Living in this world, we can't avoid getting along with others, but this is not to say that any kind of person can get along, some people are worth getting along with, and some people are not worth getting along with at all.
If a person has good character and is worth getting along with, then we can get along with each other.
But if the other party is not good, selfish, and always wants to make a profit, will you still get along?
In this society, the story of the farmer and the snake often appears, and your kindness is sometimes trampled on.
You never know what kind of person you have favored, and you are likely to take revenge.
People who were smiling at you one second may turn a cold eye to you the next.
When you have something to ask for, you may bow your knees, and once you succeed, you will be kicked far away, and even put on small shoes for you.
Walking in this world, you must polish your eyes, people with these two characteristics must not have deep friendship, otherwise you can only suffer losses.
01: Greedy people, don't make deep friends
People living in this world should have a bottom line, but some people ignore the bottom line and do a lot of unexpected things.
Such a person, even if you have a good relationship, you must immediately break away, otherwise you will be hurt.
In the face of such people, interests are always the first, and they will not consider each other's friendship.
Even if you have helped him when he encounters difficulties, they will not remember your goodness, as long as it is beneficial to themselves, they will not hesitate to turn their faces with you.
Simply put, greedy, bottomless people are really terrible, they are demons walking in the world.
Some time ago, my friend Aaron blackmailed a friend for many years, originally they had a good relationship, but because after a loan, their relationship completely changed.
At that time, the friend's father was in urgent need of a sum of money in the hospital, and although Aaron was very tight, he still squeezed out some for him, and the friend was particularly touched at the time and said that he would double the repayment.
Originally, Aaron thought that the money would be returned soon, but he did not expect to drag it out for a long time, and then the money was not only not repaid, but his friend came to borrow money again, this time because he had some problems.
Aaron thought about it and didn't lend it to him.
Generally speaking, if you borrow money and don't pay it back, you shouldn't borrow money again, but the other party doesn't think so at all, and Aaron feels that the other party should also understand his own meaning.
As the saying goes, it is not difficult to borrow well and borrow again, but if you borrow money and do not repay it, how can others still lend it to you?
That's what Aaron thought, and that's what he did.
But unexpectedly, this time it annoyed the other party, he felt that Aaron disregarded the friendship between each other, and even saw death and could not be saved, such a friend is better than nothing.
When the other party said this, Aaron was particularly angry, bluntly saying that he would pay back the money, and if he did not pay it back, he would take other ways.
At Aaron's insistence, the other party repaid the money he had borrowed before, and after receiving the money, Aaron did not want to directly block the other party.
Friends are inherently mutual, rather than one party always giving and the other constantly taking.
If your friend is the one who keeps asking, then persuade you to end it quickly, only by ending you will not be hurt more.
At any time, you must know that the greedy people in your heart will only cross the river and tear down the bridge again and again.
With them, you will never get benefits, they get along with you because you have value, and when you have no value, he slips faster than anyone.
02: Those who have to move forward, you have to stay away
In the eyes of the inch-forward person, everything you do is taken for granted, if you can do it all the time, it's fine, but if you suddenly don't do it, he will loudly rebuke you, as if it is really your fault.
For example, if the benefits issued in the unit are eggs, and you give them to the other party because you don't eat eggs, after a long time, he will think that your eggs are his.
When you don't give, or give to others, he will be particularly angry, such a person must not have deep friendships.
People who have to make progress will generally not have a good ending, and there will be no sincere good friends around them.
Star Sun Li met such a person who had to make progress.
Because of her kindness, she sponsored a poor student, who supposedly should work hard to repay the other party's concern for her.
But unfortunately, he is not only accustomed to a little bit of funding, but also feels that the other party has too little funding.
When Sun Li knew that he was particularly able to spend money in school, he cut off the funding, and did not expect that the other party was mad.
He even accused Sun Li of being rich and unkind, and he was so rich, but he was reluctant to take it out to give him flowers.
He seemed to have forgotten that No matter how rich Sun Li had, he earned it himself, and had nothing to do with him, and that these money families had complete control and use.
To put it simply, it is the love of people to help you, and it is the duty not to help you, which is not wrong in the first place.
Seriously, those who have gained inches just don't know how to be grateful, and what they often do is repay virtue with resentment.
The better the other person treats him, the more he acts like a vampire, grabbing the other person until he sucks all your blood dry.
In fact, in your and my life, I have also met such people, maybe you are brave enough to break off relations with this kind of person, but there are also some kind people who care about friendship, but they refuse to let go.
To tell the truth, with such a person, you simply can't get out of any feelings, the other party gives you, forever after the cold hurt.
As the saying goes, your kindness should be a little sharp, it is true, if your kindness has no bottom line, then you are doomed to suffer in this life.
The rest of his life is short, and in this thin and cool society, people's hearts are really too unpredictable.
I hope that each of us, in the process of interacting with others, can polish our own eyes and not be blinded by others.
I also hope that we can meet good people, and the sincerity of our efforts will never be disappointed.
Encourage with the King!
-END-
About the Author:
Su Xiaobei is a cutting-edge emotional writer and marital psychological counselor. If you have a problem and don't know how to solve it, you can ask me a question and look forward to your consultation and message.