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Every girl hopes to meet a man who puts himself on the tip of his heart, who can know his own cold and warm, understand his own sorrows and joys, and can hold himself in the palm of his hand.
There are too many true and false feelings in this world, which make people uncertain, some people say they love you, but they turn around and love others, some people obviously don't love you, but they pretend to be attentive to you, and finally when you are completely immersed in it, you learn that it is only your own self-inflicted sentimentality.
There are many levels of love, some people only have a shallow liking for you, some people are only attracted to you because of one aspect of your characteristics, choose to be close to you, and wait until you expose your shortcomings, they will have an escape psychology. People who can easily let go of your hand and choose to stay away from you are not really likes.
What we all need to know is that like and love are different, and there are many people we like in this life, but there are very few people who really love. In the end, we will all meet such a person, who knows all your good and bad sides, but is still willing to stand firmly by your side and accompany you through the long road ahead.
It is said that men's love is very shallow, shallow enough to change at will, it can be said that no love is not loved, but many times we underestimate men's firmness in love, once a man completely falls in love with a person, it will also become extremely firm, and it will be very dedicated to love.
If a man can say that he will give up on you, he can easily choose to stay away from you, which can only mean that he is not loving enough, and when he completely falls in love with you, he will not let go of you easily.
So, what kind of performance will a man love a person into the bone? These six words are clear.
Willing
Men's likes are hidden in the two words "willing", and only when they completely put you on the tip of their hearts will they be particularly willing to give you.
It is said that to measure a man's sincerity to you, it depends on whether he is willing to spend money for you, it is not easy for everyone to earn money, will not spend money on people who are not related to themselves for no reason, when a man completely falls in love with you, he will be absolutely generous to you, as long as it is something you like, he will be willing to buy it for you, even if he is very angry with himself, he is reluctant to let you be wronged.
Although monetary reluctance is important, it cannot be the only way to test men's sincerity, because for some men, women who can be satisfied with material things will not fully pay attention to it.
A man's sincerity, in addition to the material willingness, is more important in the daily relationship, he will be in the process of getting along with you in daily life, his intentions will be exposed to be very obvious, willing to give you unconditional trust, willing to spend time on you, willing to give you his infinite tolerance and patience, willing to give you a lifelong commitment.
When a man really moves his heart, he will expose his soft side, and there will be many differences between you and outsiders, no matter how tough he is in front of outsiders, he will always be infinitely tolerant in your place. Many times he treats you more importantly than himself and is willing to give you everything within his ability.
A man's willingness is to give you the best love, and that willingness is unique and will give you a full sense of security.
Weakness
Some people treat love as a game, with the mentality of only winning and not losing, only thinking about whether they will lose, but never considering your feelings.
I have heard too much about taking the initiative in love and you lose, and whoever bows his head first after the quarrel loses, because he is swayed by so many remarks, resulting in many people who do not dare to take the initiative in love, do not dare to show weakness, for fear that they will lose.
It's just that the final result of such words is to watch love slip out of your hands, and finally you win the temper, but lose the love.
When a person does not love you enough, he will regard self-esteem and face as more important than you, and after a quarrel, he will always hold up his proud head, speak harsh words, wait for you to take the initiative to ask for peace, and finally use a condescending look to pretend to be forgive, never willing to take the initiative to show weakness.
Only the man who truly loves you, he will take the matter of being with you as very important, compared to this matter, everything else is not important, even if one second he swore that he would not take the initiative to ignore you this time, and the next second he took the initiative to show weakness and frantically punch his face.
Chen Zhuo in "Xiao Min's Family" is like this, after he quarreled with Xiao Min, he swore that he would not take the initiative this time, but after getting drunk, he shouted loudly "I was wrong", although it was a little funny at that moment, but it completely exposed his feelings for Xiao Min.
Men love you to the bone and will definitely show weakness to you, don't doubt it, because he really cares about you.
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The highest state of love is "heartache", and only people who love you to the bone will have such a performance.
If a person only has a superficial liking for you, there will be no painful reaction, he only cares about whether he is happy with you, is not willing to accept negative energy, and will not pity your encounter.
When a person completely puts you in his heart, he will have a strong resonance with you, will understand you in particular, will have a painful feeling about your unfortunate encounters, even if everyone is on your opposite side, he will firmly support you and accompany you.
Still take chen Zhuo in "Xiao Min's Family" as an example, when Xiao Min was in her hometown, she had a very unfortunate encounter, which led to a deep shadow in her heart, everyone did not believe her, she hid that past in her heart, even if it was a long time, her heart could not go through.
She originally thought that she would hide this matter in her heart and would never say it, but after meeting Chen Zhuo, she bravely said it, she said that she still couldn't help but shed tears when she talked about the past, and the pain in Chen Zhuo's eyes who listened could not be hidden, and she couldn't help but cry out with Xiao Min.
The person who truly loves you, even if everyone does not believe you, but he will always stand behind you to support you, he will feel sorry for your past, heartache for your unfortunate experience, willing to spend the rest of his life holding you in the palm of his hand to care, giving you full of warmth and love.
Love will have many forms, and it is not possible to measure all feelings in the same way.
But at the same time, there are many things in common, and we can use some general theories to test a person's love for you.
Men's love is generally more direct and clear, if they really love you, it will be difficult to hide, that part of the willingness, it is difficult to ignore, that part of the heartache, let people move, even if it is your fault, even if he swears that he will not pay attention to you again, but in the next second will take the initiative to find you, will show weakness to you.
Only by doing these six words can it be proved that he truly loves you, if not, you must put a question mark and do not believe it easily.