Zhang Ailing said: If you like a person, you will be humbled to the dust and then blossom.
This sentence is very appropriate to Li Lianglei.
Li Lianglei, a 16-year-old simple and beautiful, met 26-year-old Wang Lihong.
At that time, Wang Lihong was a simple, kind, simple, positive, and talented big boy.
A young girl with tricks, when she meets such a high-quality idol, love is like thunder and earth fire, which is about to explode.
They fell in love.
5 years after marriage, 42-year-old Wang Lihong also said that he did not need to set up a person, not a man with a heart.
Unexpectedly, 3 years later, he would overturn.
On the night of December 17, 2021, Li Lianglei sent a long article to disclose the beginning and end of the divorce, crying blood, and disclosed the bits and pieces of the 8-year marriage.
Gave birth to three children in 8 years full-time
In November 2013, Wang Lihong revealed the identity of his wife, Li Lianglei, in the early hours of the morning.
Li Lianglei is a highly educated female student who graduated from Columbia University with a master's degree. Such a beautiful, gentle and cultured girl is enough to match the "high-quality idol" Wang Lihong.
Wang Lihong's family can be said to be a family of scholars. Lihong Wang holds a master's degree from Berkeley College of Music.
My grandmother was a high-achieving student from the Department of Economics of Tsinghua University, and her parents were both high-caliber students at The Famous University of Bay Bay. The older brother has a Ph.D. from the University of Chicago, the sister-in-law has a master's degree from the University of Chicago, and even the younger brother has a master's degree from the Massachusetts Institute of Technology.
In July 2014, the eldest daughter, Carrie Wang, was born. After a gap of 2 years, in 2016, the second daughter Wang Jiana was born. In August 2018, the third son, Wang Jiayao, was born.
When his eldest daughter was born, Wang Lihong went into the delivery room to accompany the delivery, and in his words, getting married and having children was the craziest thing he had ever done.
On the day his wife gave birth, he revealed that he was more tired than his wife in the delivery room because of the excitement, excitement and nervousness experienced during the day.
When her wife faced the changes in her body shape during pregnancy, childbirth, and lactation, Li Lianglei claimed that she was alone. Wang Lihong did not pay any attention to and care about his wife's physical and mental changes.
After getting married and having a baby, Li Lianglei has always been at home full-time, so it has been 8 years. In Li Lianglei's words, she is at home as a driver, cleaner, cleaning aunt, general manager, special assistant, teacher and other work, and 24 hours a year.
In these 8 years, Li Lianglei has continuously experienced pregnancy and childbirth, she has not gone out to work, and she has no income.
Because there is no income at home full-time, he is suspected, humiliated and coldly violent by his mother-in-law and husband Wang Lihong. From the beginning of her marriage, she was forced to enter into a prenuptial property agreement.
Unexpectedly, after marriage, Li Lianglei did not have a share in the common property.
Mother-in-law manages money
After marriage, all of Wang Lihong's income was managed by his mother.
Since the marriage of 8 years, the expenses of the three children are all responsible for Wang Lihong, and his wife Li Lianglei has never used her husband's money to buy any luxury goods, and has always lived a simple life.
When Wang Lihong filed for divorce, Li Lianglei found out that Wang Lihong had transferred his property. The car is in the name of the mother-in-law, and the house is in the name of Wang Lihong.
8 years full-time without any income, in the event of divorce, but also to be net out of the house. This is what really happened to Li Lianglei.
The rich wife, who is ostensibly an idol, not only has no right to speak in the in-laws' family, but also does not have the financial power, and lives on her mother-in-law and husband.
Li Lianglei, who is highly educated, does not want a divorce yet.
When you see it clearly, you look down on it
When you see it clearly, you look down on it.
Wang Lihong has been married for 8 years, cheating in marriage many times, and dating different girls in different cities.
Wang Lihong is also a female artist who cheated on the married Wu surname.
Li Lianglei also pointed out that Wang Lihong has unhealthy hobbies, don't care about the world's eyes, and be with the right people.
The amount of information here is very large, so let's take a good look.
If a woman is willing to have three children for a man, it is absolutely love.
Li Lianglei has adoration and deep love for Wang Lihong, and even learned that Wang Lihong has cheated many times in marriage, she can forgive and endure, and only wants to quietly take the child at home and wait for Wang Lihong to come home.
Li Lianglei silently managed the appearance of a beautiful and happy family, but behind it silently shed tears. Every time a child's birthday and an important holiday, Wang Lihong is absent.
Wang Lihong was a few months away after marriage, and when the children were heartbroken and fell into her arms and wept, her heart was dripping blood.
Just when Li Lianglei was discouraged and wanted to maintain a superficial marriage and give her children a complete family, she did not expect that Wang Lihong proposed a divorce on the grounds that she did not want the girl she liked to be a little third in the future.
Why is Li Lianglei, who is highly educated, so humble?
With 3 children, this is the weakness of the mother.
Raising 3 children alone after divorce
Slamming the door is Wang Lihong's personal design.
According to Fan Weiqi, Wang Lihong usually wears a pair of shoes for 10 years. A piece of clothing will be worn repeatedly, influenced by his mother, he is usually very frugal, traveling in economy class.
Treating the three children, Wang Lihong did not waste extravagantly, and the eldest daughter wore old clothes for the second daughter and the younger son.
Frugality is right, slamming the door is not enough. In the event of divorce, transfer all property. In any case, the 8 years of marriage can also be regarded as the joint property of the husband and wife, and it should be half of Li Lianglei's.
According to Li Lianglei, she herself is a girl who is not short of money. She also has her own pride, she has never been vain, and she has not gained her current life because of Wang Lihong.
This was proved by Lu Yu, who once commented that Li Lianglei was a gentle, intelligent and assertive girl.
Li Lianglei revealed that after the divorce, she will raise three children alone, and will not open her mouth to ask Wang Lihong for money, she will not ask Wang Lihong's money. Because she can raise three children by her own efforts.
All 3 children grew up with their mothers, which is also the best result. After all, Wang Lihong is outside to create a good father's personality, in fact, it is several months after leaving.
Li Lianglei revealed that she will be born again and set a good example for her children.
At the end of the article, Wang Lihong was also given good advice.
They all say that breaking up is about character. Anyone who divorces and tears each other apart has a bad character.
Li Lianglei still hopes that Wang Lihong can change and be sober.
This is the independence and sobriety of Kochi women.
Throughout the book, Li Lianglei is logical and strict, and she is definitely not an ordinary and ordinary girl.
She didn't have any resentment, but was very calm, as if she was venting her grievances over the years.
In the 8 years since she got married, the grievances and misunderstandings she has endured are indeed unacceptable to many women.
Li Lianglei herself is also a white, rich and beautiful woman who is still highly educated, and she does not care about money.
It's just because it's hard to calm down.
As Yi Shu said: I want a lot of love, and if there is no love, then there will be a lot of money. If there are neither, it is good to be healthy.
With a healthy body and 3 children, in this marriage, Li Lianglei is not without gains.