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At any given time, we rarely talk about one topic, and that is the topic of "life and death."
In the eyes of Chinese, "life and death" is a particularly unlucky thing. If you can not talk about it, try not to talk about it, so as not to make your heart become entangled.
However, if we always have this kind of thinking, I believe that we will not live a happy life. Only when people look down on life and death can they truly accept life and death, and finally transcend life and death.
The ancients once said: "Fate is sometimes poor, why fear life and death?" ”
Human life expectancy has a day when it is exhausted, so why should we be so afraid of life and death? There is no need to be afraid. What should come, we accept, there is no need to be too entangled.
For example, the elderly in the family, although we all hope that they can live a long life, such as the East Sea and the South Mountain, in fact, they will eventually return to the day.
What will they do before they return? What unusual moves will there be?
In fact, before the old man almost "leaves", there will be these 4 actions, and the children should be mentally prepared.
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Before the old man returns, he can always "premonition" his limit.
Zeng Guofan, one of the four famous ministers of the late Qing Dynasty, did such a thing before his death.
In his later years, Zeng Guofan's legs and feet were not very good, and he rarely walked around, but rested at home. In the eyes of the children, small illnesses and small pains are not a problem, and the father only needs to live a long life of 100 years.
One day, Zeng Guofan told his son that he wanted to go for a walk in the back garden. After hearing his father's words, the son immediately helped his father to the back garden to go for a walk.
While walking, Zeng Guofan talked to his son about the aftermath, which made the son particularly frightened and wondered, why did his father talk about the aftermath today?
After a while, Zeng Guofan said that he was a little tired and wanted to go back to the study to rest. The son helped his father back to the study, and then went out to do his own business.
Zeng Guofan, who was sitting on the chair, closed his eyes, slowly fell asleep, and left in his sleep, which was also considered to be a good death.
It can be said that before the old man leaves this world, he can always "premonition" his limit. You know, how much life is left, outsiders do not know after all, only they can perceive.
03
Before the old man returns, he will be particularly refreshed.
A candle, before it is extinguished, is sure to suddenly flash a light, and finally the oil runs out. A light bulb, when the tungsten filament is about to break, will definitely flash a dazzling light and then extinguish.
In the same way, when people are about to leave, they will definitely stimulate the last energy in the human body and make the human body appear to be "spiritually cheerful".
Why is this an "illusion"? Because the superficial spirit is not real, but the last struggle of the human body when it is terminally ill.
In this case, the folk call it "returning to the light". From a medical point of view, it is that the human body secretes a large amount of adrenaline hormones, which temporarily changes people's mental state. However, this "change" is not long-term.
Many children believe that the sudden improvement of their seriously ill parents is definitely a blessing from Heaven, and thus a miracle has occurred. In fact, this is not a miracle, but the last light of life.
If one day, we find that the old man who is sick in bed can suddenly get up, or act like a changed person, then we must be mentally prepared. Because the moment of return will soon come.
04
Before the old man returns, he always hopes to return to his "hometown".
Chinese most important thing is "hometown". Wherever your hometown is, you should return to it. Because the foundation cannot be forgotten, even if you leave your hometown for many years, you must return to your hometown when you are old.
There was once an old overseas Chinese who would return to his hometown every few years to worship his ancestors and visit the graves, anyway, he had the feelings of his hometown. In the period before he left, he traveled frequently to and from the countryside, and even chose to live in the countryside.
After three months, the old man left. The children sighed that their father predicted that his limit was coming, so he chose to return to his hometown and return to the roots.
No matter when, our hometown is the place where we were "born" and raised, and we must not forget it.
Perhaps, when we are young, we will feel that "hometown" is not interesting, so we will go away from home, work silently in a strange city, and rarely think of our hometown in our hearts.
However, when we are old, we will be particularly "nostalgic". In the mind, in the heart, what he thinks and thinks is the past and memory of his hometown.
In fact, the older people are, the more they want to "fall leaves and take root", which is the understanding brought by experience.
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Before the old man returned, he would always dream of his former relatives.
As mentioned above, the older people are, the more nostalgic they are. In fact, this kind of "nostalgia" can be both nostalgia for the hometown and nostalgia for relatives and friends.
There are many elderly people who always dream of "deceased" relatives. What does this mean? Either it means that the limit is coming, or it means that "touching the scene" is imminent.
Dreams are simple and simple, but complex and complex. The simplicity is that what you dream about is what you think every day. The complexity is that the emergence of dreams is also related to many factors.
But in any case, the old man who is about to leave will eventually dream of his deceased relatives. Because they are sick in bed, they often think about the past, so these deceased relatives will naturally appear in the dream.
This, which seems terrible, is actually just a normal situation. That's all.
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