Everyone has a different story and encounter,
For the family that grew up on their own,
There are also different memories.
In the process of a person's growth,
Can it be cultivated
Self-confident, self-reliant, self-disciplined character
and social skills,
It is inseparable from the influence of the original family.
So what is a family of origin?
How do we get in the family of origin
What about injecting psychological nourishment into your child?
County Customs Work Committee, County Women's Federation, County Education Bureau
Launched jointly with the county news center (radio and television station).
""Deqing Sister-in-law" Family Teaching Hall" No. 40
Let's talk about the mysteries of family.
Family of origin
People generally have two families in their lifetime, one is the family where they were born and grew up, and the other is the family established after entering the married life. Psychologists refer to the family in which an individual grows up as a native family. The original family shapes people's personality, affects personality growth, as well as interpersonal relationships, the ability to manage emotions, etc. The influence of the family of origin on us is like a genetic code, engraved in our personality patterns and behavioral patterns. A child who grows up in a discordant family can be said to have been influenced by the family of origin all their lives.
We who are influenced by our original families,
How to create one for your child
What about a good native family environment?
Six psychological nutritions
Unconditional Admission (0-3 months)
The Greatest Weight of Life (0-3 months)
Security (4 months - 3 years)
How to give your child a sense of security
(1) Mom is emotionally stable
(2) The relationship between husband and wife is harmonious
(3) Let the child fully experience it within a safe line of sight.
What an impact does a lack of security have
(1) Emotional instability, easy to get angry
(2) Likes to control others
(3) It is easy to have biased behavior in adolescence
Affirmation, Appreciation, Praise, Recognition (4-5 years old)
Dad is more important than mom, praise the child more
Learning, Cognition, Model (6-7 years old)
Children need an example to learn from, and mom and dad should pay attention to their words and deeds.
Freedom of choice (7+ years old)
Give your child more opportunities to choose, and don't let parents make decisions.
Special guests
National Second-level Psychological Counselor,
Lecturer of the county "Tree People" Family Education Lecturer Group,
Teacher of Wuyang School Education Group
Shen Yinmei
Viewing method
Tv premiere
Cultural Life Channel:
Friday, December 17 at 19:00
News Channel:
Friday, December 17 at 20:10 p.m
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Deqing Women's Federation WeChat public account
Interactive engagement
Growing up is not a moment,
It's a process.
Parenthood is a wonderful journey,
If you want to find a way that is both easy and easy,
Can children be more confident, self-conscious, self-disciplined, and self-loving?
Congratulations on finding the organization!
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Video: Pan Min
Editor: Huang Peiwen
Executive Editor-in-Chief: Gui Li Zhe
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Let's hug our childhood selves together!