Why are most of the husbands of "ugly women" excellent? Don't look at what they all have
Everyone has a heart for beauty, so the ancient "four ugly women" are far less famous than the "four beautiful women", but the fate of the four ugly women is much better than the four beautiful women, and they are all married to their favorite people, and the husbands and gentlemen are very good. Since they have been shortlisted for the list of the four ugly women, they are naturally ugly to a new height, and it is not too much to use a word to describe it today, so what ability do they have to find a good person?
First of all, let's understand the mother-in-law, who is the first of the four ugly women, and the Tang Dynasty's "Yu Yu Ji • Ugly People" describes the mother-in-law as "hammering the forehead and the shape of the chamois black." That is to say, the mother-in-law's face is like a hammer, short and black, and it is said that in the process of inventing the mirror, she was so frightened by her appearance that she almost fainted. Although her mother was extremely ugly, according to historical records, she was kind and virtuous, had a broad mind, and got along well with the emperor's concubine Concubine. In addition, the concubine was also wise, and the Yellow Emperor trusted her very much and entrusted the harem to her. In addition, in the yellow emperor's great cause of defeating the Yan Emperor and killing Xuan You to unify China, the concubine also showed extraordinary ability.
The Yellow Emperor and his grandmother had a deep affection, and the grandmother also encouraged those women who looked inferior with her own personal experience: "You can't forget to sharpen your morality; you can't decline the purity of your heart, as long as you do this, who will be hurt if you look ugly?" ”
The second most ugly woman, Zhong Lichun, was the daughter of Ling Ling of Wuyan County (present-day Dongping County, Shandong) in the Warring States period, known as Zhong Wuyan. His forehead was high and convex, his eyes were sunken, his nostrils were turned up, his head was large and hairy, and he had a throat knot larger than that of men, and he was nearly forty years old and had not yet married. However, Zhong Lichun never felt inferior because of his ugly appearance, and since he was a child, he had great ambitions, read a lot of military books, and ran to King Qi Xuan to propose a woman who wanted to become king, and King Qi Xuan actually agreed, and then made her queen.
This is definitely the story of the ugly duckling turning into a swan, at the same time, there are two idioms handed down in China, "ugly victory without salt" and "self-recommendation pillow mat", Zhong Wuyan is also called "saltless niangniang" by posterity, and the folk have been circulating the legend that "the saltless lady looks ugly, she is the foundation of the Country of Qi".
The third is Meng Guang of the Eastern Han Dynasty, the daughter of the rich man in the county, this woman is black and fat, incomparably powerful, poor looks, thirty unmarried, but it is not that no one marries, but she has a high vision, ordinary people do not put it in their eyes, threatening that Liang Hong, the first talent of the day, is not married, the key is to admire his character. After Liang Hong heard about it, he refused many people who came to the door to propose relatives, and took the initiative to invite someone to Go to Meng Guang's house to hire.
7 days after marriage, Meng Guang took off qi luo's clothes, changed into coarse cloth clothes, and began to live a family life. Meng Guang gave up the good life at home, followed her husband Jun to live in seclusion in the mountains, farming and weaving as a profession, in their leisure time the two of them chanted poems and played the piano, and the life was happy and harmonious, Meng Guang was evaluated by her husband: "This real Liang Hong's wife is also!" In addition to being willing to pay for her husband, Meng Guang also had great respect for Liang Hong, who, in order to evade the conscription of Emperor Zhang of Han, ran to the gaobo family of the great clan as a servant. During the period, when Meng Guang delivered food to Liang Hong, he raised the tray as high as his eyebrows, and this scene was seen by Gao Bo, who lamented that the man who could marry such a virtuous wife must not be an ordinary man. This has also become the origin of the case.
The fourth is the Ruan clan of the Eastern Jin Dynasty, that is, the wife of xu Yun, a famous scholar of the Eastern Jin Dynasty, who said that when the cave house was candlelit at night, Xu Yun first opened the red hijab, and was really startled by the bride's appearance, and was about to grab the door and go out, but was dragged by the bride. Xu Yun struggled and questioned her: "Women have four virtues, how many do you meet?" Nguyen replied: "All I lack is beauty, and the reader has a hundred lines, how many do you meet?" Xu Yun replied, "I have everything I can do!" Ruan Shi then pressed the question: "Headed by Bai Xingde, you are lustful and unethical, how can you say that you are ready?" These words made Xu Yun dumbfounded, and from then on the husband and wife respected and loved each other.
Xu Yun was in punctuality in Ren County, and was captured by Emperor Ming of Wei for appointing his fellow villagers. When Xu Yun was about to be captured by the soldiers, Ruan Shi hurriedly chased him out and instructed: "For Ming Jun, although he uses reason to say, you cannot intercede." After Xu Yun was taken away, the family cried and shouted, but only Nguyen calmed down and told his family: "He will come back soon." After saying that, he cooked millet porridge and waited for Xu Yun to come back.
During the review, Emperor Wei Mingdi questioned why he promoted his fellow countrymen, and Xu Yun said truthfully: "The selection of talents is naturally to appoint my own understanding, these people are my fellow countrymen, and I naturally know who of them has any talents." If any of these fellow countrymen of the subjects do not act, I am willing to be punished. Sure enough, soon after, Xu Yun was released home.
After Xu Yun was killed by his political enemy Sima Shi, the other party considered whether to cut the grass and root out Xu Yun's two sons, so they sent someone to inquire. And Nguyen had already guessed this, and explained to his two sons in advance: "No matter who comes, you should not show sadness, nor should you talk about the important affairs of the government." After the inquirers returned to report, Sima Shi thought that Xu Yun's two sons would not be able to become a great weapon, and immediately dismissed the idea of killing them, so Nguyen used her wisdom to save the lives of the two sons.