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Wang Xifeng: Jia Fu recognized as a strong woman, but there is a fatal flaw

The comments on Feng Jie were mixed.

But in terms of ability, it can basically be said that it is a word of public mouth, and they all feel that Feng Jie's family is orderly, has both control and execution, and can be called a master. There is no need for more examples in this regard – whether it is work attitude or work performance, it seems to be overlooked.

However, if you think about it in detail, the face of things changes.

When the Zhou Rui family introduced Sister Feng to Grandma Liu, she said, "Although she is young, she is older than anyone." Nowadays, the outstanding beauty is like a child, less to say that he is afraid of having ten thousand hearts and eyes; If you gamble again, ten men who can speak will not be able to talk about him" (the sixth time).

The proper meaning of the title of "acting big" is to be able to think of danger in times of peace and to ascend to a lofty height and look far ahead.

Sister Feng, on the other hand, said that "doing things is bigger than the world", but the "ten thousand hearts and eyes" and "mouth" are all manifested in small aspects. In addition to such things as flattering Jia Mu, withholding monthly money, lending usury, etc., which are directly beneficial to herself, even in her daily normal work, she attaches importance to some tactical levels and close-up existence.

As the executive manager of the Rong Guo Mansion (although it was used by Lady Wang for transitional purposes), Feng Jie had almost no brains about things with a long-term meaning. The only exception is when Ping'er mentions that "there will be three or four girls in the future, and two or three young masters, and an old lady, and these major events are not finished" (the fifty-fifth time), she talked a little about the idea - in fact, these things are still at the tactical level, but the time is a little farther, and the idea she talks about is basically a "maintenance meeting" idea.

Wang Xifeng: Jia Fu recognized as a strong woman, but there is a fatal flaw

At that time, Jia Fu was already a sunset on the empty mountains and sunsets, but when the sun set in the west, there was often a cloud with a gold edge. There is a kind of person who can only (or only go) to see this phnom Penh, but cannot see (or not look) the storm behind the clouds - Feng Jie is.

Perhaps some commentators will say that the responsibility for thinking about this problem lies with Jia Zheng, Madame Wang and even Jia Mu, and Feng Jie as an executive manager may be difficult to do anything about it. In fact, as a family member, everyone should consider this and make suggestions in an appropriate way, whether it can be adopted is another matter - not to mention the role of the family, that is, as a guest, Lin Daiyu "although he does not care about things, his heart is always idle, he calculates for them, more out, less in, and now if he is not thrifty, he will not take the back hand" (the sixty-second time), Xue Baochao is more actively involved in exploring the prosperity and elimination of disadvantages, "Xiao Hui Quan" (the fifty-sixth time).

Feng Jie, a front-line figure in a key position, does not use her brain for this.

If you don't use your own brain, it is useless for others to give advice - "Qin Keqing's dream" is actually a wonderful stroke of Cao Gong. "When the moon is full, it loses, and when the water is full, it overflows" and "If you ascend high, you will fall heavily", which has vividly and vividly mentioned the dangers faced by Jia Fu on the way forward to Wang Xifeng, the executive manager. Moreover, the two methods proposed by Qin Keqing were operational methods under the social circumstances at that time.

Unfortunately, Ke Qing's bitter exhortation was wrongly paid after all!

Why is that? Why would Feng Jie, who is clever and clever and has acted well, make such a low-level mistake of "not copying the homework delivered to the door"? There are many reasons, but the most critical one is that she doesn't have a strategic mindset.

We say that to make long-term planning, we must have strategic thinking: what is the development of the situation? What are the similarities with the past, and in particular, what are the different characteristics? What are the prospects for development? How should you adjust your playing style accordingly? In the final analysis, we must pay attention to the future possibilities of the development of things, make advance predictions, and come up with coping strategies.

Wang Xifeng: Jia Fu recognized as a strong woman, but there is a fatal flaw

And a very important node here is to strive to jump out of the shackles of routine affairs (of course, the implementation level is still to be done, here is the thinking level), expand the scope of attention, from a variety of intricate factors to find the crisis, derive the benefit of the group (specific to the Dream of the Red Chamber is Jia Fu) - especially to get rid of the impact of short-term interests in regular affairs, that is, do not care about the gains and losses of one city and one place.

Feng Jie was a short board at this point, which led to her serious rejection of Qin Keqing's suggestion.

Originally, "taking advantage of today's wealth, to buy more farms, houses, and acres of land near Zu Mo" was a way to retreat from property transfer, and it was difficult for Feng Jie, who liked "momentary prosperity and temporary joy" and indulged in "fiery cooking oil and flowers with golden splendor", and "the elder and young of the contract family, everyone set a rule, and in the future, according to the house, the land for this year's land, grain, sacrifice supply is already difficult to accept." Such a flow of weeks, there is no competition, and there is no pawn selling all kinds of drawbacks" - Qin Keqing's one is almost alive to Feng Jie's life!

"House ownership" after the transfer and replacement of the large amount of property? Then there is no executive manager, how can there be a feeling of "coercion and order" in the future? How to show the arrogance of "gentle demeanor, generous speech, precious and generous" (the fourteenth time)? How do you get the benefit of "taking this piece of silver in the past few years, turning out hundreds of times" (the thirty-ninth time)?" How to exchange one letter and two lives for three thousand taels, how to collect ice chips musk and other things? How......

There is no strategic thinker, always obsessed with the small benefits in front of them, nostalgic for a momentary personal show, dreaming of the tactical operation of "what method can always keep (personal interests) safe", rather than thinking about long-term planning such as "planning the future decline of the world at the time of prosperity". So I "think that the glory is endless, do not think about the future", only look at their own eyes, do not think about the prospects of the group (including themselves), and even the best ideas are not eggs.

Wang Xifeng: Jia Fu recognized as a strong woman, but there is a fatal flaw

Man's mind is unified. In order to confirm that Feng Jie's short-sighted thinking exists in many ways and is not limited to the field of family governance, we also make a brief analysis of the relevant issues in the field of personal status that she attaches great importance to:

Although Feng Jie was aware of the embarrassing situation of her "transitional housekeeper", she did not dispose of it, and put Ping'er "in this room to be distracted by a hundred distractions, and for a long time we went back to the house over there, and there was no hatred of some villains, which made people hate and complain" (The sixty-first time) This advice with long-term significance was the wind in the ears, not only did not take advantage of the limited buffer space favored by Jia Mu, but also created a relatively relaxed environment for the survival of future (after Jia Mu's death and Bao Yu's marriage) - here is far less than the "old Jian Spring Cold Autumn Fever" of Zi Juan. (Fifty-seventh) insight, and knowing whether it is a matter of "not killing (or killing) the fox to cause a commotion", or always acting as a gun for people and charging into battle, the result is to offend a large number of people, including the mother-in-law Lady Xing, and also exhaust his body, so that he faces the embarrassing situation of "no queen".

And the reason for all this is that it is confined to the visible love affair with Lady Wang's aunt and nephew - unlike Xiaohong who can see at a glance, "But in three years and five years, everyone has done their own thing" (the twenty-sixth time).

Of course, family affection is worth cherishing, but it also depends on the specific situation. In turn, the aunt Lady Wang did not care about the affection of the sister-in-law of Rausch, and when Sister Feng had a little support for the "Mushi Former Alliance" out of her own interests, Lady Wang's suppression - from the formation of a temporary management team, to the embroidery of the Spring Capsule incident, to the inspection of the Grand View Garden, it was merciless and crackling.

This is a fatal feature of Feng Jie: diligent in tactical actions and lack of strategic planning. As we all know, people's behavior is determined by their cognition, cognition is wrong, no matter how diligent and hard they are in behavior, they are all one step wrong and fallacious. Feng Jie, who is heavy on tactics and light on strategy, looks smart and easy to navigate, but she can't see the key position and central link of things, so her endless tactical cleverness and small tricks, the long-term effect of which will only be to continuously lead to strategic mistakes and pave the way for the final defeat.

Author: Wind and Rain Autumn Window, this article is to read less of the original works of the Red Chamber.

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