Nowadays, the population is declining, in order to encourage people to have more second children, the two-child policy has been relaxed, and many people have to fight for the second child at the age of 40 in order to realize their dreams of two children.
Comedian Yan Xuejing is one of them, at the age of 46, she gave birth to a second child, and the eldest daughter has already married and had children, first as a grandmother and gave birth to a second child Yan Xuejing said happiness on her lips, but she was punched in the face by reality.
Early life
Yan Xuejing was born in 1972 in an ordinary family in Jilin Province, influenced by the duo in the northeast, she likes to sing and dance since childhood, and she is also very talented.
When she was 13 years old, Yan Xuejing was sent by her parents to the Weijin Small Opera Troupe in Jilin Province to study, in which Yan Xuejing worked very hard, and she could sing nearly forty plays that the troupe often performed, and the leader of the troupe gave her the nickname "Drama Rake".
At the age of 17, Yan Xuejing was admitted to the local drama department of Jilin Provincial Opera School and began to formally study the two-person transfer to acting major. Since then, he has participated in many competitions and won numerous awards.
After graduation, Yan Xuejing was assigned to the military cultural and industrial troupe, and because of her excellent performance, she was transferred to the Jilin City Critics Troupe, in which Yan Xuejing became the most outstanding two-person actor, and was known as a well-known two-person turn empress in the three northeastern provinces.
Later, he began to contact film and television, and successively starred in "Building No. 3", "Liu Laogen", "Serving You", "Women as Officials", "The Three Kingdoms Era of Concubines", and also appeared on the Spring Festival Gala, becoming a household name.
First as a grandmother, she gave birth to a second child
Yan Xuejing, who has a successful career, is also very happy in marriage, and after she became famous, she met Lin Yue on the Liu Laogen big stage, and Lin Yue was the boss of the Liu Laogen big stage.
After the two met, they were attracted to each other and became lovers, but Yan Xuejing's parents were very opposed to their love affair, because Lin Yue was not only ten years older than Yan Xuejing, but also divorced with a daughter.
However, Yan Xuejing still married Lin Yue without hesitation, and after marriage, Yan Xuejing was very attentive to her stepdaughter, and the feelings of the two were not mother and daughter but better than mother and daughter.
Soon Yan Xuejing gave birth to a son for Lin Yue, with a son she still has the same for her stepdaughter, the family is very happy, and later the stepdaughter got married and had children, Yan Xuejing also became a grandmother.
Yan Xuejing was 45 years old, but suddenly became pregnant again, after family consultation, Yan Xuejing gave birth to this child, and now this child is three years old.
Reality punches the face
Although Yan Xuejing looks very happy, in the live broadcast, Yan Xuejing also talked about her slow postpartum recovery due to age problems, and her physical functions have changed significantly, and sometimes holding children will flash her waist.
Netizens have commented: the elderly children talk about happiness, but they can't escape the reality of punching the face, young people will be tired when taking care of children, not to mention the elderly mothers.
So do you still want to have children at this age? What should I pay attention to when having a baby? How can I recover better?
First of all, good health
No more than 40 years old can also have a second child, more than forty should carefully consider the ability of their body to bear, and if the body is not very healthy, it is not recommended to get pregnant when you are old, this time the risk of pregnancy is still relatively large.
Regular pregnancy tests are critical
Elderly women must pay attention to their own bodies at any time, regular pregnancy tests pay attention to the health of the baby, especially amniotic puncture must be done to ensure the health of the baby, so that they and the baby can give birth healthily and smoothly.
Postpartum recovery
Postpartum recovery is a topic that all mothers are concerned about, young mothers recover relatively quickly after childbirth, while elderly women are difficult to recover quickly in a short period of time, and their appearance and body aging are accelerated, which is inevitable.
summary
Therefore, older women who want to have a second child must think well before making a decision, and never regret it again. Yan Xuejing, who is a grandmother and then a mother, is not easy, I hope that she can be happy with her little daughter in the second half of her life!