admiring the grace of the peony every day, which was very satisfying. Until one day, a friend of his came to his house as a guest, and after seeing it, he shouted that this painting was unlucky, because the peony was not completely painted, and there was a place missing one side.
This person was shocked after hearing this, thinking that his friend was right, so he took it back and prepared to ask Yu Zhonglin to repaint it. Yu Zhonglin listened to his reasoning, couldn't stop laughing, and then told the man: You don't know, peony represents wealth, missing one side, representing "wealth is boundless"! The man said happily, "Yes, I didn't expect that!" Then, happily holding the painting, I went home.
Two short stories tell us that the same thing, the same painting, because of different mentalities, different perspectives on the problem, they have different views, but also have different states of mind. Therefore, when encountering things, do not blindly be pessimistic and depressed, but learn to make your heart turn a corner, and actively look at the problem from another angle!
The Buddha said: Let go of attachment and be at ease! When the road is over, it is not the end of the road, but that it is time for us to turn. If the obsession is too deep, it will only hit the south wall, make the mind turn a corner, and may turn the willows and flowers, and the peaks will turn around.
Phases are born from the heart, and the environment changes with the heart. In 2022, when you are not satisfied, please learn to let your heart turn, experience new vitality and situations, and feel more beautiful scenery!
Tip 3: Learn to zero out your heart
Wang Yangming said: "My generation has worked hard, only seeking to decrease day by day, not to increase by day. To subtract one point of human desire is to regain a point of heavenly reason, how brisk and free, how simple. ”
In the journey of life, we must learn to "zero" our hearts. Every time after a period of time, we must clear the past, let the heart return to zero, unload the burden of the past, and let ourselves go lightly in order to go far.
Li Ji, the first general of the Tang Dynasty and one of the twenty-four meritorious men of Ling Yange, was the important minister that Tang Taizong relied on to fight the Jiangshan, and Tang Taizong was particularly important to him, and in his later years Tang Taizong once said to Li Ji at a banquet: "I looked for people among the courtiers who could be orphaned, and found that no one was better than you. You used to be worthy of Li Mi, and you will never be able to stand up to me in the future. ”
However, Tang Taizong, who was seriously ill, suddenly ordered Li Ji to be demoted from the capital and demanded that he take office immediately. In the face of this sudden change, many people were upset about Li Jiming, but he accepted the edict very calmly and immediately rode on the road.
After Tang Taizong died of illness and Li Zhi succeeded to the throne, the mystery of this matter was revealed. Originally, Tang Taizong really wanted to entrust Li Ji alone, but because Li Ji had made many meritorious contributions and was a heavy subject he relied on, but the crown prince Li Zhi did not have any kindness to him, so Tang Taizong was worried that Li Ji might not submit, and Li Zhi could not control him.
So he came up with a plan to demote Li Ji to the outside world, and if he went on the road immediately, Li Zhi would recall him and appoint him as a servant after he took the throne, so that he would be kind to him. If he lingers, kill him.
Later, many people attributed Li Ji's luck to his ingenuity. In fact, in addition to his ingenuity, a very important point is that he understands the "zero" mentality. Even if he was brilliant enough to see through Tang Taizong's plan, he lacked the mentality of "returning to zero" at any time, believing that he was very meritorious and should not be treated in this way, or although he obeyed and degraded officials, but showed hesitation or indignation, I am afraid that he would not be able to serve as prime minister, and may have already lost his life.
At first, Li Ji was a subordinate of Li Mi, and most of the land occupied by Li Mi was under Li Ji's actual jurisdiction. Later, Li Mi surrendered to the Tang Dynasty, but Li Ji did not ask for credit for this, but gave these to Li Mi, who contributed to the Tang King.
It can be seen that Li Ji has a good "zero" mentality throughout his life, no matter how hard he has worked hard, he can quickly put it down and start from scratch. It is not easy for a person to establish merit, but it is even more difficult to give up one's merit. This is where Li Ji is remarkable, and it is also an important point worth learning.
Tan Qian is one of the famous historians in history, but he is one of the outliers. He aspired to write a complete and detailed tome. However, to become a historian and write historical works, it is necessary to read a large amount of materials and also need certain financial support, otherwise writing history is almost a luxury.
However, Tan Qian's family was very poor and did not even have the opportunity to study. But Tan Qian insisted on writing, in order to read, he went to work in the homes of rich people, without any remuneration, as long as he was allowed to read books. In order to write history books, he gave up the opportunity to become an official, and even when his father died of illness, he did not have time to rush back to see his father for the last time.
In the four years of Shunzhi, after 26 years of hard work and repeated revisions of the proofreading draft, Tan Qian finally wrote the "National Pavilion", at this time Tan Qian was already an old man with two white sideburns. However, fate still made a huge joke with him. A thief sneaked into his home and stole the manuscript. 26 years of hard work was stolen, which was a thunderbolt for an old man.
However, the talk of relocation did not stop at this. He adjusted his mentality and decided to rewrite the "National Pavilion". Although the Ming Dynasty has perished after several decades, many materials are difficult to verify, although he is now nearly a flower armor, he still resolutely put on his umbrella, luggage, pen and ink paper, and restarted his reading, copying, and writing career.
Finally, at the age of 61, this faltering old man re-completed the amazing masterpiece of "The National Pavilion". Talking about the courage and tenacity of Qianqian has inspired generations of historians.
After the manuscript was stolen, Tan Qian was able to overcome great difficulties again to write a history book, which was inseparable from his perseverance and perseverance, but this spiritual quality essentially came from the strength of his heart.
Although it has gone through countless hardships and spent 26 years of painstaking efforts, Tan Qian was able to quickly adjust his mentality after the manuscript was stolen, let his mentality "return to zero", and clear all the costs invested in the past, so he was able to pack up and start again.
In other words, others may have been depressed and depressed after this blow. Tan Qian is a well-deserved master of historiography, who let us see the powerful power of the "zeroing out" mentality, which is worth learning.
Zeng Guofan said: "The future is not welcome, the present is not complicated, and the past is not in love." Whether you have been brilliant or depressed, happy or sad, in 2022, please "zero", do not read the past, do not fear the future, do not sleep in the heart, do not mess with emotions, with the "zero" mentality to obtain the comfort of life, with the mentality of zero to appreciate the new scenery!
All the past is the prologue. 2022 please bring these three tips, pack light, and live out the excitement of life!